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Topic: Why cant women approach men for a change?
stephen84usa's photo
Tue 04/29/14 10:06 PM
Like I said before, I am terribly shy and all the women i ever met from chat sites got issues.. I am so shy that i cant just approach a woman i see sitting by herself next to whole foods.. sighs.. sorry about the whining again but i cant take it anymore.. i dont know what to do

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Tue 04/29/14 10:08 PM
frustrated sad sad sad

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Tue 04/29/14 10:27 PM
OK, I can't take it anymore. Quit your whining, cause it's making my crackers soggy for the cheese.mad

I myself am a shy guy also, and also have Bipolar Disorder, so obviously I don't have that great of self-esteem either. You don't hear me whining about not being able to get a date. Think you need to quit worrying about finding a woman to date, and work on you 1st. Get your self-esteem up, get yourself grounded in what you're doing in life. There are soooo many more important things in life than dating. Take the time to work on you, and I'm positive that the right woman will take notice.

Girls might like that emo-sardonic crap, but women don't.

Now quityerbitching, and quit looking for women to date now!slaphead

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Tue 04/29/14 10:35 PM
so you're back for some more punishment are you..laugh :wink: .
.Hi.stephen..
. first off. the women on chat sites have issues.. that's a little bit like the kettle calling the pot black.. don't you thinkhappy laugh ..
... question what is Whole Foods.

beauty314's photo
Tue 04/29/14 10:40 PM
Whole foods?

stephen84usa's photo
Tue 04/29/14 10:51 PM
you never heard of whole foods?

beauty314's photo
Tue 04/29/14 10:55 PM

you never heard of whole foods?

I guess not...
and now I must know What eez thees whole foods?

dreamerana's photo
Tue 04/29/14 10:58 PM
Edited by dreamerana on Tue 04/29/14 11:02 PM

OK, I can't take it anymore. Quit your whining, cause it's making my crackers soggy for the cheese.mad

I myself am a shy guy also, and also have Bipolar Disorder, so obviously I don't have that great of self-esteem either. You don't hear me whining about not being able to get a date. Think you need to quit worrying about finding a woman to date, and work on you 1st. Get your self-esteem up, get yourself grounded in what you're doing in life. There are soooo many more important things in life than dating. Take the time to work on you, and I'm positive that the right woman will take notice.

Girls might like that emo-sardonic crap, but women don't.

Now quityerbitching, and quit looking for women to date now!slaphead

Scoob,
I think you rock. For the advice you give and for being positive and outgoing. I've always liked your sense of humor when I read your comments. Even more admirable after reading what you shared on this post. flowerforyou

Stephen,
Time to jump off the pity train and learn from this example.

stephen84usa's photo
Tue 04/29/14 10:58 PM
Edited by stephen84usa on Tue 04/29/14 10:58 PM

so you're back for some more punishment are you..laugh :wink: .
.Hi.stephen..
. first off. the women on chat sites have issues.. that's a little bit like the kettle calling the pot black.. don't you thinkhappy laugh ..
... question what is Whole Foods.

Whole Foods is a supermarket.. they stock organic stuff

stephen84usa's photo
Tue 04/29/14 10:59 PM

OK, I can't take it anymore. Quit your whining, cause it's making my crackers soggy for the cheese.mad

I myself am a shy guy also, and also have Bipolar Disorder, so obviously I don't have that great of self-esteem either. You don't hear me whining about not being able to get a date. Think you need to quit worrying about finding a woman to date, and work on you 1st. Get your self-esteem up, get yourself grounded in what you're doing in life. There are soooo many more important things in life than dating. Take the time to work on you, and I'm positive that the right woman will take notice.

Girls might like that emo-sardonic crap, but women don't.

Now quityerbitching, and quit looking for women to date now!slaphead


dan fouts said that same thing 'quityerbitching' during a game..

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Tue 04/29/14 11:02 PM



dan fouts said that same thing 'quityerbitching' during a game..

So please take Dan Fouts advice....laugh

stephen84usa's photo
Tue 04/29/14 11:03 PM


you never heard of whole foods?

I guess not...
and now I must know What eez thees whole foods?


Whole Foods is a supermarket.. they stock organic stuff

no1phD's photo
Tue 04/29/14 11:03 PM
Ok.. Stephen.. when you see these ladies by themselves.. what is your first thought.
. I mean what would you truly like to say to them.hmm.

stephen84usa's photo
Tue 04/29/14 11:09 PM

Ok.. Stephen.. when you see these ladies by themselves.. what is your first thought.
. I mean what would you truly like to say to them.hmm.


i would like to say.. hello gorgeous.. you have real nice eyes.. is anybody sitting here.. do you mind?

4evababy's photo
Tue 04/29/14 11:18 PM
I can aproach men but don't want to at this point in my life

no1phD's photo
Tue 04/29/14 11:29 PM
.. ok Humphrey Bogart.. why don't you try something a little more realistic.. like say! I noticed what you are eating 'and it looks good! is it.. then ask her, if she has eaten here before'. and might she recommend something. for you to try.. you want to try to show interest in them.. but not directly.. they don't like direct.. oh sure sure they say they do.. but trust me they don't.. they like clever. they like thoughtfulness.. they like attention to detail. but they shut down when your direct with them.. at least that's what I've noticed.. okay that's what I've read in a book..laugh ..

stephen84usa's photo
Tue 04/29/14 11:32 PM

.. ok Humphrey Bogart.. why don't you try something a little more realistic.. like say! I noticed what you are eating 'and it looks good! is it.. then ask her, if she has eaten here before'. and might she recommend something. for you to try.. you want to try to show interest in them.. but not directly.. they don't like direct.. oh sure sure they say they do.. but trust me they don't.. they like clever. they like thoughtfulness.. they like attention to detail. but they shut down when your direct with them.. at least that's what I've noticed.. okay that's what I've read in a book..laugh ..


i noticed that too about women..

isaac_dede's photo
Tue 04/29/14 11:35 PM
Man up

stephen84usa's photo
Tue 04/29/14 11:37 PM
sometimes i wish i had a sister that can introduce me to girls.. it would make life a whole lot easier

isaac_dede's photo
Tue 04/29/14 11:38 PM
If you can't approach women and start a conversation do you really think you'd be able to hold a conversation uf they approached you?

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