hi just wondering about the more shall we say sleaze sites do the people on them rely exists or are they there to get you join and then disappear

depends on the site you're on.. however that said.. even this site has users that haven't been on for over a month.. it happens.. they get a life and forget about the 'site'.. until that life disappears again.. but you can still send them an email regardless of how long they've been away.. if their profile is showing, it means they never removed it so assume they'd still get an email notice that they've got mail!!

the most active users are on the forums.. grab a topic you like and add your opinion/comment and let people get to know you that way.. best of luck in your search!!

ok thanks for the reply as you say all the sites have people who dont come on often and if you go on one you end up on loads .take care john