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I feel pathetic. I found a girl I really want to connect with, I put her as a favorite and emailed her. Nothing, says she checked her site within the last 4 days. I know, I know, she's probably busy, on vacation, taking a break form all of this, or a thousand other perfectly good and logical reasons. But I keep checking to see if she has checked her site, like some pathetic stacker waiting in the building elevator to meet that pretty girl who lives in the building. You'd think by my age I'd be better at this. 35 years of relationships and I've learned exactly......nothing, nothing. OMG I need to seek help. From my point of view, I usually Don't email people who have made me a favorite before I've spoken/ emailed with them. It tells me that he's shallow and a bit of a perv. This may not be who You are, but in my experiences, this is what I thought. you say this as if it is a bad thing... ![]() hmmm, you know... in the right context, a bit of a perv maybe ok ![]() |
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I feel pathetic. I found a girl I really want to connect with, I put her as a favorite and emailed her. Nothing, says she checked her site within the last 4 days. I know, I know, she's probably busy, on vacation, taking a break form all of this, or a thousand other perfectly good and logical reasons. But I keep checking to see if she has checked her site, like some pathetic stacker waiting in the building elevator to meet that pretty girl who lives in the building. You'd think by my age I'd be better at this. 35 years of relationships and I've learned exactly......nothing, nothing. OMG I need to seek help. AAAWWW you sound sweet. I'm sure if she reads this she may get in touch. Good luck ![]() |
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Well, I won't share what is in the email, that is for her, whatever she decides to do.
I'd like to send one every day. I'd like to send her flowers. I'd like to take her dinner. Not to get into her knickers (my years in the UK showing), but just to understand who she is, what she wants, what makes her happy. She can start with the day she was born and stop with this moment, and I'd listen to every word while I looked at that lovely lovely face. That's honest, believe me or not, I don't care. Maybe we have nothing in common, maybe in the end there is nothing there. Fine, that's OK, at least we know, we don't have wonder. All it costs was time, and not much of that. |
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Well, I won't share what is in the email, that is for her, whatever she decides to do. I'd like to send one every day. I'd like to send her flowers. I'd like to take her dinner. Not to get into her knickers (my years in the UK showing), but just to understand who she is, what she wants, what makes her happy. She can start with the day she was born and stop with this moment, and I'd listen to every word while I looked at that lovely lovely face. That's honest, believe me or not, I don't care. Maybe we have nothing in common, maybe in the end there is nothing there. Fine, that's OK, at least we know, we don't have wonder. All it costs was time, and not much of that. GOOD LUCK!! ![]() ![]() |
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Well, I won't share what is in the email, that is for her, whatever she decides to do. I'd like to send one every day. I'd like to send her flowers. I'd like to take her dinner. Not to get into her knickers (my years in the UK showing), but just to understand who she is, what she wants, what makes her happy. She can start with the day she was born and stop with this moment, and I'd listen to every word while I looked at that lovely lovely face. That's honest, believe me or not, I don't care. Maybe we have nothing in common, maybe in the end there is nothing there. Fine, that's OK, at least we know, we don't have wonder. All it costs was time, and not much of that. GOOD LUCK!! ![]() ![]() Somehow, in that good luck, I sense doubt TeeHee. :-) |
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Well, I won't share what is in the email, that is for her, whatever she decides to do. I'd like to send one every day. I'd like to send her flowers. I'd like to take her dinner. Not to get into her knickers (my years in the UK showing), but just to understand who she is, what she wants, what makes her happy. She can start with the day she was born and stop with this moment, and I'd listen to every word while I looked at that lovely lovely face. That's honest, believe me or not, I don't care. Maybe we have nothing in common, maybe in the end there is nothing there. Fine, that's OK, at least we know, we don't have wonder. All it costs was time, and not much of that. GOOD LUCK!! ![]() ![]() Somehow, in that good luck, I sense doubt TeeHee. :-) |
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Whoops, meant TeeBee auto-correct me again.
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Mightymoe. Yes women like confidence i.e. alpha male. But they also like honesty too. Mind you things have changed, even Woody Allen types can pull thesedays. I don't know what to think anymore.
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Mightymoe. Yes women like confidence i.e. alpha male. But they also like honesty too. Mind you things have changed, even Woody Allen types can pull thesedays. I don't know what to think anymore. I don't think women have changed much and I you and Moe are both right. We all prefer people with confidence, not arrogance, who can be real. |
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Btw, 5 messages without a reply is the limit. They won't let you send more on this site. That's probably a good idea, it save me from myself. :-)
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Btw, 5 messages without a reply is the limit. They won't let you send more on this site. That's probably a good idea, it save me from myself. :-) I understand but I must say, of course I messaged her because of her picuture, I've never met her and she said almost nothing in her profile. I find her face intriguing. If I saw her somewhere I'd want to meet her, because I like her face. Whether it went any further would be because we like each other as people. But yes, I messaged her because I found her face to be wonderful. Maybe she's a complete loon, who knows, but I'd like the chance to find out. That's all I'm asking. If I message anyone, all I'm saying is, hey I'd like to get to know you. If I invite a lady out to dinner, I'm saying the same thing. If people won't answer because I messaged, or I said they were pretty, or I put them in favorites because I wanted to remember them. Well, so be it. Or because we haven't met on the forums and chatted for a month, well OK. If all else fails, I'll move back to the States, meet someone and see how it goes. Finding dates has never been a problem. I like women and I like spending time with them. I saw one girl whose face stopped my heart, I stared at her and wondered who is she? So I wrote her and told her I wanted to get to know her. If I saw her on the street I'm sure I would have made a complete fool out of myself. Definitely would have run into something while staring at her. So, I've done the same here with all my texts. |
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And before someone calls me shallow, no I don't always want to meet someone because of how they look. I love humorous people with a dry wit and if I like what they wrote I'd contact them. Also, if someone I find physically attractive is just that and nothing more, then I'm not going to stay interested. I'm guessing we all hope to find someone we enjoy looking at, talking to and just being with. JACKPOT.
And please don't try and second quess me, you have no idea what I find physically attractive. :-) |
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Jmo but if you've sent 5 messages give her time to read them view your profile and she if she's interested. I'd get a bit freaked out if the messages continued, without a response. But that's just me
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Jmo but if you've sent 5 messages give her time to read them view your profile and she if she's interested. I'd get a bit freaked out if the messages continued, without a response. But that's just me Thanks pkh!! I think I just went a bit nuts those first couple days on here. I'm sure she is a write off and I wouldn't blame her. If she is crazy enough to answer me, I may question her judgement. ![]() But as they say, the hunt continues. Release the hounds and sound the bugle. The game is afoot!!!! ![]() |
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You never know like you said she hadn't been on for 4 days. Best of luck to you
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I would not let it get you down....I prefer watching people in the forums, and how they act and treat others..flirting..mean..nice...funny...etc...
and just for the record..I am lazy when it comes to mail...sometimes I will let it sit for days...sometimes..I even forget about it..lol ![]() and JMO...most people are not in that big of a rush...if they are..that is a RED flag. Good luck and Best wishes. |
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If I sounded rude I sure didn't meant to be. Like Sherrie said hang in the forums till you meet that special one. Many great people here
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I would not let it get you down....I prefer watching people in the forums, and how they act and treat others..flirting..mean..nice...funny...etc... and just for the record..I am lazy when it comes to mail...sometimes I will let it sit for days...sometimes..I even forget about it..lol ![]() and JMO...most people are not in that big of a rush...if they are..that is a RED flag. Good luck and Best wishes. Thanks Tex. :-) Makes sense. I am online and on my email because of my job, I forget that's not true for everyone. Now, let me get this straight, if (when) someone tells me to go to hell, I will end up on your doorstep? |
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If I sounded rude I sure didn't meant to be. Like Sherrie said hang in the forums till you meet that special one. Many great people here I'm having a great time pkh!!! Everyone has been very nice. Mostly, I've missed talking to North Americans (want to include the Canadians) ![]() |
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Glad to hear that. So many good people here. Enjoy
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