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Topic: Reason You're Single
MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 05/27/14 07:07 PM
Nope for I feel being single is not a bad thing.... Some of us actually enjoy being single...And it is not me to judge why, we all have flaws just different ones.... Most that I hear whining about being single are not even happy with themselves and just need to find that happy point first.. And let things fall into place within time... Nothing wrong with being single at all, but people in relationships don't equate the mood of them being single. Things change when you're in relationship. I was talking about the ones who whine about finding it so much but don't see what the real problem is. Understand those are the ones you could not tell them anyway for they would not listen to you... I don't ignore my instincts anymore anyway

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48979	Tue 05/27/14 08:10 PM
You ever talk to someone who "doesn't know why they're single" and yet as you're chatting with them they give you several reasons why they are, but you can't say it bluntly cuz it's rude? Yeah... That is akin to dealing with a single woman who is oblivious to the fact that she single because she displays a sour attitude about men. There are single women who are like that.

Aquathros Joined Sat 12/14/13 Posts: 6	Sat 05/31/14 08:36 PM
I've been single my entire life. Part of it is because people assume I'm taken and don't bother to ask. When I tell them I'm single, they don't believe me. I've been told to lie and say that I was seeing someone, but I don't want to start a relationship on a lie.

0ldhag Joined Sat 05/31/14 Posts: 1145	Sat 05/31/14 08:41 PM
You ever talk to someone who "doesn't know why they're single" and yet as you're chatting with them they give you several reasons why they are, but you can't say it bluntly cuz it's rude? Yeah... I wish someone would tell me!

LUNG1954 Joined Thu 04/24/14 Posts: 1447	Sat 05/31/14 11:34 PM
No man has a good enough memory to be a successful liar. - Abraham Lincoln

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Sat 05/31/14 11:35 PM Edited by HoneyFly on Sat 05/31/14 11:46 PM
We are like young volcanoes. I choose to be single & happy. Maybe it's not pointing out the flaws in others. Maybe it's working on yourself first to accept the reasons to why you are.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 05/31/14 11:39 PM
Hmm.. let me think . oh yeah I remember now..

hellsboy007 Joined Tue 04/29/14 Posts: 992	Sun 06/01/14 01:59 AM
Because no one wants to be with me!!!

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sun 06/01/14 03:03 PM Edited by dreamerana on Sun 06/01/14 03:03 PM
There are a lot of reasons I'm single. Among thosesis that I'm a little too serious and a little shy when it comes to getting to know guys

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Sun 06/01/14 03:44 PM
I'm not into the so called scene, at all. I wonder if that's half the reason. So I guess I'll just have to wait until something hits me bang in the face.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33460	Sun 06/01/14 03:50 PM
Suddenly the topic header "reasons you're single" reminds me of Ian Dury's "Reasons to be cheerful" part 3 1 2 3 Lol Maybe being single is a reason to be cheerful?

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sun 06/01/14 05:53 PM
Well, I've had women telling me why they don't want me, so I guess that it must be that then. Couldn't possibly be that they're wrong and that they just don't understand me.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 06/01/14 05:58 PM
I'm not into the so called scene, at all. I wonder if that's half the reason. So I guess I'll just have to wait until something hits me bang in the face. ..hmm.. undoes his zipper.. ..

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 06/01/14 06:00 PM
PhD won;t have me....lol

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 06/01/14 06:06 PM
PhD won;t have me....lol Awww.. I know you're probably joking.. but to be honest. . if you lived here.. I would be tripping over myself.. just for the chance to have coffee with you...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 06/01/14 06:08 PM
Because no one wants to be with me!!! or the ones that want to be with you are too far away!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 06/01/14 06:08 PM
PhD won;t have me....lol Awww.. I know you're probably joking.. but to be honest. . if you lived here.. I would be tripping over myself.. just for the chance to have coffee with you... thanks. IDK where you live, but that is lovely to hear you say....and back atcha sugar

hellsboy007 Joined Tue 04/29/14 Posts: 992	Sun 06/01/14 07:05 PM
Because no one wants to be with me!!! or the ones that want to be with you are too far away! Actually!!!!

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 06/01/14 07:11 PM
PhD won;t have me....lol Awww.. I know you're probably joking.. but to be honest. . if you lived here.. I would be tripping over myself.. just for the chance to have coffee with you... thanks. IDK where you live, but that is lovely to hear you say....and back atcha sugar .. Canada.. any more than that you'll have to look at my profile.. . but you should come visit.. show you all the sites.. wine and dine you. . show you a really pleasant time. .. who knows you might like it here. . want to become a resident. .hmm...

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sun 06/01/14 07:18 PM
Because I haven't met the right person yet. It's pretty simple.