Topic: HONESTY....
teebee79's photo
Fri 03/21/14 11:00 AM
Would you rather live in a world where everyone was brutally honesty
ALL OF THE TIME

or

In a world, where Everyone is nice ALL OF THE TIME.

I would take the honesty, but only in terms of me asking!
I don't want anyone's unsolicited " truth". honestly!noway

msharmony's photo
Fri 03/21/14 11:05 AM
Id rather live where people were nice

it in no way impedes being honest



'brutally' honest, to me, implies a disregard for the WAY we speak the truth,,, which I wouldn't want,,,

teebee79's photo
Fri 03/21/14 11:20 AM

Id rather live where people were nice

it in no way impedes being honest



'brutally' honest, to me, implies a disregard for the WAY we speak the truth,,, which I wouldn't want,,,


I agree to a point msharmony.

I find that some people go so far out of their way to be nice, that they fail to be honest.

While, others in their " quest" to be honest, fail to adhere to tact and respect.

msharmony's photo
Fri 03/21/14 11:30 AM
I agree.

Its just as easy to say 'your weight is not healthy for you'

as it is to say 'you're a fat a$$'


I mean, there are so many words to choose from in the English language to get across whatever message we are trying to get across..lol

no1phD's photo
Fri 03/21/14 11:33 AM
Edited by no1phD on Fri 03/21/14 11:33 AM
.. well honestly I think you're both hot.. and funny and smart.. and sexy.. and probably snappy dressers too..lol.. now is that honest enough... are nice enough..hmm

teebee79's photo
Fri 03/21/14 11:39 AM

I agree.

Its just as easy to say 'your weight is not healthy for you'

as it is to say 'you're a fat a$$'


I mean, there are so many words to choose from in the English language to get across whatever message we are trying to get across..lol


hahaha.. So very true,
I have 1 friend who will say " unhealthy weight"
and the other " You're a fat A$$, what happened"

I need new friendslaugh

teebee79's photo
Fri 03/21/14 11:40 AM

.. well honestly I think you're both hot.. and funny and smart.. and sexy.. and probably snappy dressers too..lol.. now is that honest enough... are nice enough..hmm


I like your honesty, No1!

Candiapples's photo
Fri 03/21/14 11:41 AM
Ever watch the movie Pleasantville?
We definitely need color and contrast or life would be soooooo borrrrring

Candiapples's photo
Fri 03/21/14 11:46 AM
Not to say that people should lie and too nice?
Wheres my barffff bag? laugh

NorCalSwe's photo
Fri 03/21/14 11:47 AM
Edited by NorCalSwe on Fri 03/21/14 11:49 AM

Would you rather live in a world where everyone was brutally honesty
ALL OF THE TIME

or

In a world, where Everyone is nice ALL OF THE TIME.

I would take the honesty, but only in terms of me asking!
I don't want anyone's unsolicited " truth". honestly!noway


Reminds me of "The Invention of Lying" where people can't lie. Favorite bit, what thay called a nursing home "A sad place where people go to die"

Honesty may always be the best policy, but it's not always the kindest.

msharmony's photo
Fri 03/21/14 11:48 AM


.. well honestly I think you're both hot.. and funny and smart.. and sexy.. and probably snappy dressers too..lol.. now is that honest enough... are nice enough..hmm


I like your honesty, No1!


quite the charmer, huh?

honestly,,,lol


( I have to admit I'm not into fashion though, much rather be clean and comfortable than try to meet 'fashionable' standards,,,,)


teebee79's photo
Fri 03/21/14 12:02 PM



Reminds me of "The Invention of Lying" where people can't lie. Favorite bit, what thay called a nursing home "A sad place where people go to die"

Honesty may always be the best policy, but it's not always the kindest.


Sometimes honesty can be kind..

If I'm wearing a very unflattering dress,
boyfriend's may say " Babe, you look fine"
My Best friend would say " Honey, you have better dresses, this one is not flattering"

I've now avoided being laughed at talked about beind me back.. Well, at least about my dress!:tongue:

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 03/21/14 02:36 PM

.. well honestly I think you're both hot.. and funny and smart.. and sexy.. and probably snappy dressers too..lol.. now is that honest enough... are nice enough..hmm


Of course both Sweet Tee and msharmony are hot and sexy and desirable and ...

Am I being too honest here?

Candiapples's photo
Fri 03/21/14 02:47 PM
Barf Bag please!! ill

Candiapples's photo
Fri 03/21/14 02:48 PM
Just kidding ladies flowerforyou

regularfeller's photo
Fri 03/21/14 03:59 PM
My ol' pa used to say, "I don't always tell the truth but I never lie." I reckon he would find a way to be honest without hurting someone's feelings.