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Topic: am I too ugly to date
seethestar's photo
Wed 06/25/14 01:34 PM
Where do I start.. I'm so spent

RainbowTrout's photo
Wed 06/25/14 01:43 PM
I don't think I have ever met someone who is too ugly on the outside to date. I have met some too ugly on the inside to date.

no photo
Wed 06/25/14 01:59 PM
Edited by larsonc on Wed 06/25/14 01:59 PM

Where do I start.. I'm so spent


Well, crank up the music and dance!



It always makes me feel better flowerforyou

CowboyGH's photo
Wed 06/25/14 02:06 PM


Where do I start.. I'm so spent


Well, crank up the music and dance!



It always makes me feel better flowerforyou


lol cute :)

mikey5360's photo
Wed 06/25/14 02:10 PM
Edited by mikey5360 on Wed 06/25/14 02:11 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=2TOAjoLw0aQ

"Not Pretty Enough"
By
Kasey Chambers

Am I not pretty enough
Is my heart too broken
Do I cry too much
Am I too outspoken

Don't I make you laugh
Should I try it harder
Why do you see right through me

I live, I breathe, I let it rain on me
I sleep, I wake, I try hard not to break
I crave, I love, I've waited long enough
I try as hard as I can

Am I not pretty enough
Is my heart too broken
Do I cry too much
Am I too outspoken

Don't I make you laugh
Should I try it harder
Why do you see right through me

I laugh, I feel, I make believe it's real
I fall, I freeze, I pray down on my knees
I hope, I stand, I take it like a man
I try as hard as I can

Am I not pretty enough
Is my heart too broken
Do I cry too much
Am I too outspoken

Don't I make you laugh
Should I try it harder
Why do you see right through me

Goofball73's photo
Wed 06/25/14 04:13 PM
Not to get personal, but it sounds to me that you have had many people tell you that you aren't pretty. I don't know your whole story but reading this thread made me think that their opinions have greatly influenced your own opinion of yourself. Others have told you that you are quite pretty and I agree with that. You need to learn this sentence...."I am somebody special cause God created me and God don't create no junk". Mix that in with, "Don't like my looks. Dial 1-800-IDONTGIVEAFUCK". And then wish them God's blessings and move along. :thumbsup:

seethestar's photo
Wed 06/25/14 04:24 PM
thank you for all you guys kind words and compliments it means alot to me I've really been struggling with this stuff all of my life 30 you would think I'd be more mature but no

I mean the stuff sneaks up on me just when I begin to feel confident like the user today who messaged me telling me how ugly I was or like the Men who have rejected and dumped me all my life

CowboyGH's photo
Wed 06/25/14 04:28 PM

Not to get personal, but it sounds to me that you have had many people tell you that you aren't pretty. I don't know your whole story but reading this thread made me think that their opinions have greatly influenced your own opinion of yourself. Others have told you that you are quite pretty and I agree with that. You need to learn this sentence...."I am somebody special cause God created me and God don't create no junk". Mix that in with, "Don't like my looks. Dial 1-800-IDONTGIVEAFUCK". And then wish them God's blessings and move along. :thumbsup:


rofl very good advice

:thumbsup:

CowboyGH's photo
Wed 06/25/14 04:29 PM

thank you for all you guys kind words and compliments it means alot to me I've really been struggling with this stuff all of my life 30 you would think I'd be more mature but no

I mean the stuff sneaks up on me just when I begin to feel confident like the user today who messaged me telling me how ugly I was or like the Men who have rejected and dumped me all my life


Wow, sounds to me like a lot of people that have personal issues about their own looks, degrading someone else to make themselves feel better.

no1phD's photo
Wed 06/25/14 05:05 PM
I said it before I'll say it again.
God does not favor only the Roses.

mikey5360's photo
Wed 06/25/14 06:25 PM
Edited by mikey5360 on Wed 06/25/14 06:24 PM

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 06/25/14 07:05 PM


thank you for all you guys kind words and compliments it means alot to me I've really been struggling with this stuff all of my life 30 you would think I'd be more mature but no

I mean the stuff sneaks up on me just when I begin to feel confident like the user today who messaged me telling me how ugly I was or like the Men who have rejected and dumped me all my life


Wow, sounds to me like a lot of people that have personal issues about their own looks, degrading someone else to make themselves feel better.


Everyone has their off and on days. Some deal with it better than others.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Wed 06/25/14 07:20 PM
When people are genuinely happy with their life, they don't pick on others. Heck, I've had put-downs from my own mum. And although she may not have meant it, it still hurt. I think she was just trying to get me to be more practical, but this is a dating site, so people feel free to abuse more than when they're offline. Are they so pathetic, that they wanna send you crude messages? Yes. They are. I usually just turn the other cheek. I don't say one word back to them. They usually want some sort of response, which I'm too busy for

Chazster's photo
Thu 06/26/14 03:15 PM
I always felt too ugly to date as well. Many of us struggle with self doubt over one thing or another. The hardest person to convince that you are good enough is yourself.

seethestar's photo
Thu 06/26/14 03:22 PM

I always felt too ugly to date as well. Many of us struggle with self doubt over one thing or another. The hardest person to convince that you are good enough is yourself.


Preachin' to the choir

Chazster's photo
Thu 06/26/14 04:17 PM


I always felt too ugly to date as well. Many of us struggle with self doubt over one thing or another. The hardest person to convince that you are good enough is yourself.


Preachin' to the choir


I am married now, broke my fair share of hearts, and still always considered myself unattractive. Just be the best you that you can be.

Mat80's photo
Thu 06/26/14 07:45 PM
I seem to be dumped all the time too. I don't know what to do. I am very confused!

no photo
Fri 06/27/14 06:08 AM

Maybe it's why I've always been dumped. But the responses I've received all my life have been mixed. Usually negative though.


Yayy ...sad we should be proud of ourself no matter how pretty or ugly we are ... I admit I'm ugly but I like it flowerforyou

seethestar's photo
Fri 06/27/14 07:09 AM


Maybe it's why I've always been dumped. But the responses I've received all my life have been mixed. Usually negative though.


Yayy ...sad we should be proud of ourself


no matter how pretty or ugly we are ... I admit I'm ugly but I like it flowerforyou


Hun I'm sorry, but... oh please

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