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Topic: Do you prefer dominance or submission and why
lonelyman3036 Joined Mon 08/05/13 Posts: 1590	Tue 04/08/14 10:28 AM
I'm doninate. In certain situations though, submissive is hawt!

boluajulo Joined Mon 04/07/14 Posts: 12	Tue 04/08/14 04:02 PM
I all rather stylishly dominate..lol...

regularfeller Joined Sat 11/10/12 Posts: 2394	Tue 04/08/14 08:06 PM
I want to be dominated Get off the computer and fetch me a sandwich woman!

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Thu 04/10/14 02:01 AM
I like to be the dominant one. I got sick of dating controlling types. They kinda scared me. If anything, it only influenced me to be more careful with who I pick.

shrxfn68 Joined Thu 07/16/09 Posts: 1482	Thu 04/10/14 05:56 AM
I personally have always been into the BDSM lifestyle. Dom. Never a switch have been or Submissive. Most who don't think outside the box think it's more of a weirdness that is perverted. Well, in some cases it may look like that, but that's OK. There is several different types or genres of the lifestyle that I will not do. I've done years of reading and research on the subject by talking to Mistresses and Doms. Facebook has a very informative page named a A Dominants Initiative as well as one for Subs. Along with their actual website which explains it more in detail. The trend with 50 shades is a misconception amongst the public. Dealing with this in the bedroom, being the sexual and sensual Dom, there are things people don't realize that there is safety involved, first aid kits, proper knot tying, posture and position, as well as the much needed trust and respect you must have for each other. There's a lot more to say, but I just thought I'd throw my two cents in for now;)

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33339	Thu 04/10/14 06:02 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Thu 04/10/14 06:04 AM
Being dominant isn't always s&m. It's about literally owning the other person. The dominant is ur daddy or master or mama or whatever u wanna call him/her. It's a skill for either role. Really? You may wanna read up on the subject before you come up with this kind of statements ... Personally wouldn't want a submissive man, whether we're talking in or out of bed. Submissive men turn me off big time, I'd walk all over them for a bit, then they'd start to bore me, irritate me and I'd get fed up with it.

lonelyman3036 Joined Mon 08/05/13 Posts: 1590	Thu 04/10/14 06:28 AM
Being dominant isn't always s&m. It's about literally owning the other person. The dominant is ur daddy or master or mama or whatever u wanna call him/her. It's a skill for either role. Really? You may wanna read up on the subject before you come up with this kind of statements ... Personally wouldn't want a submissive man, whether we're talking in or out of bed. Submissive men turn me off big time, I'd walk all over them for a bit, then they'd start to bore me, irritate me and I'd get fed up with it. Its always been how I felt. Woman will lose respect for a man really quick like that.

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Thu 04/10/14 07:06 AM
I never really put that much thought into it. I do like a strong woman but I don't want one who thinks I'm a stepping stone. Strength to me is not dictated by roles such as dominant or submissive. I want a partner someone who is an equal. Pretty simple to me so thats probably why I haven't ever put much thought into it.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Thu 04/10/14 07:27 AM
. this is my date.. what do you think! I prefer..hmm.

Harish67 Joined Sat 12/21/13 Posts: 20	Thu 04/10/14 07:39 AM
Thats ****in' awesome....

Harish67 Joined Sat 12/21/13 Posts: 20	Thu 04/10/14 07:45 AM
For those who are sex perverts... i am me...!!!

honeybunny05 Joined Tue 04/08/14 Posts: 2	Thu 04/10/14 11:33 AM
i like sex like human should do..animals are different from us .i think

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33339	Tue 04/15/14 09:01 AM
. this is my date.. what do you think! I prefer..hmm. You tell me? She's dressed like a sub, but her expression isn't that of a sub, unless she's addressing her children, which is not advisable in that outfit.

longboardernew Joined Mon 02/03/14 Posts: 583	Tue 04/15/14 08:19 PM
a pleaser

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Tue 04/15/14 08:31 PM
I love it when a woman ties me up beats my azz then gives it to me the way i want it...LOL Just kdding. well kinda

xXSlave4uXx Joined Tue 03/04/14 Posts: 308	Tue 04/15/14 08:41 PM
I love it when a woman ties me up beats my azz then gives it to me the way i want it...LOL Just kdding. well kinda You didn't use the safe word lol

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Tue 04/15/14 09:15 PM
I love it when a woman ties me up beats my azz then gives it to me the way i want it...LOL Just kdding. well kinda You didn't use the safe word lol WORD UP.. BABY LOL

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Tue 04/15/14 09:32 PM
I love it when a woman ties me up beats my azz then gives it to me the way i want it...LOL Just kdding. well kinda well kinda lol bring out the whips and cuffs

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Tue 04/15/14 09:42 PM
I love it when a woman ties me up beats my azz then gives it to me the way i want it...LOL Just kdding. well kinda well kinda lol bring out the whips and cuffs pkh what are you doing in this thread? your to sweet and nice. but you know you can cuff me to your bed anyday.lol

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Tue 04/15/14 09:44 PM
I love it when a woman ties me up beats my azz then gives it to me the way i want it...LOL Just kdding. well kinda well kinda lol bring out the whips and cuffs pkh what are you doing in this thread? your to sweet and nice. but you know you can cuff me to your bed anyday.lol lol slowly sneaks back out