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Thank you sweety : )
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Cowboy, you're a rare pearl of a man. Your (eventual) wife will be a very lucky lady to have you as her man. Stick to your principals. Thank you DatingOnMyMind, I appreciate that very much. Only problem I have with it all is patience lol, never been a virtue of mine. And today's woman, referring to my age area, seems to be all about sex. If there's no sex, they will get bored and leave. Which I guess in the end is a good thing though, because if being with me physically is all they intend. What would happen if say I got hurt and was paralyzed? I would rather find that answer before hand then something like that come up and have to deal with her leaving along with the tragedy of whatever it may have been and or any number of different scenarios. And it shows what they're truly after, physically or emotionally. sometimes a woman will think you are not interested in her romantically if something sexual does not happen, she will think she's been "friend - zoned" (though I can think of worse places to be - the "zone" = usually a death knell to romance) FYI Exactly and that kind of mindset comes from people automatically associating sex with relationships. Which they are not entirely associated with one another, you can have either one without the other. yes, I suppose, but what about the education piece and the communication? Just because she "thinks" you aren't interested because nothing "physical' has happened, doesn't mean she minds that fact....you've just left the impression (based on what HER experience has been) that you are not interested. A lot of women may be relieved to know that you are definitely interested and it won;t take "the sex sacrifice" to keep you with her. Do they KNOW this tho'? Have you ever talked with a woman about that? I mean it's none of my business, but this is about HER too. just a thought Yep, and a couple days after "the talk" lol is generally when they would leave. |
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Thank you DatingOnMyMind, I appreciate that very much. Only problem I have with it all is patience lol, never been a virtue of mine. And today's woman, referring to my age area, seems to be all about sex. If there's no sex, they will get bored and leave. Which I guess in the end is a good thing though, because if being with me physically is all they intend. What would happen if say I got hurt and was paralyzed? I would rather find that answer before hand then something like that come up and have to deal with her leaving along with the tragedy of whatever it may have been and or any number of different scenarios. And it shows what they're truly after, physically or emotionally. :::: I dont believe in sex before marriage. i was raised by several "cowboys" who all considered me their daughter and taught me that love is more important than lust. i am a virgin and proud of it. so just keep your head up :) Oh wow, that is incredibly awesome and very very very attractive and sexy. Hope you stick to it till you find the man worth it and will cherish you for all eternity. Knowing how lucky he is having a woman who saved herself for him. |
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Thanks, I am just scared that a good one will get away. Maybe the whole attraction thing is my self sabatoge. An excuse for it not to work. Ummm....self sabotage would be you thinking he wasn't into you (or attracted to you) and thus you sabotage things even before you give it a shot. Just sayin.... |
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Thanks, I am just scared that a good one will get away. Maybe the whole attraction thing is my self sabatoge. An excuse for it not to work. Ummm....self sabotage would be you thinking he wasn't into you (or attracted to you) and thus you sabotage things even before you give it a shot. Just sayin.... very logical point. 
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no its all in your head..lol
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no its all in your head..lol a guys head maybe but..... oh never mind my mind has run away again 
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... oh never mind my mind has run away again
Just set some food out for it, and it will come back. |
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No if you aren't attracted then it's not going to work....I learned that....
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Folks, there are different kinds of love and different physical ways to express love.
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Honestly guys.. I don't find or either need PHYSICAL ATTRACTION in Relationship.
They say when you fall Attraction comes first but I guess not. Curiosity comes first. when you met someone you have this ''curios thing'' about him or her and basically when you fall Attraction comes because some people are not attract by looks but by heart. |
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Honestly guys.. I don't find or either need PHYSICAL ATTRACTION in Relationship. They say when you fall Attraction comes first but I guess not. Curiosity comes first. when you met someone you have this ''curios thing'' about him or her and basically when you fall Attraction comes because some people are not attract by looks but by heart. Very true, someone you love will always look 100x more beautiful then anyone or anything else. Beauty is nothing but perception and your perception is influenced by your emotions. |
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