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I am not getting any matches.
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Patience :-)
Enjoining the forums usually gets you noticed :-) |
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.. it takes some longer than other sweetie.. your match might not be here yet.. still looking for you in the woods so to speak... so yeah join in on the topics.. put your two cents in.. just be yourself.. and wait patiently.... you know what they say.. for every rainbow . there is a pot of gold... okay I just said it..no1.phD.... welcome..2m2...
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Sounds good. I really thought maybe I have been too picky but I am still recovering and don't want what I don't want.
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Welcome to Mingle.2.
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Welcome to Mingle.
I read your profile a couple times and had a little bit of confusion what were your traits and what were ones you hope to find in your preferred gentleman. I would delete the reference to what you don't want. Just ignore, delete, or block their mail. Sadly new people always get the baptism by fire so please do not take it personally. You always have the option to read a profile in stealth mode before you open mail. Some are just better to delete unopened. I would encourage you to replace your lead shot with more flattering photos. You have delicate coloring so it is easy to loose your features behind glasses that are not perfectly positioned and lightening that washes you out. If you are comfortable with a slight amount of makeup it would compliment you delicate mouth and draw the viewers attention up to your cheeks and beautiful eyes. If you don't wear a lot of makeup go to a high end cosmetic counter in a mall on a weekday morning and ask for some tips and non-allergenic samples. Men like women with long hair so I would play that up with taking it out from behind your ears and letting it drape around your face some at least on one side. I would not see black as your most flattering color maybe softening it with a silk scarf in a drape that gives you an illusion of a more open collar with out being too revealing. The neckline in the current lead photo seems to choke you. By dropping your shoulders, extending your chin slightly, and smiling at just off center your photo will naturally relax and become more engaging. You have many interests that you have identified rather genericlly but could explain with more photos. A nice outdoor photo on your church campus with your Minister would be a relaxed normal full length photo. This whole medium is made or lost in the 3 Seconds that people see your mini photo so make sure it is good. Good luck. |
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