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Topic: Well, I Finally Gave Up Trying...
Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Tue 05/20/14 05:12 PM
...to get back to my original weight...& I'm ok with that...really. I mean...7lbs 8oz just isn't all that realistic! So now that summer is upon us...what are your main concerns about dating? Gettin' all buffed & tanned, finding the time or money...or are you pretty well set to go as is?

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Tue 05/20/14 05:17 PM
Anything I've wanted to change about myself, has probably already been done a long time ago, so I'm just like "Here I am. Like it, or walk away". Though I reckon if someone doesn't like you as you are, they're not worth the time.

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Tue 05/20/14 05:18 PM
...to get back to my original weight...& I'm ok with that...really. I mean...7lbs 8oz just isn't all that realistic! So now that summer is upon us...what are your main concerns about dating? My main concern is that I'm just not getting any, dates I mean

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Tue 05/20/14 05:20 PM
I gave up on dating. Sooooo think that solves that problem.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 05/20/14 05:22 PM
.. thinking ,thinking,.. I got it.. .. I am pretty much set to go.. have been set to go for some time.. tapping his toe on the floor..lol.. . now if I could just have someone to go with..lmao.. ..ps.. I am happy with my looks.. I am now getting tanned.. not that it's doing me any good.. I seem to put of! this you can look but you can't touch vibe..hmm.. .. perhaps that's what I need to work on.. that are wear a sign that says. you may squeeze the produce... but beware it squeezes back.. ..

Snaketitsss7 Joined Sun 05/18/14 Posts: 88	Tue 05/20/14 05:28 PM
Well...I reckon I'm glad your all quitting- less competition for me!!

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Tue 05/20/14 05:39 PM
I gave up on dating. Sooooo think that solves that problem. Pickin's are slim in your area...or are you just tired of the whole dance? I mean...34 is pretty young to give up...no?

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Tue 05/20/14 05:54 PM
I gave up on dating. Sooooo think that solves that problem. Pickin's are slim in your area...or are you just tired of the whole dance? I mean...34 is pretty young to give up...no? Not really. I've had my share of failed relationships, and don't see myself being in a long term relationship. I don't have nor can I have children, so even more reason to just be a bachelor. Then I also don't have any nagging going on while I'm trying to watch a game or wanting to attend games. I could go into more reasons, but think that should suffice for the Mingle public.�

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45397	Tue 05/20/14 06:02 PM
The rooster likes the yard as it is. I ain't doing nuttin'.

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Tue 05/20/14 06:03 PM
Sorry I asked...

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Tue 05/20/14 06:11 PM
Oh, dang! Soufie, you jumped in while I was replying to Scoobs... Buuuuuut...cockadoodledoo!

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Tue 05/20/14 08:03 PM
Sorry I asked... It's ok. My last date I had was an indication that I'm not meant to date for awhile. It was one of those nights...

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Tue 05/20/14 08:12 PM
I'm giving up too. Haven't figured out what yet, but I'm with you!

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Tue 05/20/14 08:13 PM
well iam all washed and wax up. my rims are shined up and nobody to go out cruzen with.. this is not staring out good. :-(

Astrid Joined Tue 03/25/14 Posts: 7748	Tue 05/20/14 08:18 PM
I gave up on dating. Sooooo think that solves that problem. Hi there Scoobert! Dont be hard on yourself. Your special someone will come in God's perfect time, you'll see. ^_^

ldroftrollops Joined Fri 05/16/14 Posts: 32	Tue 05/20/14 08:20 PM Edited by ldroftrollops on Tue 05/20/14 08:21 PM
I gave up on dating. Sooooo think that solves that problem. Pickin's are slim in your area...or are you just tired of the whole dance? I mean...34 is pretty young to give up...no? ...sorry, I get the sentiment but I totally laughed hard while reading that... OK. ..now back to serious, anytime is probably too soon to give up if the desire is truly strong in a person to find someone My goal this summer is to get back on my non smoking train. Can I say that here? I quit for two whole months. ..and lost it over a bad weekend. .ugh!

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Tue 05/20/14 08:36 PM
Are you gonna try the e-cig, patch, or just go cold turkey this time?

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Tue 05/20/14 08:37 PM
Hey Astrid! Not being hard on myself at all. Reality just told me that right now isn't the time to be dating. There's things I've realized I need to do for me, and dating would just complicate it.

ldroftrollops Joined Fri 05/16/14 Posts: 32	Tue 05/20/14 08:40 PM
I can't cold turkey. ., y'all would be glued to the news if I ever went that route. .it'd be "white Ford Bronco" days all over again. I'm going back to the e-cig. The liquid vapor type..it worked and I liked it. I just have to learn to not sleep with it, after a night on the town. ..i broke two that way.

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Tue 05/20/14 08:47 PM
@ Scoob... Well, when you put it like that, I tend to agree. Ya' gotta be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else. It's an old cliche' but it's true...good luck! @ Ldr... How many times have I told you to never stash the e-cig in your bra?