Topic: How to Know if He Loves You
whispertoascream's photo
Tue 09/11/07 08:48 PM
So, you have been knowing this guy for quite some time now. You love being with him and never feel lonely when he is around. Your face breaks into a smile at the very mention of his name. The first person you think of when you get up in the morning is him. But does he feel the same way about you too? Guys are finicky when it comes to admitting that they like a girl. And more often than not, they end up losing the girl just because it is too late to tell her that he is in love. Just to make it easy for both you and him, we bring you sure shot signs that he loves you. Read on about ways to find if a guy likes you and how to know if he loves you.

* He takes interest in your day-to-day life. He asks how your day was and feels concerned if anything is wrong.

* His behavior suddenly changes when you come around. He suddenly mellows down and becomes a bit quieter while chatting with his friends. Dead give away!

* He remembers almost every small thing that you say. It shows how special you are.

* He calls up just to listen to your voice and gives a silly reason when you ask as to why did he call.

* He insists on meeting up every now and then and admits how much he loves being around you.

* He is good with everyone, but with you he goes that extra mile to ensure comfort.

* His body language changes when you are there. He displays affection through subtle hints like stroking your cheek slightly, taking your hand in his palms and being less stiff.

* He looks in your eyes and you feel there is something special about it. He has this shine when he is looking at you.

These are some sure signs that tell a guy really likes you. But do not confront him as soon as you find these signs in him. Give him some time to realize that he loves you. On the other hand, you can show him in your own ways that you like him too. You will know the right time to confide, you just do!

Abracadabra's photo
Tue 09/11/07 09:17 PM
",...and being less stiff."

Oops!

Well, at least you got the majority of things right. :wink:

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Tue 09/11/07 09:58 PM
Oh yeah, I remember those....!!

Smiles2b4U's photo
Tue 09/11/07 11:14 PM
Whisper, Your my hero!!!Thanks, Smilesflowerforyou

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Tue 09/11/07 11:16 PM
Bullsh1t.... any guy can make it seem like he means those kinds of things. The only way to know if he loves you is time.

whispertoascream's photo
Wed 09/12/07 08:51 AM
Sure it may take time. But with time still comes the signs.

pkh's photo
Wed 09/12/07 09:00 AM
Very nice Whisper,I'm feeling a lot of that right now.But the L word is scary for me,so I use the I like you alot instead.:smile:

ArtGurl's photo
Wed 09/12/07 09:03 AM
hmmmm .... is that more accurate than a daisy? He loves me ... he loves me not ... he loves me ... he loves me not ....



puts down daisy and starts paying attention .... flowerforyou

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Wed 09/12/07 09:04 AM
To YOUR question here, I say to YOU,

HOW can YOU "NOT" feel and KNOW him as LOVE,,then,,,
HE WOULD BE "LOVE",,,until THEN?????

You will have to wait until you really "FEEL" only him, then HE, ONLY HAS "YOU" in his HEART!!!:heart:

LOVING "ANYONE" will NEVER be JUST THE WORDS, its EVERYTHING about "THEM"!!!flowerforyou

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 09/12/07 09:19 AM
flowerforyou Whisper...

im2fun's photo
Wed 09/12/07 09:37 AM
I've never really been in love, so these are words that I will hold dear...thanks :wink:

Puffins1958's photo
Wed 09/12/07 01:31 PM
What is scary is when you start feeling all those things, and you are so far apart from one another...it is hard to see him

:cry: flowerforyou :cry:

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Wed 09/12/07 03:59 PM
I believe "signs" are bullsh!t... the proof is in the pudding. I want him to say it and openly show it. That 'sweet' beating around the bush sh!t aint for me.

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Wed 09/12/07 09:26 PM
omg I had one of those guys and I let him get away!!!sad

no photo
Wed 09/12/07 10:02 PM
You know he loves you when...

...you are sick and he'd rather cook you dinner and watch a dvd with you while you are coughing and sneezing and blowing all kinds of interesting stuff out of your nose instead of going out with his buddies.

That's amore! drinker :heart: flowerforyou


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Hadeeya's photo
Thu 09/13/07 03:23 PM
AMEN Bay!!! And that's the truth :tongue: :tongue:

But seriously, if a guy is willing to be around you and take care of you when your sick you know he MUST love you!! laugh