Have you ever been intentionally deceived by anyone trying to take advantage and then they held a grudge against you when you found out their truth and left them in their own dust?

Ever been contacted by anyone online you couldn't quite understand even in writing?

I usually Google the German language that stuffs them right up

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I mean, it shows that her last log date was 2007, so maybe it's time to, you know, let the girl that was pretending that she was thinner just have her space.

Maybe she met a really nice guy. She misrepresented herself, but in the same sense that omitting something is a passive lie, she didn't show a fake picture of herself.

I know I play the advocate of the devil on here a lot of the time but it's also important to note that a lot of girls on this site talk about how they don't feel physically attractive enough, and there's probably more of a stigma for women than men in that department.

I drink whiskey, play Sega Genesis, and climb trees with a seemingly natural gift.

This physical obsession boggles me completely.

I mean, I'm 5'10"'ish, maybe a little taller, and guys are constantly worried about things they can't change.

It gets so boring.

Honestly, maybe if the standard of beauty rested upon the laurels of intelligence rather than weight (as long as that individual is taking care of his or herself) then it wouldn't be so necessary to complicate the basic emotions that regard caring about people.

I mean, I can do a lot of military-style exercises, but I didn't do it because I wanted to impress somebody. I liked doing it.

So if you like lying - cheers. Get good at it if you want.

But there is this weird standard that guys in decent shape with a fair level of intelligence won't date a big girl, and I think that must be [redacted] for bigger girls.

I mean, honestly. I don't trust someone who has never been a liar. I hear girls constantly talk about how they can't attract guys because they are heavier girls. Or fat. I read xojane, which is a great site that talks about weight issues and my friend writes on it.

So, what I'm saying, is that it happens. Lies happen as well as shame, and it sucks but it is honest and proven.

Have I never been encumbered by the feeling of insignificance? Have I never felt impotent (I love using that word in its proper context) because I was helpless to employ change in my life? Well, that's when somebody gives a damn about you, and that person stays.

Lies are basically the afterbirth of trust, the residual decline of what once was well and was wasted in the aftermath of disinterest or disengagement.

Yes, it sucks.

The thing is... if we didn't trust liars into our lives, how could we trust those who are truly genuine? Not even pathologically, but don't most of us lie to ourselves about how we look?

Pretty enough? Skinny enough? Strong enough? Smart enough?

And if you are none of those things then it's time to have some self-esteem, some test of yourself. Go to the gym or put on make-up or just be your bloody self and risk it. Risk the vulnerability.

Lies are merely the poorest form of flattery.

((((((Colin)))))) ...Yes, I do hope the woman pictured in the OP is not a member here or is not negatively affected by another person outing her on a public forum...I agree with you, maybe it is time to let the woman have HER SPACE....I'm out....

I found this photo on the publicly accessed internet as part of a group of photos, so if the woman gets offended for my posting her again here then she'll need to take her grievance up with more people besides me.



Oh yeah, I almost forgot to add, in my rush to get back to my yard work before it gets too hot this morning...

I think the plus size model in the photo has a very pretty face and voluptuous body that I know for a fact a lot of men would love to get a hold of.

I myself am a few pounds on the plus size and am in no way making any kind of derogatory reference to this lovely woman's physical presentation.

What anybody can clearly see that I am correlating on this thread is the art of deception and how we react to being deceived ourselves. The model obviously knows how to play to her best features and I appreciate her willingness to put herself out there.

Before my intent gets questioned or chastised further I am adding this note in summary.

I wrote a lot of ideas before I realized it was pointless.

I feel no pity for this girl, only a lack of an attempt to understand, to empathize.

Post pictures of fat girls that some guy might love all day, but try to update them by 7 years.

I don't mean to be rude, but this is a shame that my girlfriend deals with every day, and I find this demeaning.

It's really just unnecessary.

- CTC

I personally DON'T FEEL ANY SHAME for being on the plus size myself. My weight IS NOT something I have to DEAL WITH! It is who and what I am and I'll be damned if I let anybody try to demean me for it. Either in person or online.

And as for the other posts on this thread it clearly shows that weight is NOT the main focus or topic of this thread.

But AGAIN!

Its the "ART of DECEPTION!"

"Theatricality and deception - powerful agents for the uninitiated, but we are initiated..."

Yes it is... we are... VERY...

Well played. Haha. *smile*

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lot of those out there

This happens on the site and many others, can't tell you how many dates I've been on off of the site since 2007 with people that put deceiving pictures and then show up and have the nerve to tell you that was from years ago when they used to look good...