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Topic: Next move?
coolrohit430 Joined Mon 10/21/13 Posts: 67	Thu 05/08/14 10:53 AM
There's a girl I see everyday. She knows I check her out. One day I caught her looking at me..although she immediately looked away. We never speak...but I want to approach her without scaring her away. Any suggestions?

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Thu 05/08/14 10:58 AM
There's a girl I see everyday. She knows I check her out. One day I caught her looking at me..although she immediately looked away. We never speak...but I want to approach her without scaring her away. Any suggestions? Walk up to her and say "Hi, my name is fill in the blank I noticed you and think you are very beautiful, what is yours if you don't mind me asking?"

Mississippigal2003 Joined Thu 01/16/14 Posts: 1739	Thu 05/08/14 11:09 AM
Stalk her on Facebook. One evening she will say where she's hanging. Then go "bump" into her. Buy her a drink. Ull live happily ever after. We hope

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Thu 05/08/14 11:12 AM
Stalk her on Facebook. One evening she will say where she's hanging. Then go "bump" into her. Buy her a drink. Ull live happily ever after. We hope Good idea. Bump into her "accidentally" ;)

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Thu 05/08/14 11:52 AM
Don't go up to her and say that she's beautiful for Christ's sake man. That's creepy as **. If it was me I would just say something like, "We have to stop meeting like this". It's as good an opening line as any. What you say after that depends on her reaction but it's fairly easy from there to talk about meeting for a date instead. Just act cool and to repeat, for **'s sake don't make a thing about how you have a crush on her or she really will think that you're stalking her.

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Thu 05/08/14 12:37 PM
sneak up behined her. club her azz. drag her back to the cave.when she wakes up tell her you saved her life after being hit by a car..works every time.lol jk..just be your self.

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Thu 05/08/14 01:57 PM
Don't go up to her and say that she's beautiful for Christ's sake man. That's creepy as fk. If it was me I would just say something like, "We have to stop meeting like this". It's as good an opening line as any. What you say after that depends on her reaction but it's fairly easy from there to talk about meeting for a date instead. Just act cool and to repeat, for fk's sake don't make a thing about how you have a crush on her or she really will think that you're stalking her. lol would depend on how you tell her that she's beautiful. And not saying just to randomly go up and say "you're beautiful" lol. Women do still appreciate and almost expect compliments. lol. Never once have I told a woman she was beautiful, fully knowing her or not and them not take it as a polite gesture.

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Thu 05/08/14 01:58 PM
sneak up behined her. club her azz. drag her back to the cave.when she wakes up tell her you saved her life after being hit by a car..works every time.lol jk..just be your self. rofl... works everytime.. lol

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Thu 05/08/14 02:43 PM
You're right Cowboy. I'm not as fast with women as you are though and I don't usually tell them that I like their **** until they give me some sort of a come on.

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Thu 05/08/14 03:36 PM
You're right Cowboy. I'm not as fast with women as you are though and I don't usually tell them that I like their **** until they give me some sort of a come on. Like their what? o.O I just said tell them they're beautiful, didn't say tell them you wanna jump in bed with them lol. Quite a bit different rofl.

Ouizee Joined Sat 08/18/12 Posts: 4080	Thu 05/08/14 03:48 PM
Hi goes a long way. Just be yourself and make a comment on the weather. Say anything and look at her eyes when you're talking. Be polite and smile! Good luck!

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Thu 05/08/14 03:52 PM
Get yourself a cloth and some chloroform

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Thu 05/08/14 05:02 PM
What can I say Cowboy? I am an admirer of the female form. WTF is the difference really? You were the one going on about telling women that they're good looking.

Mississippigal2003 Joined Thu 01/16/14 Posts: 1739	Thu 05/08/14 05:44 PM
Get yourself a cloth and some chloroform omg I friggen love it lol A guy that walks up to me and smells good and smiles and says hi ....ooooh weeee. Poor thang wouldn't stand a chance lol he's mine after that

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Thu 05/08/14 06:23 PM Edited by CowboyGH on Thu 05/08/14 06:22 PM
What can I say Cowboy? I am an admirer of the female form. WTF is the difference really? You were the one going on about telling women that they're good looking. Yeah it's called a compliment, to make her feel good, to make her feel beautiful. That there puts her in a good mood or better mood to have more delightful conversation. Has nothing to do with any sex appeal or anything along those lines at all.

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Thu 05/08/14 06:27 PM
What can I say Cowboy? I am an admirer of the female form. WTF is the difference really? You were the one going on about telling women that they're good looking. Yeah it's called a compliment, to make her feel good, to make her feel beautiful. That there puts her in a good mood or better mood to have more delightful conversation. Has nothing to do with any sex appeal or anything along those lines at all. It's not specifically about making the woman feel wanted, but moreso the intentions of what is wanted.

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Thu 05/08/14 06:36 PM
Oh, I rarely do that. Thanks for the tip though. You obviously have a lot of experience with picking up women.

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Thu 05/08/14 06:41 PM
Oh, I rarely do that. Thanks for the tip though. You obviously have a lot of experience with picking up women. Not really, I just know what I would want myself. If a woman came up to me all over me being all kissy, huggy, flirty, or whatever. Would be an automatic turn off and I would possibly just turn and walk away depending on the extent she went to.

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Thu 05/08/14 07:12 PM
What can I say Cowboy? I am an admirer of the female form. WTF is the difference really? You were the one going on about telling women that they're good looking. Yeah it's called a compliment, to make her feel good, to make her feel beautiful. That there puts her in a good mood or better mood to have more delightful conversation. Has nothing to do with any sex appeal or anything along those lines at all. In my humble opinion, this is the best way. Nothing wrong with paying a woman a compliment, nor a woman to a man for that matter. It beats the "pick-up lines."

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Fri 05/09/14 05:47 AM
Oh, I rarely do that. Thanks for the tip though. You obviously have a lot of experience with picking up women. Not really, I just know what I would want myself. If a woman came up to me all over me being all kissy, huggy, flirty, or whatever. Would be an automatic turn off and I would possibly just turn and walk away depending on the extent she went to. You don't say. I saw a guy that was like you on a TV show about dating the other day. He met the lady and the first thing that she did was a pole dance. It totally threw the guy and for the whole date he was the one with the pole up his arse. I would just have taken something like that in good fun. I like outgoing women with bags of character and don't really get on with shy retiring types that need a lot of compliments and flattery to get them to warm to you.