Why is that I can stand him for long? But he can ignore me for almost a month? I just wanted to be friends with (and hoping for more than friends). help me guys on what to do?

Move on :)

I think I'll do that... :(

Probably he met someone else that didn't just want to be friends and didn't live thousands of miles away. That would be my guess. Hard to say because I'm not him and don't know what you said to each other. Could be that he wanted more than just someone that "could stand him for long" and he got bored or suspicious. A lot of the women on these sites expect the men to do most of the talking and it does get boring when you're just getting one liner messages back, with no prospect of a date.

Did you contact him first? I bet you did and I can't imagine why any British man would be searching profiles in places that I've never even heard of before. Also, your profile says that you're looking for a woman. You may well be a very nice girl but if you contacted me I would think that you are a scammer or just wasting my time. My advice would be to try to make up your mind what you want. That would be good for starters. Only a fool gets emotionally involved with people on the internet that they are unlikely to ever meet. That's something that I certainly couldn't "stand for long".

Why is she only blaming BRITISH men?

perhaps it was an island experience

Maybe he got scared when she mentioned the passport word

Sit on him.
It is much more subtle.

Maybe you're onto a winner here ;)


If the OP was expecting british men to be different in any way, maybe she got a culture shock.

Oh, the old P word :) Gotta admit, it makes me feel a little queasy at times.

You want a passport? No problem. I learned to make those during the war when I was trying to escape from Colditz.

----No thank you! Maybe if I happen to pass by him... i'll probably give him a middle finger! LOL XD... Actually I realize that his a waste of time.