in my opinion.. it is a no win..
topic:... you say something there mad at you.. you don't say something and they find out you knew.. they're mad at you... you're damned if you do, and you're damned if you don't..
might as well flip a coin..

In yo face!!!....

I did the same and to the same end. I found out my best friends GF was playing around behind his back.. When I told him her defence was that I'd only said so because she'd rejected me. He chose to believe her. I'd never tell again . The messenger tends to be the one who gets shot

Hahaha that sounds like payback you're talkin about lol..but cant do that do my friend unless its returning the favor lol

I stay out of it as much as possible, but I have known to drop the casual comment, like,

"Oh yeah, I ran into Dave at Jay's Bar. He was with Nancy. Is he good friends with Nancy's brother or something?"

pretty innocent way to divulge...lol

Isn't that so much fun!

Honestly, if they meet the status of a "true friend", I like to think that I care about them enough to always be honest with him, even if it means hurting their feelings by being the bearer of bad news...

Hope my friends love me enough to do that for me

I would tell.....if under alcoholic influence.

No I keep my mouth shut.

But if someone can't pick up from how I refuse to deal with someone that some kind of "mess" is going and doesn't take it as a heads up to see what is really going on well they are too far into their own delusions to pay attention if I had notarized transcrips and photos.

One thing I will NOT tolerate is a cheat because if they will screw up someone they are suppose to care about what would they do to me. I have terminated employees, refused to do business with cheaters and even essential services because I think it says a lot about their basic character and maybe even professional skills.

You're right mam, sooo very true, it does say alot about them !!!

I have found it best to keep my mouth shut and mind my own bussiness.

Ada girl

I would have to have a friend first before I could determine that.

I feel what you're sayin,but if you say nothing ,it dose'nt make you a dishonest person, unless you and your friend/s always share everything like that where its kinda like an agreement thing ect.,but if you're ask about it then thats another thing,i know off a few friends that i have and if i were to do such thing,the results would most definitly be destructive!!! I'm a strong beleiver in truth and loyalty , but SOMETIMES, SOMTHINGS just aint good to say,,,so i would say think about it first and see if its worth it,,caus the "right thing",aint realy the same for every situation!!..I'm a strong beleiver in building rather than breaking down,i hate to see people break up,sometimes its best,but keep in mind, there's know such thing is a "perfect relationship", everybody aint goin to always be loyal,but that does,nt mean they cant work on it and make it work right?!

Too many variables...I would have to know almost as much as the "three" people involved and somehow I don't think that's ever gonna happen...Getting involved in a friends love life is tricky business and I would not enter unless I was invited....I might drop hints by being indifferent toward and about the cheater when he or she came up in conversation or attended the same social gathering(s)...I would damn sure let my friend know I was less than impressed with their choice, but to state a fact w/o having all the facts is not my style...

Hahahaha well for me, thats quit possible if i was thinking about it but couldn't make up my mind,ide be like ,arrrr *&#% it, dave,i gat somthing tuh tell ya bud, julie been &%#@*%# harry lil while now,oh yeah,even in ya bed!!

Thats excactly what i meant right there it does make a ton of sense right?

(((Atwater)))

*grin*

I would keep my mouth shut.