exactly

My stepkids didn't wear underwear, because their father didn't- I asked the ex once- the guys I know sans underwear were SEALs and the kids dad is basically a soft turd, why don't they wear underwear- I'm not doing a "beans/franks" problem. I usually wear a T-shirt all the time, even under a T-shirt.

I don`t wear anything under my clothes , to restrictive , and i think women can wear or not wear what they choose.

Then why does no one seem to want it these days?

A lot of the women I have been with needed to be committed, but they are closing down the Stat Mental Hospitals

Awww.. harmony.. you are getting the wrong picture.. don't think thumb.
. think Ukrainian sausage.
thank large corn dog..lmao..
okay I'll be heyv now.. Oh behave..

Very good question, I ask myself that all the time. From my experiences, it's because people almost fear commitment. And if they stick to one person, they give up all other men/women and what they might get. People these days only worry about the here and now basically. The "growing old together" idea has long been lost unfortunately. They care more about enjoying the ride and not putting forth the effort to make it to the final destination eg., growing old together, building a family, raising kids, and so on. Basically with the mind set, why have one when you can have two. Love is lost, it's becoming a selfish world. Like sex for instance in this context/discussion, it's about them and what they want. Not specifically sharing love with someone and "giving themselves" to that person. They are taking for themselves, not giving to please the other in that context.

That's hearsay

fear of disappointment mostly, imho

investing emotions is risky,,,

You struck gold there harmony "investing emotions". They don't want the work and commitment to the person, they are just taking the fun parts and leaving the rest... being selfish.

How about fear of working?

Almost everyone here has loved and lost at some point... Being disappointed is nothing new. A relationship actually working, is.

Also, as a side note: there was a muay thai dojo next to my judo dojo, some people crossed trained. A lot of them ended up with peronis (sp?)- where your thing takes a right angle. These guys no jock/no cup and with knees/feet flying at your stuff.

In one of his stand-up routines, comic Steve Martin said (paraphrasing), "I love European sports so much that the people of France have named me their #1 athletic supporter. They call me Jacques."

You all make good points.



I think that is what it basically comes down to..a ME world. What can I have, when I want it, where i want it. We have lost respect for each other...

But Thomas you made a good point too. What if a relationship does work? That's a very scary though TBH. Once single for so long, it'd hard to imagine someone else in your world.

commando ROCKS as long as the supporting cast has recently showered :) lol

must've been great spooners though

remember, the higher the level of intelligence, the lower is the percent found in the general population. WORD

perhaps one day I will hop on the USS enterprise and see you there ((your world))

^^^^^ You'd definitely have a welcome committee waiting at the gate

The "Story" is still being written...