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Topic: Arranged marriages.
funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Tue 03/18/14 03:26 PM
i have an indian friend that is in an arranged marriage, and he just hates it, but there is nothing he can do till the parents are gone... A cul-de-sac I used to live in was all Indians, all had arranged marriages. I would say, maybe half were happy. Until they got to America. The next-door lady would slam out the front door every night after dinner. Take a long walk. She always went back but told me she hated the husband but not the 2 kids. They don't like desserts, either :-) Did they make nice curry

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Tue 03/18/14 04:03 PM
Sure...bring em back! I'm past the desirable marrying age..... I'm in no danger

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Tue 03/18/14 04:41 PM
You can't be that bad man. No, I don't think that we should bring it back but I'm all in favour of being introduced to women by my family. Told my sister the other day how hot I thought that one of her friends is looking these days. Not sure that she's passing these messages on though.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Tue 03/18/14 04:47 PM
Did they make nice curry Yes, they did, which is good because you sniffed it ALL day long :-)

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Tue 03/18/14 04:47 PM
Did they make nice curry Yes, they did, which is good because you sniffed it ALL day long :-) LMFAO

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 03/18/14 05:24 PM
Sure...bring em back! I'm past the desirable marrying age..... I'm in no danger Sweet Tee, you are still desirable. Why must you live so far away from me?

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Tue 03/18/14 05:26 PM
Hi Dave

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Tue 03/18/14 06:09 PM
Sure...bring em back! I'm past the desirable marrying age..... I'm in no danger Sweet Tee, you are still desirable. Why must you live so far away from me? There there.. My favorite Melmacian

red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Wed 03/19/14 06:12 AM
Realcarebear. Your honesty is refreshing. I wish the women here in Kent were as honest as you.

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Wed 03/19/14 06:57 AM


mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Wed 03/19/14 07:25 AM
i have an indian friend that is in an arranged marriage, and he just hates it, but there is nothing he can do till the parents are gone... A cul-de-sac I used to live in was all Indians, all had arranged marriages. I would say, maybe half were happy. Until they got to America. The next-door lady would slam out the front door every night after dinner. Take a long walk. She always went back but told me she hated the husband but not the 2 kids. They don't like desserts, either :-) We had a young (20's) indian couple in our apartment complex. They didn't show much emotion so not sure how happy they were but after the baby came they seemed to be a lot happier..The husbands parents came and moved in with them and took care of the baby while wife worked. They bought a house and moved right before xmas so I don't see them any more.

mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Wed 03/19/14 07:27 AM Edited by mssilverfox on Wed 03/19/14 07:29 AM
Did they make nice curry Yes, they did, which is good because you sniffed it ALL day long :-) When the indian couple here moved, the landlord had to clean the carpet and paint to get the spicy odors out.. The couple said they were putting their stove in the garage and cooking there so their new house didn't get that smell...lol

Unknow Joined Wed 03/19/14 Posts: 10	Wed 03/19/14 04:52 PM
Can I get a true love here

Unknow Joined Wed 03/19/14 Posts: 10	Wed 03/19/14 04:55 PM
I prefer arranged marriage

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Wed 03/19/14 05:41 PM
When the indian couple here moved, the landlord had to clean the carpet and paint to get the spicy odors out.. The couple said they were putting their stove in the garage and cooking there so their new house didn't get that smell...lol hahahahaha All the Indian ladies in the cul-de-sac would get together, sit on someone's lawn, and chattering away, would pull the grass out in clumps..they did not know from lawnmowers and their feller's did not mow :-) But an arranged marriage, as a way of life, seemed to work for some of them, they seemed..happy :-).