Have you come across a person who has poor conversation skills? He/she would rather am you 20 billion questions rather than let things flow naturally?

This happens to be quite often. I usually stop s Po communicating with them. I HATE, when ppl ask me what I do for a living, I always wonder what relevance is that?

Ahhhh.... those things usually happened with girls so we r unknown 'bout it.however, because they r somehow unfamiliar with virtual people & think they can wrap them.

Sorry,
I'm also not so good at conversations.
OP,will u pl.let me know what do you mean exactly by above?

Relevance varies per instance.

For me,that question would be okay even if some gentleman is asking for getting acquainted.

I would perhaps consider it odd only if someone is asking it even before few other normal talks.

they want to know someone who can afford the materials things they want. LOL

Well if don't understand, this isn't the blog for you! Smh.

GSOH,cha.

I won't be buying them brokes hoes nothing! They have to pay thier own way! No free rides over this way

Okayyy

Would you at least care to relate the things with the title you given to this thread & care to elaborate exactly when do you HATE the question of what do u do? Is that during job interviews only or always,anywhere,anytime,from anyone?

Resume already contains this info,then why would a job interviewer ask that question?

Ridiculous.

GWS.

Pras...let it go baby, you are so lost right now.

personally, I think text conversation is harder than in person, because tone and body language is missing so its harder to gauge the type of statements or questions that are 'flowing' or not.

It doesn't bother me to be asked questions about what I do, I just take it as an interest in what is a big part of my daily routine (work). Everyone is different when it comes to what they choose to share or not though. The only off limit questions for me are about my physical attributes (breast size, personal shaving habits,,etc,,)

any indication that a person is TOO eager and focused on the physical or sexual is an immediate turn off for me

Let it go if that's you nature baby,I hate giving up...Enjoy yourself.


hope you find out soon what you exactly want,so that you could get on the right way towards it.

That's very fair thinking.

Perhaps I would say it NORMAL.

At last we human beings are social animals.

I get tired of being interviewed, too. I've found that it's hard to get those who just ask questions to do much else, unfortunately.

That being said, not all questions are bad. Just steer clear of the typical, boring questions right off the bat. And try to actually have a conversation, rather than just interviewing.

I concur, singmesweet. I'm more likely to ask you hiw your day went, what did you cook for dinner. Small talk. I try to keep my conversations with you as normal as possible.

I don't answer opportunist type of questions regarding jobs, specific living locations, etc. I met at least two gold diggers.

I agree msharmony. I can usually detect a red flag. I had one woman ask me a bunch of very intrusive questions tions, but then never answered any of my simple questions.

I agree msharmony. I can usually detect a red flag. I had one woman ask me a bunch of very intrusive questions tions, but then never answered any of my simple questions.