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Indignus.. The jobs that require more muscle than I have! Lol..... That would be fair trade..........
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Indignus.. The jobs that require more muscle than I have! Lol..... That would be fair trade.......... Lol can't argue with that, and just to be clear what is the trade again? |
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cha7385 said:
Sun 02/16/14 01:09 AM QUOTE: Men tend to be the ones that are told to "spice things up" or "surprise me" type requests by their partners. Is the man more responsible for "progressing" the relationship? |
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cha7385 said:
Sun 02/16/14 01:09 AM QUOTE: Men tend to be the ones that are told to "spice things up" or "surprise me" type requests by their partners. Is the man more responsible for "progressing" the relationship? . well to me relationship is both sides where there is understanding and love both love and care for other.where there is true love there no sex but love making both try to please each other. Unless you are talking about sexual relationship only then is based on money. |
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Also, a woman doesn't have to date men to know what they're like. Maybe she has male friends and she sees how they treat their women, or has a brother, or saw how her daddy treated her mama. I don't date women, and I have a pretty good idea of what some of them are like in relationships.
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Keep the discussions in the topic and not toward each other. This is an open forum amd members are allowed to post as long as it follows the rules.
Kim |
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women are just selfish pigs lol yabut u love us anywyay  
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Back to the topic boys and girls!.. And if a women works just as hard as the man in the relationship or is doing jobs that the man should be doing.. I think he better pull up his man socks and kindly help out with because the women git behind Which jobs should a man be doing? making sure his woman is happy... that the main job |
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it depends upon the woman and the man
some women like to be 'courted' by the man, but in a relationship its important for neither person to become complacent my dad said 'whatever you do to get them, you need to keep doing to keep them' too often , men court women until they have them and then feel like they shouldn't have to make effort, just go to their job and reap the benefits of a loyal sex partner, housekeeper and babysitter and women will put on their best appearance and behavior while being courted and then stop putting effort into those things once they have their man |
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No one person should have to work harder in a relationship. If it's work its not a relationship. Doing anything sweet and genuine would get extra points. And don't forget compliment and touch each other even if it's just a simple touch on the shoulder.  
The best advice I have read on here. :-) |
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I had a lot of complaints from a woman that said that I wasn't doing enough to make her feel special. I tried harder with women that I met after that but that didn't really work either. Sometimes you just can't win. You do things to try to keep a woman and make her happy and they can see that as you being possessive or controlling.
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Mon 02/17/14 04:36 AM
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Men tend to be the ones that are told to "spice things up" or "surprise me" type requests by their partners. Is the man more responsible for "progressing" the relationship? I know what you mean. That's always how I feel too. I think it comes down to us just being the first ones to ask "what's wrong" when there is actually something wrong..not counting the 300 times she asked "what's wrong when things were perfect..lol This question of "what's wrong is asked almost 100% of the time after sex has slowed down and after the "why not question. Most of us think 'what's wrong' & 'why not' are the same anyway. So the answer is: they trick us In to asking first when they become dissatisfied and we are mainly dissatisfied because we ain't gettin' nun.. not even are own girlfriend  that was a bad joke
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Is the man more responsible for "progressing" the relationship? That ^^ would depend on when you ask him  ...It's not about who works harder at all...Strong relationships are about balance, sometimes the man is putting forth more effort, sometimes it's the woman...Reason?...Both are committed to making it work and making it work is never about keeping score...Simple really...
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Both are responsible for keeping the relationship healthy and strong, which includes the spicing things up bit.
Just that men and women do different things towards this and in their own unique way and don't always see and appreciate what the other is doing. I think it's mostly because we focus on our own version of how we want it to be done that we don't see what the other party actually does do for us. A relationship should be teamwork. |
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You couple of biches didn't like my joke?
Then take that & this 
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You couple of biches didn't like my joke? Then take that & this
I like all your posts, especially the dirty ones!
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Leigh I missed ya!!!
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Leigh I missed ya!!!
I missed you too Hellsboy...Grrrrrrrrr   
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Men shouldn't have to work harder to maintain a relationship!!!!! If it's Love neither party should have to try to keep things going it will just happen on it's own.... If your heart is in it all the rest will come naturally.......The words, jestures and emotions will keep us wanting more... That's human nature..Easy peasy lemon squeezy
... As soon as there is a giver & a taker in a relationship one party becomes complacent...... That's when it ends!!!
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Men shouldn't have to work harder to maintain a relationship!!!!! If it's Love neither party should have to try to keep things going it will just happen on it's own.... If your heart is in it all the rest will come naturally.......The words, jestures and emotions will keep us wanting more... That's human nature..Easy peasy lemon squeezy ... As soon as there is a giver & a taker in a relationship one party becomes complacent...... That's when it ends!!!
Nice thought, but every relationship takes work..... Welcome to Mingle Kim!
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