Oh, no worries about that. There's only a keyhole on the outside of the door and just a little handle thing that you turn to lock or unlock it from the inside. I've not got a dungeon either. It's a council house.

That's what this is about really, isn't it? Bet you would be up for a game of billiards if I lived in a mansion with a butler and all that crap.

No really it isn't about that. I just poked a little fun here is all. I am not about material things either. What you have means nothing to me. I look at who you are.

In all honesty though, I would have to know the person before going to your house for a first date. Though you have not defined if it is a first date or not.

Could be a first date.

Depends on the weather, like I said. I really do have to take the dog out soon though, so it's up to you.

If a guy remembers the colour of your eyes after a first date, then be concerned about the size of your breasts

.. I bet you do...lol

lol come to my house :)

You could take her to giuliano's in leith. It is half price if you down load the token of the internet, (apart from saturday). You can get a meal for 2 for under 10 pound on the offer. Then you could to the foot of walk and get a bottle of wine for 6 pound.

I am guessing your quite stint like JSA so may be not, a walk in the links and bottle of cider out lidl and best kebbab pizza on 5 or something pound delivered i think. You could buy some pizza out lidl the american way one only cost 1 pound and is good. Or may be cook some stew with some old chicken that is what my ex would do she is polish and would cook thing very nice things with food that had gone past its best.

Well, I guess that it might come across that way but it's not really. It's true that we haven't really chatted and don't really know each other at all. They do that first before the date on that show though and I did the last time I had a date like this. There's plenty of regard for the person that I would be spending time with and if you knew me better you would understand that. You don't though and that's the whole point of it. It's not selfish to try to make a date as nice as I can for both parties and to try to make the whole thing run as smoothly as possible. It's not selfish to show a woman my world and what dating me would be like.

.. you said it brother.. FM if they can't take a joke..
.. be the best you you can be... sincerely PhD.

who the heck is patty from millionaire matchmaker? anyway, I would not be pleased to be asked back to "his" place unless I knew him quite well...

plus you want to avoid appearing too cheap to buy her a pint. altho, all in all I give you kudos for the idea...sounds loverly...once I know you a bit better :)...love the intimate "cozy at home" idea...no crowd to yell over....food, drink and music customized to my tastes...yes please

i want a girl ro marry

Millionaire Matchmaker is an American daytime TV show that they show over here. Patty runs the club and picks out people that she thinks are good matches for the millionaires and she gives them advice and tells them the rules. The millionaires can be male or female but the man always plans the date.

When I went on this date last year the only part of it that was discussed before we met was the walk in the park. That went well and when I mentioned that I have a pool table the lady said that we should have a game sometime and I said that, "We could go for a game now if you like", which she was agreeable to.

I'm just not sure that you would like the local pub. The food is quite good and I'm not mean about buying a pint because beer is nicer on draught but the times that I've been there they had football on the TV for the regulars and they use a lot of bad language.

If you want to go to a pub, The Pear Tree is better and there's a very nice Italian restaurant near it that is intimate and romantic and has good food and good service. That's in the city centre though and it's maybe a better date for tourists, or people that don't really know Edinburgh and I can meet you outside the train station but one time when I used that as my first date plan the dog did a dump right in the middle of a busy street.

A first date in a pub?
I wouldn't go home with a guy either, nor would I like the walk in the park. I'd rather go to a coffee place, have a nice cappuccino and a chat to get to know each other a bit better. Those places don't have loud music, so no problem having a chat. And if the weather is nice, you can sit outdoors.
If it's nice, maybe something to eat.

You need to restrain that masculine energy Crystal. The man plans the date if you want to be in my club.

What's wrong with pubs and parks? This isn't Holland and you can't smoke in coffee shops here. The Pear Tree has a beer garden though.

I may not be a millionaire but I like to think that I can come up with a more interesting date than just meeting for a coffee. Let's just see how it goes though, okay? The park is romantic and it's a public place where there are plenty of people around when the weather is nice. You can even bring your skateboard if you like because there's a bit for that at the bottom of the park next to the swing park where women take their sprogs. Only problem is that the burger van is only there in the Summer if you want to get a coffee or something to eat and don't want to come back to my place for that.

hi

Guy like me remember only eyes if girl is decent you know

That's true accepted

exactly being near his house sounds like he is looking to take advantage (even if it's not meant that way, that is how it sounds), and may not have the best interests in consideration of his date in mind...that part creeped me out a little. no way would I go back to his house after only knowing him only briefly