Okay gentlemen, now that there has been some thought put into these threads about what a woman does for her man, how about we turn the tables for a bit. A lot of the women here on M2 have given you gentlemen some ideas on how they feel about this subject.

I am sure many of you have read the What Do You, As A Woman, Do For Your Man? thread by now. I am sure you have some of your own ideas on that subject as well, yet have not chimed in. Here's your chance to speak up. This is your chance to let us know what you like to do for your woman.

Please don't be shy and help us understand you, as men, a little more. Do you surprise her with little things? Do you make it a point to let her know you care? Do you lovingly pat her rump as you walk past or touch her hand as you talk to her? Is it a simple look you give her?

I challenge all of you men to think about this question.

What Do You, As A Man, Do For Your Woman?

Settling in with feet up and crossed on coffee table to watch this one

Don't even visit her grave.

I treat her with respect and really listen when she talks.Being in the restaurant biz for 20 yrs I usually cook her something and can make any cocktail she desires.I take a interest in what she likes to do and always let her have ladies choice when asking her what she wants to do or go.I am old fashioned so I like to open doors, and conduct myself like a gentleman. If I have sex with her after we are done I do not jump in my clothes and run out the door like I am a fireman going on a call.I always call the next day so I don't make her feel like it was cheap.I enjoy letting her know that she is special and that I am thinking of her.

let me go get a copy of cosmopolitan magazine so i can find out what response i'm supposed give to be "sexually correct" then, all the women on here can gush and fawn over my tender caring spontaneous playful and loving attitude...

or..the truth.....

what i, as a man, do for my woman is give her...the big "OMG*gasm"
that seems to make her feel the happiest...

Thank you Jack.

I believe that most women can appreciate these things. Personally the door opening I feel is one of the biggest things for me. Maybe it might seem old fashioned to some, but it's a little gesture that I truly appreciate.

Gee thanks for putting some real thought into the question argo

I am not sure I even understand this comment.

Oh wow! what a nice gentleman you're jacktreads. I can see you really know how to treat a lady, not like "some" men sometimes all they have in their mind is the word SEX, that in my opinion makes them look cheap and low life...once again I have nothing against anybody here but sometimes the truth hurts. I can name a person here but i will be nice.

I see that yu do a lot of thinking.
Well,maybe, what I do mostly for a woman,is to remind her she is being loved.That her cares and worldly preocupations can be easied out with my constant and consciuos love.

In bed,it is important to give than to recieve. I get very high noticing my woman is having plenitude of pleassure while making love,so that she knows for sure that my engagement is real.Knowsing and sensing that from me causes her to be more open and giving.

Hipocisy in general makes me sick,so I appreciate a woman that can appreciate me for what I am, a loving man,and doesnt try me to keep in social posses and clich�s.

No I didnt read Whatdoyou,asawomandoforaman,and I dont knowhow to get to it.Id be cool I did.

Yes Tengo, I do a lot of thinking. I can appreciate those that in turn take a moment to ponder the questions placed before them before typing. Thank you for responding.

The What Do You, As A Woman, Do For Your Man? thread is in the dating and relationship section of these forums.

. okay I could go so many places with this topic its not even funny.lol..
. first off what don't we men do for you women..omg.. that's all we think about. is a women. what they need what they want how to make them happy.. the list is endless...hahaha..
please disregard my top comments..lol.. you are clearly looking for the softer side... now are you looking for epic.. move mountains.. travel across the globe. endure hardship. slay the dragons.. you know the epic search . for your one true love.. or just the everyday. the making you coffee in the morning.. the getting the kids up . well you get ready for your day... you use up all the hot water for your shower. baby I will take a cold one... the brushing the snow off your car and scraping your windows for you in the morning... are there. renovate your house to your desired wishes..are could it be more along the lines. of working myself ragged.. so you can live the lifestyle that you are accustomed to... I take the kids to Taekwondo classes you can sit at home and read a book... or is it the. I arrive home before you and make supper... and do all the dishes... Are could it be as simple as. texting you a picture of roses.. during your work day.. and sending you a little sonnet. to go along with it... could it be making dinner reservations on a Friday night.. maybe I pick up the groceries on my way home... here sweetie let me massage your feet.. can it be as simple as. that's okay sweetheart we can just sleep tonight........ is that the kind of stuff you looking for....??.hmm

.. correction.. are the renovate..lol

Argo, I only have an OMG*gasm when I'm shopping

That is because you have never been with a male Melmacian.

Oh no1, you have clearly said almost anything some women might run towards. Then some other women will read all of this and they would run from you.

I personally do not seek a man to do everything for me as I am quite capable of doing almost anything for myself. Maybe you read too much into my question? The simple, little things, the things that bring the inner smile to her that radiates across her face.

Yes some of what you said is that indeed, while some, in my opinion, may seem a bit smothering. Sort of on the lines from the other thread where making his lunch for him was not really appreciated.

.. yeah well that used to be my everyday.... not a fantasy.. but a reality.... and no this is not me doing everything for you.... this is me appreciating you... helping you helping me... being in a relationship... together.... sometimes you do the dishes sometimes I do the dishes.. and sometimes we do the dishes together....

Now this, no1 I totally get. Thank you

It also explains the words in your last post a bit better. Appreciation is an amazing thing is it not? Especially when the other partner actually appreciates these things.

I suppose my past relationships have not shown me much of what you wrote. They were more of a if I don't do it, it will never get done. Not much on the *TOGETHER* line. I also believe they are the reasons for my threads. Seeking confirmation that there are different ways in relationships than what I have always been used to.

.. yes I have noticed a lot of women .. have had the same experiences as you.. the doing it yourself part.. I truly feel sad for . and a shamed of. some of the members of my gender...