Topic: Soltero. The benifits
willing2's photo
Thu 04/10/14 04:29 PM
The longer I'm alone, the more I appreciate my freedom and independence.

What are your benifits?

lilott's photo
Thu 04/10/14 04:37 PM
No nagging.

no1phD's photo
Thu 04/10/14 04:38 PM
.. to be single.

 Maria195's photo
Thu 04/10/14 04:46 PM
I love my freedom...but once in a while I miss the nice warm body

pkh's photo
Thu 04/10/14 04:49 PM
I'm not sure i like being alone I miss cooking for two, cuddling. Good conversation, intimacy, looking across the room to see him looking back at me. If I had to pick it would be toilet seat left up nuch much I know

no1phD's photo
Thu 04/10/14 04:51 PM
Pkh.. my feelings are hurt.. you have.. all of us. you're never alone.
..awwflowerforyou

pkh's photo
Thu 04/10/14 04:54 PM

Pkh.. my feelings are hurt.. you have.. all of us. you're never alone.
..awwflowerforyou
ty you sweet one and I'm grateful for all of you . You have got me through some rough spots.

regularfeller's photo
Thu 04/10/14 06:01 PM

The longer I'm alone, the more I appreciate my freedom and independence.

What are your benifits?


You aren't appreciating freedom and independence, you are adjusting to them. If it was rewarding why bother with "dating" sites? I'm happy for you being comfortable being alone. That always make it easier to involve yourself in a relationship without fear. What's the worst that can happen? You go back to doing whatever you want whenever you want?

Only benefits I receive from being alone are lower utility bills.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Thu 04/10/14 06:05 PM
I have the bathroom to myself:tongue:

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 04/10/14 06:23 PM

I'm not sure i like being alone I miss cooking for two, cuddling. Good conversation, intimacy, looking across the room to see him looking back at me. If I had to pick it would be toilet seat left up nuch much I know


Pam I miss those things too...But I want a relationship where they have their place and I have mine and we meet at each others... That way I can still have my alone time when needed.... and still go as I please.... biggrin

mightymoe's photo
Thu 04/10/14 06:28 PM


I'm not sure i like being alone I miss cooking for two, cuddling. Good conversation, intimacy, looking across the room to see him looking back at me. If I had to pick it would be toilet seat left up nuch much I know


Pam I miss those things too...But I want a relationship where they have their place and I have mine and we meet at each others... That way I can still have my alone time when needed.... and still go as I please.... biggrin


i agree, i like my freedoms...

willing2's photo
Thu 04/10/14 06:59 PM
Edited by willing2 on Thu 04/10/14 07:20 PM


The longer I'm alone, the more I appreciate my freedom and independence.

What are your benifits?


You aren't appreciating freedom and independence, you are adjusting to them. If it was rewarding why bother with "dating" sites? I'm happy for you being comfortable being alone. That always make it easier to involve yourself in a relationship without fear. What's the worst that can happen? You go back to doing whatever you want whenever you want?

Only benefits I receive from being alone are lower utility bills.

I am offended by your incolent presumption.

Who the hell at you to state what it how I am?

FIMFI. I say what I mean and mean what I say.

Who said anything about fear?

Speaking of fear, why am I addressing an anonymous, faceless, probably fear filled non entity.

ASSinine
Mas respeto, cabron sin retrato!

Whozurdaddy's photo
Thu 04/10/14 07:23 PM
OP, I appreciate being able to do what I want when I want to. Unfortunately I've been in too many one sided relationships and I'm pretty tired of it.

Sure there's moments when it gets a bit tiring but when it's weighed out against the amount of personal things I have been able to do for myself that all just washes away.

Fortunately I get along with all kinds of people so being lonely isn't really a mainstay in my single life. :)

willing2's photo
Thu 04/10/14 08:23 PM

OP, I appreciate being able to do what I want when I want to. Unfortunately I've been in too many one sided relationships and I'm pretty tired of it.

Sure there's moments when it gets a bit tiring but when it's weighed out against the amount of personal things I have been able to do for myself that all just washes away.

Fortunately I get along with all kinds of people so being lonely isn't really a mainstay in my single life. :)


Here, here!drinks

Wholeheartedly agree.

Being on a date site is pure diversion.

Those, I need, I'm so lonely threads are so repulsively repetitive, only scammers or whiney (female dogs) start em.

regularfeller's photo
Thu 04/10/14 08:23 PM


I am offended by your incolent presumption.

Who the hell at you to state what it how I am?

FIMFI. I say what I mean and mean what I say.

Who said anything about fear?

Speaking of fear, why am I addressing an anonymous, faceless, probably fear filled non entity.

ASSinine
Mas respeto, cabron sin retrato!


I'm not sure I understand your anger or your name calling.

As for fear, I said something about being well adjusted to being alone means one cannot be held captive in an unhealthy relationship for fear of being alone. How does that statement bring out hostility in you?

As for who I am...just another anonymous, faceless, human being stating their opinion, same as you.