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Topic: a bad crush?
celticricket's photo
Tue 09/18/07 04:43 PM
what would you do if you met someone and things just clicked, ya know? you had a great time with them, just as friends, but you feel like it could be something more. then you find out that they have a girlfriend. but having a crush on them doesnt go away. what happens now?

no photo
Tue 09/18/07 04:44 PM
Hes not worth your time Cricket...sorry but u can do much better...good luck!!flowerforyou :smile:

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Tue 09/18/07 04:46 PM
I've lived thru that, Cricketflowerforyou , It's not any easier for a guy to move on than it is for a woman. It takes time. And I agree with Hawaiigurlflowerforyou , you CAN do much better.

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Tue 09/18/07 04:46 PM
ummmmmm, it suxlaugh:tongue: :wink:

hotandspicey's photo
Tue 09/18/07 04:47 PM
The good news is...you do not have to act on this "crush"...you can keep it secret! and if in the future he becomes single and available (without help from you ) you can make your move.

Puffins1958's photo
Tue 09/18/07 04:47 PM
Celtic...

I think you should move on honey. As terrible as it sounds, even if he breaks up with g/f, you would NOT want him on the rebound.

flowerforyou

celticricket's photo
Tue 09/18/07 04:48 PM
but he doesnt know that i have a crush on him. and he never did anything to be even remotely considered as cheating on his girlfriend. these feelings just popped up out of nowhere from me. i guess the only thing to do is back off. ohwell

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Tue 09/18/07 04:49 PM
I have so been here...its not worht it and will cause u heartbreak...example----i had this huge crush on heartbreak kid---we talked for months and he had a gf...he decided to leave her...i was so happy we started talking..next thing i know i got the dear noel letter---he was still in love with the ex..and went back to her....IT AIN'T WORTH IT!

iRon's photo
Tue 09/18/07 05:12 PM
The bottom line is you will never unless you try. This could be the one and you may never know and that is truly SAD.



I would like to take this opportunity to thank all the women that are showing us their back side………Thank you

warhead's photo
Tue 09/18/07 05:13 PM
scotty doesnt know, scotty doesnt know.......oops I will shut up

hotandspicey's photo
Tue 09/18/07 05:13 PM
laugh laugh laugh

iRon's photo
Tue 09/18/07 05:14 PM
Is it not better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all??????

warhead's photo
Tue 09/18/07 05:15 PM
yeah I have to agree with iron this forum rules I might just hang around.........

lissa_327's photo
Tue 09/18/07 05:19 PM
If they will do that to the one they are dating they will do it to you - let it go!

Jess642's photo
Tue 09/18/07 05:20 PM
Ask yourself what it is that attracts you so...what are the qualities of this person?

Learn from those, a little more about yourself, and what appeals to you in a partner.

Silently thank him for showing you a clearer picture of what it is you like in a partner.

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Tue 09/18/07 05:25 PM
celtic

i've alway been a firm believer in destiny.
it just might not be your time.
if it's ment to be...
set it free, if it comes back someday, then you'll know.

TheShadow's photo
Tue 09/18/07 11:04 PM
Hmm, try really liking some one and the way you find out that there in a relationship is by there other half calls you to B you out. Knowing that there partner should be yhe one to get B out. what I'm getting at and this has happen to me a couple times. is your going to end up hurting yourself. I don't give a bean how much you like him. it's going to turn out bad anyway you look at it. So move on and don't wast your energy on something that is not going to go anywhere.

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 09/18/07 11:06 PM
messed up

TheShadow's photo
Tue 09/18/07 11:34 PM
Yeah, it was messed up. She put my phone number in his truck lmao. I can laugh now but at the time. I was like, hey man don't get on me when your lady is out at a bar letting guy get to know her. told him you better take a good look at what is really going on. Hmm, I guess if i was to ask a question. it would be, if you know this person is with someone. Why even put yourself in that situation

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 09/19/07 06:58 AM
Oh that sucks frown

Situations like this can hurt

Just be careful flowerforyou

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