thanks soo much u guys

Shadow, I'm no good with words of encouragement, but I do want you to know that you are not crazy, everyone deals with death differently, and you are just dealing with your grief the only way you know how.

Let it all out and YOU ARE NOT WHINING. This is not something anyone would call whining. IT is called reaching out to your friends for comfort and support. We're here for you so cry your heart out and reach out all you want.

Go ahead and cry, Princess. There's no shame in mourning. And mourning isn't the same as whining... YOU'RE not whining. You're doin' what needs to be done to heal.

((((((((((((Shadow)))))))))))))

Honey, first off I am so sorry for your loss. Trust me when I tell you, I can truly empathize.

Next... everyone here is telling you the truth. Somedays are harder than others. Down the road you may be fine for months and then it'll hit you again. There is NO time table to grief.. there is no set pattern or rules. Each and every person deals withit in their own way, in their own time.

And the WORST thing you could do to yourself, is to try & keep it all bottled up. Again.. trust me when I tell you I know about this. You have a wonderful support system here... I have noticed many folks here really care about you honey. So let them help, talk when you need too...

Blessings,
Light

shadow, if you feel like crying then cry. I have been a widower for 9 years now, sometimes I go to looking back and break down crying, it is nothing to be ashamed of as it does not make you a whiner but just someone who needs a shoulder to cry on. I am noticing you have been offered many shoulders mine included, cry when you feel like it. ((((((shadow))))))

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thanks u guys it means a lot to me

I'm sorry for your loss
May you be blessed