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| Topic: Thoughts....Is flirting online cheating? | |
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No.. not at all until your cheated
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It is cheating. Its cheating yourself and your partner. The effort you give this other person could be given to your partner
if it is happening then its a sign something is wrong with your relationship |
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i dont see it as cheating
for you dont know that person and your not touching them i dont see it as really a problem but i had a old bf he pisted me off as i was at work and i came home i turned my messenger on and this lady pops up as to find out the dang old bf was using my screen name and passing him self off as being a girl as well of being me he was playing by saying he was a bi i ***** him out not to ever use my screen name again but there was one time before i met him he found a website on accedent for he was typing in hotmail and he misspelled the word and wrote out hoymail and it turned out to be a bi sex chat room he passed him self off as a girl there and everyone belived him |
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. well I think you're getting a little off topic.. the OP's question is it considered cheating or not.
. I do not believe it's considered cheating.. if it is.. harmless. . and consensual.. we as people are individuals. no one has the right to tell me. partner or otherwise. . where I can may derive. my pleasure from.. again if it's harmless. and at the end of the day if my partner knows he or she.. has nothing to worry about.. it is just a form of entertainment.. and this is key making your partner okay with this.. .. but I do not wish to spend all day defending my.. opinion our position with you... no offense.. and I did not review your YouTube... I can only imagine what it is... bitter much |
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 yes in this matter we do have diff'rent points of view.
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Edited by
no1phD
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Sat 05/31/14 08:50 AM
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 what are you on about?
Its Ella Fitzgerald. She is awesome and not anything to do with bitterness.. .. yes she is awesome.. as are you.. . disregard the bitter part.. I do not know. . where that came from... perhaps it is I who is bitter. . I just fine.. that defending why a person is online. . well I'm online.. a bit absurd... I do not feel I'm doing anything wrong. . I'm not in a relationship any longer.. . but I'm constantly having to justify. being online to friends and family.. they tend to think it's all sex sex sex.. . frankly it's annoying... so please forgive my last two words. ..ok.. you and I can agree to disagree..  .yes.
and it's a very good song.. I went back. once I realized my mistake. .  
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If you are in a relationship and your b.f or g.f is online flirting and carrying on with others of the opposite sex and hiding it ..isnt that cheating? I think so. ( defense.. I never met them & have no intentions to meet them, its just for fun.) 
really depends upon how one defines flirting and carrying on,,,, I say humans don't stop having eyes because they fall in love, and some people are just naturally 'attentive' to those they find attractive,, as long as it doesn't cross the line of disrespecting our relationship (invitations to private environments, or private meetings, or giving over the top compliments, or worst of all, talking about me or our relationship) I don't have probs with it,,,,,Im more on the open side when it comes to relationships, as long as there is communication and honesty to let each other know whats going on and where we stand. |
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Hmm. this is a really good question OP... now. is watching porn cheating. . is reading a romance novel cheating. and a lot of you women read a lot of those..lol.. I think talking online with strangers.. is fine nothing wrong with it.. this is a social site.. and most the conversations are of a non sexual .nature. . now if he is sex chatting...hmm... now even that can be harmless. . it is a fantasy we all have them everyday.. when you masturbate you fantasize about your partner or some fictional partner.. . this is the world we live in.. a world of instant communication. . everything you desire is at your fingertips... I think a better question is. why aren't his desires focused on you..hmm.. . try to ask him if you can join in with him.. . who knows you might meet your own friend..   
if 3 or 4 chat hoes have his credit card number....that would be problem territory...the two should prolly define what the parameters are and what constitute "innocent " flirting " online to avoid misunderstandings. not every couple id going be as free & easy about it as the next |
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Sweetest no one is as good as we are!!
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What next? The Thought Police?
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I think it is. Sorry to say ;(. If I was with a guy, he'd find no evidence of cheating in my inbox, or online, because if I never cheat in the first place, then I can be happy knowing if he goes through my phone, he won't find anything. I can happily leave my mobile in the guy's company, because I have nothing to worry about. And any guy who tries to force me to cheat, I just block them. So online will always be the easy way out of the cheating, if they delete their profile. Yet you can always print out proof of their flirting, and show it to the judge, in court, if it ever had to come to that.
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To be honest, I don't have the time or energy to even think about cheating, as I can only put it all into one guy. Anyway, I'm bad at multi-tasking, so I'd be bad at it. And I'd forget half of the lies I'd been telling said cheater. In the end, we all know the cheating partner always goes back to the committed one. A good job I'm not easily tempted.
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Wether he was or wasn't as he claims ....its for just fun. He lied and he hid what he was doing ,knowing very well I would be upset if I found out because of similar problems in our past. Furthermore HE was upset because I found out and he figures I somehow tricked him. So he tried to lie his arse off. (in a druken stuper & messed up his story)
So in my case he was lying, hiding & with the intention to cheat. Though he claims he's loyal. The trust on both sides are gone. Completely gone. I'm to busy, old & tired for these games! Thanks for all the input
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No fair confronting someone in a drunken stupor. 
I'm just so done! Stick a fork in me!! 
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To me I wouldn't say it was cheating necessarily but it's still unacceptable in a steady relationship.
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Edited by
MariahsFantasy
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Sat 05/31/14 10:15 PM
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Flirting online is a gateway leading to phone sex for a man mostly. I think some women have self control. Depends on if they lie about it afterward.
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Flirting online is a gateway leading to phone sex for a man mostly. I think some women have self control. Depends on if they lie about it afterward. |
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Flirting online is a gateway leading to phone sex for a man mostly. I think some women have self control. Depends on if they lie about it afterward. Can we dispense with archaic and in my mind ignorant comments. Genuine flirting is a 2 - way street, otherwise it's pestering. It's 2014 not the 1950's. To say that phone sex is predominately a male desire is laughable. Flirting online is cheating as it usual peppered with disclosures of desire and intent for someone other than your partner. |
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Some of you put an image not refers to his or her photo. Is this kind of small cheating?
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