Topic: What Do You, As A Man, Do For Your Woman?
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Thu 03/27/14 11:51 AM

.. yes I have noticed a lot of women .. have had the same experiences as you.. the doing it yourself part.. I truly feel sad for . and a shamed of. some of the members of my gender...


Oh yes, I do as well. I think the best thing I got from the relationship is the ability to fix my own vehicle when it needs it :laughing:

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Thu 03/27/14 11:55 AM
.. yes every cloud has a silver lining..lol.. you are a strong minded independent woman.. I truly hope you find the right guy.. or more to the point he fines you... on that day and on that day... he will truly know he is a lucky man... sincerely..phD..flowerforyou

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Thu 03/27/14 12:20 PM

.. yes I have noticed a lot of women .. have had the same experiences as you.. the doing it yourself part.. I truly feel sad for . and a shamed of. some of the members of my gender...


If in this date site will be more men can think almost like you doctor! ..It won't be so many disappointed women flowers U R such a nice well educated person. More than one men might want to take u as an example!:smile: just saying blushing

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Thu 03/27/14 12:19 PM

.. yes every cloud has a silver lining..lol.. you are a strong minded independent woman.. I truly hope you find the right guy.. or more to the point he fines you... on that day and on that day... he will truly know he is a lucky man... sincerely..phD..flowerforyou


Why thank you No1 flowerforyou

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Thu 03/27/14 12:37 PM
Edited by no1phD on Thu 03/27/14 12:37 PM
.. thanks Maria I think... yes there wouldn't be so many disappointed women... 00 I can just feel the pain coming my way right now.lol.. I can't thank you enough Maria... now if you don't mind.. I'm going to go to kneel over there by that. chopping block.. and lay my head upon it... and wait for that cold steel Axe.. to come slicing through...lol

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Thu 03/27/14 12:42 PM
You're so funny and kind :smile: No need for that...let some of them see the nice comments we have to make about you!

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Thu 03/27/14 12:44 PM
.. oh and the axe man...argo...lol:wink:

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Thu 03/27/14 12:58 PM

I treat her with respect and really listen when she talks.Being in the restaurant biz for 20 yrs I usually cook her something and can make any cocktail she desires.I take a interest in what she likes to do and always let her have ladies choice when asking her what she wants to do or go.I am old fashioned so I like to open doors, and conduct myself like a gentleman. If I have sex with her after we are done I do not jump in my clothes and run out the door like I am a fireman going on a call.I always call the next day so I don't make her feel like it was cheap.I enjoy letting her know that she is special and that I am thinking of her.
perfect chuck

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Thu 03/27/14 01:00 PM

. okay I could go so many places with this topic its not even funny.lol..
. first off what don't we men do for you women..omg.. that's all we think about. is a women. what they need what they want how to make them happy.. the list is endless...hahaha..
please disregard my top comments..lol.. you are clearly looking for the softer side... now are you looking for epic.. move mountains.. travel across the globe. endure hardship. slay the dragons.. you know the epic search . for your one true love.. or just the everyday. the making you coffee in the morning.. the getting the kids up . well you get ready for your day... you use up all the hot water for your shower. baby I will take a cold one... the brushing the snow off your car and scraping your windows for you in the morning... are there. renovate your house to your desired wishes..are could it be more along the lines. of working myself ragged.. so you can live the lifestyle that you are accustomed to... I take the kids to Taekwondo classes you can sit at home and read a book... or is it the. I arrive home before you and make supper... and do all the dishes... Are could it be as simple as. texting you a picture of roses.. during your work day.. and sending you a little sonnet. to go along with it... could it be making dinner reservations on a Friday night.. maybe I pick up the groceries on my way home... here sweetie let me massage your feet.. can it be as simple as. that's okay sweetheart we can just sleep tonight........ is that the kind of stuff you looking for....??.hmm
lovely those little things showing how much you appreciate her

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Thu 03/27/14 01:02 PM
Edited by BrandNewJourney on Thu 03/27/14 01:03 PM

.. thanks Maria I think... yes there wouldn't be so many disappointed women... 00 I can just feel the pain coming my way right now.lol.. I can't thank you enough Maria... now if you don't mind.. I'm going to go to kneel over there by that. chopping block.. and lay my head upon it... and wait for that cold steel Axe.. to come slicing through...lol


no1, I just hope other men are brave enough to speak up as you, Tengo and Jack have been.

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Thu 03/27/14 01:14 PM
So what do all the single-men have to say about what they do for their women and how they did it right?.....if it was right would they be single? maybe not someone i'm willing to emulate....just saying.

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Thu 03/27/14 01:17 PM
.. yes but sometimes you find yourself single.. for other reasons than the most popular.. a person could be widowed... so many reasons for splitting up... I'm just saying.

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Thu 03/27/14 01:22 PM
.. and let's not go overboard people.. its just a topic.. has nothing to do with being brave.. right.. Oh Maria can't thank you enough right now..lolflowerforyou

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Thu 03/27/14 01:23 PM
I make her the centre of my world.

I listen and try to understand her. I give her genuine compliments and tell her how I feel about her. I put clean sheets on the bed, whatever she likes to drink in the fridge and tell her to make herself at home. I visit her in hospital when she's ill and try to cheer her up when she's feeling down. I make her feel desirable and sexy. I give her space though and trust.

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Thu 03/27/14 01:22 PM

So what do all the single-men have to say about what they do for their women and how they did it right?.....if it was right would they be single? maybe not someone i'm willing to emulate....just saying.


I believe that yes it is possible that the things they do can be right and they can also be wrong. Was it in fact, these little things, the cause for them to now be single, or were there other factors that caused this? Was it in fact the wrong partner from the beginning that cause all the little things to have no effect? That caused all his efforts to be futile?

I believe we all change and our behavior is not left out on this fact. I don't think being single has anything to do with these things and how they perceive these things.

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Thu 03/27/14 01:26 PM
true, but the most common reason is "irreconcilable differences" meaning someone somewhere may have been doing the right things, just not for that person, or they may have been doing the wrong things, while thinking they were doing the right things, and it wasn't the others interpretation of the things that they blamed it on. Too many variables to know for certain what things are good and what things are bad, and who may interpret one as the other and vice versa

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Thu 03/27/14 01:26 PM

.. and let's not go overboard people.. its just a topic.. has nothing to do with being brave.. right.. Oh Maria can't thank you enough right now..lolflowerforyou


Brave as in facing the axe :laughing:

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Thu 03/27/14 01:31 PM

true, but the most common reason is "irreconcilable differences" meaning someone somewhere may have been doing the right things, just not for that person, or they may have been doing the wrong things, while thinking they were doing the right things, and it wasn't the others interpretation of the things that they blamed it on. Too many variables to know for certain what things are good and what things are bad, and who may interpret one as the other and vice versa


True and it also brings about the other thing I have noticed that seems to be the most important part of the relationships. COMMUNICATION. It seems it all winds back around to that one word and the importance of it. So if you don't appreciate something speak up because not doing so helps not a one of you.

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Thu 03/27/14 01:33 PM
What Do You, As A Man, Do For Your Woman

I would like to go back in time and ask Henry Viii this question

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Thu 03/27/14 01:35 PM

I make her the centre of my world.

I listen and try to understand her. I give her genuine compliments and tell her how I feel about her. I put clean sheets on the bed, whatever she likes to drink in the fridge and tell her to make herself at home. I visit her in hospital when she's ill and try to cheer her up when she's feeling down. I make her feel desirable and sexy. I give her space though and trust.


Thank you for sharing

For me I think one of the biggest things is the listening and actually hearing what I have to say. I do like the little things but please at least hear me.