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Handsome,tall, sexy body and rich isn't the most important when choosing a right paterner. Character is most important thing a guy with a good character is better than a handsome rich guy without manners. When a guy is gentle, honest, sincere,understandingand respectful you will be treated like a woman . Character will make you fall deeply in love with a guy you thought you can't love. Remember that love grows like wise character is the catalyst that makes love grow. A good man is a blessing it can make a woman more beautiful.Though I find it difficult to fall in love with a short or fat guy but who knows character might change my mind lol.Be free to share your opinion.
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I think the more open you are to love,
the more of it there is around :-) Preferences can leave you very lonely. |
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You cannot get 100% of what you want in a man.
He might be tall, intelligent and got bad behaviour that is hidden, He might be fat, intelligent and might got good behaviour, and you as a beautiful lady would dislike him for being fat. He might have got good behaviour, very intelligent and very short, and you as a selective tall beautiful lady might quickly see the shortness of him and click the block button and snub the short well behaved man. |
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I think the more open you are to love, the more of it there is around :-) Preferences can leave you very lonely. 
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I think the more open you are to love, the more of it there is around :-) Preferences can leave you very lonely.
    
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I tend to agree. Open to possibilities is the key. Everyone has a specific idea of their Prince/Princess Charming, but really, that is almost a mythical ideal. As with everything else in life, there has to be room for some compromise. But if you are stuck in a tunnel vision idea, who knows how many wonderful people you are missing. One of them could be the love of your life, but you will miss them entirely. The hoary old cliche about not seeing the forest for the trees applies quite well here.
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Edited by
vanaheim
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Wed 02/26/14 10:49 PM
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An articulate, beautiful post SkyLady, however I find lots of people are very booksmart about relationships, but in practise they go right ahead and do the complete opposite of everything they say.
Like a teen game. Very, very rare to find people in general, so competent at thinking on their feet that you can just take everything they say at face value and apply it directly to what they do in front of your eyes and it matches precisely. Ridiculously rare, as if humanity was a satirical comedy about itself. In fact you know what, I've always found people are generally threatened by it, as if you're supposed to play a theatre of life, not actually really live it. |
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I think the more open you are to love, the more of it there is around :-) Preferences can leave you very lonely. I'm on board with this . |
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I'm an iceberg to that ship you're on board with.
Loneliest I've ever been was when I was actually with a pretty hot chick...who was completely incompatable to the point of draining, and the whole thing was honestly like having your head locked in a small box for years, dying to just get out and breathe the fresh air again. |
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Soufiehere is right on---preferences are our left brain logical side --- its the right brain emotional side that does the picking--attraction is not a choice---what i mean is its not a conscious choice because its the emotional part of us thats in control…..it has to do with core beliefs and the favorite feelings we have that go along with it---
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An articulate, beautiful post SkyLady, however I find lots of people are very booksmart about relationships, but in practise they go right ahead and do the complete opposite of everything they say. Like a teen game. Very, very rare to find people in general, so competent at thinking on their feet that you can just take everything they say at face value and apply it directly to what they do in front of your eyes and it matches precisely. Ridiculously rare, as if humanity was a satirical comedy about itself. In fact you know what, I've always found people are generally threatened by it, as if you're supposed to play a theatre of life, not actually really live it. |
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Edited by
skylady2020
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Thu 02/27/14 03:25 PM
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Van I hope you didn't get me wrong.I believe every human is attracted to certain kind of character and apperance.I'm not saying that a guy most possess all that I want no no .For example if a guy is average height with good character such guy can win me over.if he is fat with time I will talk him into sliming down after all I'm also working hard to keep feet .But if God decided to grant me my heart desire I will be more happy.That is giving me tall guy with good character.Afterall my mum is tall my dad is tall and they are wonderful couple till now.My brother and his wife are both tall they also happy.As you can see me I love to smile all the time and I will smile more if find love in a good guy.So if you to comment get me right I know I may not end up exactly with a tall man but that is what I pray for ok.
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..can we find true love here??? |
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skylady,you are are really a woman with prestige. honestly I Will be glad to be your friend
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Edited by
skylady2020
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Thu 02/27/14 03:32 PM
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Van you where not lonely because the Lady was beautiful ok. You where not meet for each other that all. I have seen ugly ladies with no character likewise some pretty ladies with no character.You can also go through hell with ugly lady.
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SweetSweet zeth be careful here you can find love if you are patient, wise and sensible. Remember we have more fake people here.
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KudosKudos headmsb29
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..Thank you,skylady.!
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You welcome
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