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So I'm all about dating and I just have one rule....no intimacy for 90 days.....if a man can't see my worth then he can't have the goods.....I think that's fair ohhh and one prerequisite he has to take me out at least 10 dates for the 90 day rule to apply...... That's fair..... 
Am I wrong and do you have any rules that you abide by that you won't break.... Have fun Minglers...... 
A question Tanzy, So for a guy to last 90 days, he would most likely have to really like you and see and feel a special chemistry as well as you feeling it too right? So you put the brakes on when you get to each light? Which is fine. Its your choice. But would it be ok, if a Man had a 90 day rule on spending money to take you out for at least 10 dates within 90 days? and No I'm not cheap, just making a point, though it may take 90 days to do so... 
Summer time sadness, Now I remember why i hate rules My bad I work for a living.....first off are you kidding me....isn't part of dating to get to know someone if he doesn't want to do that I'm cool.....neeeeeext Easiest thing in my life is getting a man.. |
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So I'm all about dating and I just have one rule....no intimacy for 90 days.....if a man can't see my worth then he can't have the goods.....I think that's fair ohhh and one prerequisite he has to take me out at least 10 dates for the 90 day rule to apply...... That's fair.....
Am I wrong and do you have any rules that you abide by that you won't break.... Have fun Minglers......
A question Tanzy, So for a guy to last 90 days, he would most likely have to really like you and see and feel a special chemistry as well as you feeling it too right? So you put the brakes on when you get to each light? Which is fine. Its your choice. But would it be ok, if a Man had a 90 day rule on spending money to take you out for at least 10 dates within 90 days? and No I'm not cheap, just making a point, though it may take 90 days to do so...
Summer time sadness, Now I remember why i hate rules howdy stranger..  I can attest to the fact he's not a cheap date either  you make a valid point though..
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That wasn't valid it was absurd....uh huh cheap too....
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if one can look at anothers opinion, without judgement, but for what they're saying.. he does make a valid point.. just sayin...
however.. when one takes it upon themselves to post in an open forum and expect EVERYone to agree with the op's opinions.. THAT would be considered absurd.. |
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if one can look at anothers opinion, without judgement, but for what they're saying.. he does make a valid point.. just sayin... however.. when one takes it upon themselves to post in an open forum and expect EVERYone to agree with the op's opinions.. THAT would be considered absurd.. HI there Zero...Ain't it fun... 
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Wed 06/18/14 09:14 PM
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if one can look at anothers opinion, without judgement, but for what they're saying.. he does make a valid point.. just sayin... however.. when one takes it upon themselves to post in an open forum and expect EVERYone to agree with the op's opinions.. THAT would be considered absurd.. (((((((( ZEE ))))))) !!!!!!!!  
For me, sex is a way of connecting emotionally and physically...It's a way to build a bond of intimacy, a way to feel close to my man...Not everyone will agree, but I feel that sexual intimacy is the strongest bond a couple can form for two reasons...It's a level playing field and it is the ONLY expression that separates "couple" relationships from ALL other types of relationships...I think withholding sex is mostly about control and there seems to be a common denominator among those that do...They almost always "imply" by their actions (dressing and talking provocatively) that they have a lot to offer in the bedroom...They "use" sex as a tool (no pun intended)...If it starts out that way, there is a better than average chance it will stay that way...Women who "use" sex will likely withhold it when they are pizzed at their man, when they want to control their man, when they want to manipulate their man, when they are bored with their man...Run Forrest, run!!!!....
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if one can look at anothers opinion, without judgement, but for what they're saying.. he does make a valid point.. just sayin... however.. when one takes it upon themselves to post in an open forum and expect EVERYone to agree with the op's opinions.. THAT would be considered absurd.. I never said to abide by my rules they are set for me so you seem to lack reading comprehension...... |
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So I'm all about dating and I just have one rule....no intimacy for 90 days.....if a man can't see my worth then he can't have the goods.....I think that's fair ohhh and one prerequisite he has to take me out at least 10 dates for the 90 day rule to apply...... That's fair.....
Am I wrong and do you have any rules that you abide by that you won't break.... Have fun Minglers......
A question Tanzy, So for a guy to last 90 days, he would most likely have to really like you and see and feel a special chemistry as well as you feeling it too right? So you put the brakes on when you get to each light? Which is fine. Its your choice. But would it be ok, if a Man had a 90 day rule on spending money to take you out for at least 10 dates within 90 days? and No I'm not cheap, just making a point, though it may take 90 days to do so...
Summer time sadness, Now I remember why i hate rules My bad I work for a living.....first off are you kidding me....isn't part of dating to get to know someone if he doesn't want to do that I'm cool.....neeeeeext Easiest thing in my life is getting a man.. Well yes, its kinda of a joke and kinda not. Its cool if you have a timeline, but how does his relationship naturally come about with a rule like yours. So I was posing the question as this...He likes you, You like him. You tell him you have a 90 day rule. and he has one as well. So now what hun....Green light, Red light, green light, red light. Oh what joy... Yep, Im sure you can get em, but how about keep em? Your not the only one who can get what ya like sister...Enjoy! 
I'm here for entertainment I have a relationship so who is the smarter single guy..... |
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if one can look at anothers opinion, without judgement, but for what they're saying.. he does make a valid point.. just sayin... however.. when one takes it upon themselves to post in an open forum and expect EVERYone to agree with the op's opinions.. THAT would be considered absurd.. (((((((( ZEE ))))))) !!!!!!!!
For me, sex is a way of connecting emotionally and physically...It's a way to build a bond of intimacy, a way to feel close to my man...Not everyone will agree, but I feel that sexual intimacy is the strongest bond a couple can form for two reasons...It's a level playing field and it is the ONLY expression that separates "couple" relationships from ALL other types of relationships...I think withholding sex is mostly about control and there seems to be a common denominator among those that do...They almost always "imply" by their actions (dressing and talking provocatively) that they have a lot to offer in the bedroom...They "use" sex as a tool (no pun intended)...If it starts out that way, there is a better than average chance it will stay that way...Women who "use" sex will likely withhold it when they are pizzed at their man, when they want to control their man, when they want to manipulate their man, when they are bored with their man...Run Forrest, run!!!!....
Sorry I have standards I want to bond emotionally because once you are physical you become distracted....why am I explaining myself to older people..... 
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if one can look at anothers opinion, without judgement, but for what they're saying.. he does make a valid point.. just sayin... however.. when one takes it upon themselves to post in an open forum and expect EVERYone to agree with the op's opinions.. THAT would be considered absurd.. I never said to abide by my rules they are set for me so you seem to lack reading comprehension...... apparently.. I'm not the only one |
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90 days..
. you would not make it one month dating me.. before you are breaking your own rules..  .. better yet not even two weeks.
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90 days..
. you would not make it one month dating me.. before you are breaking your own rules.. .. better yet not even two weeks.
Promises promises promises........ 
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if one can look at anothers opinion, without judgement, but for what they're saying.. he does make a valid point.. just sayin... however.. when one takes it upon themselves to post in an open forum and expect EVERYone to agree with the op's opinions.. THAT would be considered absurd.. (((((((( ZEE ))))))) !!!!!!!!
For me, sex is a way of connecting emotionally and physically...It's a way to build a bond of intimacy, a way to feel close to my man...Not everyone will agree, but I feel that sexual intimacy is the strongest bond a couple can form for two reasons...It's a level playing field and it is the ONLY expression that separates "couple" relationships from ALL other types of relationships...I think withholding sex is mostly about control and there seems to be a common denominator among those that do...They almost always "imply" by their actions (dressing and talking provocatively) that they have a lot to offer in the bedroom...They "use" sex as a tool (no pun intended)...If it starts out that way, there is a better than average chance it will stay that way...Women who "use" sex will likely withhold it when they are pizzed at their man, when they want to control their man, when they want to manipulate their man, when they are bored with their man...Run Forrest, run!!!!....
Sorry I have standards I want to bond emotionally because once you are physical you become distracted....why am I explaining myself to older people.....
Try to stay calm....
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I'm calm you are the one taking it personal....
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I'm calm you are the one taking it personal....
I was talking to Zee, not you ....Watch that reading comprehension youngster!!....
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The flesh is STRONG depending on where you're looking. 
Damn you are good...I can play with you all day but I have to go to work.... 
...and I will break you in 88 Ohhh great.....another challenger....I'm 4'11 because I never became full grown I acquired the art of stubbornness ...... |
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I'm calm you are the one taking it personal....
I was talking to Zee, not you ....Watch that reading comprehension youngster!!....
You quoted me.....so you need to be more observant...... |
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if one can look at anothers opinion, without judgement, but for what they're saying.. he does make a valid point.. just sayin... however.. when one takes it upon themselves to post in an open forum and expect EVERYone to agree with the op's opinions.. THAT would be considered absurd.. (((((((( ZEE ))))))) !!!!!!!!
For me, sex is a way of connecting emotionally and physically...It's a way to build a bond of intimacy, a way to feel close to my man...Not everyone will agree, but I feel that sexual intimacy is the strongest bond a couple can form for two reasons...It's a level playing field and it is the ONLY expression that separates a "couple" relationships from ALL other types of relationships...I think withholding sex is mostly about control and there seems to be a common denominator among those that do...They almost always "imply" by their actions (dressing and talking provocatively) that they have a lot to offer in the bedroom...They "use" sex as a tool (no pun intended)...If it starts out that way, there is a better than average chance it will stay that way...Women who "use" sex will likely withhold it when they are pizzed at their man, when they want to control their man, when they want to manipulate their man, when they are bored with their man...Run Forrest, run!!!!....
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ THIS IS WISDOM!! All you men out thrre read this, and remember it. You may avoid the feeling of total emasculation. Thank you, Leigh.
Definitely! Always a pleasure to read and learn from her articulate perspective. TY (((( HH ))))
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My 90 day threads always kill people.....it's hilarious....that's when I get to see who really is who.....thanks folks.....
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