I am always getting hurt by women no matter how nice i am. I know i am not that attractive but do I need to be hurt over and over again? I cant help that I look very young, i cant help that I am only 5/4 and not taller, and some other things that are not in my control.. I was not born genetically gifted but why do I deserve to get hurt by women. I feel like i am worthless to them and that I'll never amount to anything. I'M starting to dislike myself more and more everyday because I think my appearance is just wrong and there is nothing i can do to change it. No woman wants someone as sensitive as me.. they want the aggressive types.. it seems.. oh well..

.. whoa whoa whoa. don't be getting all crazy on us. it is not all about looks. its personality confidence.. women don't want to hear you crying.
. don't get me wrong they care..
. they just don't want to hear you crying.. and you're always going to get hurt. if you didn't it would meen you weren't allowing them in. just don't open up all at once to them. slowly let them know how sensitive you are.
.. and I've said it before and I'll say it again.. looks may get you in the door... but it's whats up stairs that will keep you in the room.

This ^^^^^

Well said no1

i just wish i looked better..

I've been hurt often by a girl too. It's my sister and she used give me a bloody nose on a regular basis. Sorry couldn't resist.
Ok so to answer your post, I read your post and checked out your profile.
First, stop making yourself a victim in life. Self confidence and a smile count for a lot. If you don't quite feel confident right now, learn to fake it.
Obviously you have something going for you as you were able to hook up with someone and have a kid.
The next thing is you categorize all women. There is no all for any group, whether it's women, men, religious group, social group. Every group is made up of individuals.
You say women want aggressive types and criticize your looks both in the same sentence. These are 2 different ideas. Sure there are many people of both genders who are attracted by the physical appearance. There are an equal or greater number who are attracted by a warm caring heart. Someone who offers understanding and companionship. Speaking for myself, I don't think I would choose an aggressive type.
My best advice is be positive. Positivity attracts others.

No 1 PhD, you said this much better than I did.

I usually have to pay for that.

that child i have with that woman.. was a big mistake.. she never wanted to be with me..or she wouldve wanted me to live with her.. yet she lives with another man and he is taking care of my child in another state.. the mistake i made was to think that a long distance relationship would work.. me in las vegas.. her in tennessee.. wasnt gonna work.. when you are alone.. you make mistakes because you just wanna be loved by a woman

.. we all wish we could change something about urselfs.. even the Tom cruises in this world.. the Brad Pitts.. all would like to change something about themself... just remember we all put ur pants on one leg at a time..
.. don't be so hard on yourself. I have not viewed your profile.. and I won't view your profile.. because I just don't do that. ever.. well ok there was this one time... okay I'm getting off topic here.lol... but from your pic that I can see.. you seem as normal as everybody else..
. take a selfie of yourself.. and it might take five or six tries.. crop them edit them. until you're happy with the way it looks.. and when you're happy. stay that way..ok..omg.
. and remember there's always somebody that has it far worse than you do.. right.. good..ttyl.

tom cruise and brad pitt look perfect.. thats why all women want men like them

Ok, you put this out there and it compels me to reply. Whether or not your hookup with this girl was a mistake, the child didn't ask yo come to the world. If you have the honest intention of being in the child's life, there are family courts that deal with parental rights even if she lives in another state. If there is another father figure in the child's life doesn't mean you couldn't also be there. It's about being civilized adults for the sake of the child. What I would ask more than anything is always consider the best interest of the child and don't use him or her as a vengeance or a bargaining tool.

.. dude Tom Cruise is short. no offense to you short people.
but he is.. especially for a leading man.. the dude has height.. NV... trust me on this I know for a fact.. stop looking outwards and start looking inwards.. okay now I'm done with you.. good luck.. .. just be positive.
. keep blowing into your positive bubble..ok. now I'm done.

Again, not all women. Based on things I read in magazines I can say I wouldn't be impressed with at least one of them?

... yes I didn't read this part. but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.. that you just made a poor choice in words.. I hope.

sorry, i dont wanna seem like I am whining but I just hate being hurt all the time..dont know who to talk to about it.. and no im not gonna see a psychiatrist ever again

clears his throat cough cough..hmm
and what's wrong with psychiatrist.hmm
. they can be very helpful. in helping you understand how you're feeling.
. and why you're feeling what you're feeling.. just lay back on the couch..
. take your shoes off make yourself comfortable.. now let's start with your childhood.. .
I'm just playin dude.. . you must have friends and family you can talk to you.yes.?
.

I have some friends and my parents and my older brother.. i just dont wanna whine about my life to them.. i keep my emotions inside and express them on forums like this

.. well thanks for sharing.. .jk.
. no but I understand it's easier to vent to people you don't know.. but remember they don't know you either.. or more to the point care about you. just saying.. that's a very fine line you're trying to walk.. but yeah sometimes you have to vent.
.. tell us a joke. something funny. you must know one joke.. just one.
.

Let me put this out there? If I told you today that I have the magical guaranteed to work secret to cure your insecurities; would you listen and follow my advice or would you tell me five million reasons why it won't work.
I say this because you can talk to a bunch of different people who can all give you great advice like no 1 PhD just did. The next step is if you choose to do something positive with it or if you choose to hold on to being the victim. For some people that's more comfortable because then everything is everyone else's fault.

(knock knock.. )

"who's there?"

"its mr. lonely.. bobby vintons friend"