I know of a charity named Rosie Palm..good luck

I would say "sign me up for it" but these days that's almost like signing your own death-warrant.
Oral sex means using dental dams and condoms, unless you want to get herpes from a cold sore, or chlamydia, which has been found in ppl's throats. Then there's HIV and all the other STDs.
Cold sores are nasty, cos it's already contagious when you get this itchy feeling, so well before the sore is visible. And 8/9 out of 10 ppl are infected with this herpes virus, so chances of getting that from oral sex/sex are really quite high if you often sexercise different ppl.
Difficult enough to find a guy who's interested in decent oral sex, if you then got to hand him a dental dam, I think he'll do a runner, lol. Men are so difficult when it comes to safe sex. Most want to get going without even using a condom, how thick can you be???
Apparently don't even think of the risk of pregnancy

So all in all, don't sign me up. Effing STDs Life must have been bliss 30 years ago, lol

Crystal where have you been, I ain't seen you for days

I have indeed not been here much lately. I started a trainee-ship 2 weeks ago, just 2 mornings a week, but quite a change and getting used to. Plus we got really nice weather, so been busy in the garden. And been busy with personal growth stuff again, so much is happening at the mo! Recently done a workshop with 4 other women, all our clients were really happy and impressed! We're planning to do another one on May 2nd. I got rehearsals for our gig on Kingsday (April 26th). Apart from all that, I haven't been outgoing much the last month, spent a lot of time reading, soul-searching, growing etc. Quite busy with my crystals again, thoroughly enjoying it :) Probably going to my fave crystal-shop tomorrow to get 2 new ones I only got some 150, always room for more, lol