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| Topic: Is love possible without intimacy? | |
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love is sort of catalyst for intimacy.
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What is love actually ?? !! ?? !! :) someone ?
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we all pretend that is the unacceptable part of it ..intimacy is more joyful if love is there the bonding u say or its just mechanical cant do it ..
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Well i dont think sex is a taboo or forwardness, even our traditional kamasutra tells that,
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Yes. You can have a simple best friend
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love in instant and intimacy occurs later
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All have different sorts of opinions
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yes it can it depends on how pure your love is and for which love you are talking about
if you are talking love of ur partner then ya intimacy will occur at some point of life..:) |
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Being intimate is not a bad thought dude... Change ur thinking about intimacy
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well i personally do believe that loveing someone dosent mean just haveing sex...its something more emotional,soothing n spiritual feeling....ithas to be nurtured with care n selflessness...its a heavenly feeling...whyare v just polluting the word LOVE...just for your insane activies... just to drive someone to your bed...please stop this ****...else the day will come when a mom says i love you son...n son will ponder is she asking me to have her...???plz stop haveing sex randomly...keep it for only the one you belong to..??lets join our hands to make dis world a better place..?? |
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well i personally do believe that loveing someone dosent mean just haveing sex...its something more emotional,soothing n spiritual feeling....ithas to be nurtured with care n selflessness...its a heavenly feeling...whyare v just polluting the word LOVE...just for your insane activies... just to drive someone to your bed...please stop this ****...else the day will come when a mom says i love you son...n son will ponder is she asking me to have her...???plz stop haveing sex randomly...keep it for only the one you belong to..??lets join our hands to make dis world a better place..?? Well said.. |
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Well Hello everyone. I would also like to give my input on the subject here. I would go with it using my own experience. So here it is... When I was 16 years old, I just met a girl who was just perfect for me. I took my time and proposed her 3 months later. She accepted my proposal. Yes she was first girl ever for me and she accepted it. I don't know if I was lucky or I was just right. Anyways...I brought her to my home and introduced her to my family. My Mom has always been so supportive that she didn't raise a question on anything. Then it continued and she kept coming at my home few times a week. A year passed and things went to its worst as there was another guy trying to get himself a girl. I fought with all my capabilities. but still I was nearly about to be jailed. That guy influenced my girlfriend so much that she stopped talking with me. But after all the fight and wounds, That guy and me faced the girl face to face and asked what she wants. She decided to be on my side. I won. We then spent 4 to 5 more years together. That incident changed me so much that I decided to make myself and my girlfriend/my potential life partner even stronger that she can fight with world alone without me. Last year, She just unwillingly married some other guy due to her family pressure. With what we have learnt together in all this time, we were stronger to survived this separation. It was 6 years old love for me and her. Now where the intimacy comes...? Just a month before she got engaged. Just for once in 6 years. and That's all. If I would have bagged my girlfriend to not to marry that guy, She would not have had any respect for me till now. I made her take the decision for her life. I was there I remember. It was all tears. Believe me guys, it was hard on me too but I loved her once. We spent 6 awesome years together, For that sake I let her go. I had to as I was still a college student then and i didn't want her to struggle with me through the life. She deserved a good life... Long story short... What I have learnt the hard way is, Love is not a will to live together or be together always. Neither it is a will to get intimate. If you can't live without each other or you can't sleep without each other, That's called dependency. Love is actually what you learn being together, having experiences together, Seeing world together, raising kids together. It is how stronger you get together. It is how you make other stronger and make him/her take the right decision at the right time even it is harder to take. Though she still miss me, She is happy now. She doesn't cry anymore. She talks to my friend from time to time and asks about me. I don't prefer to talk directly to her anymore as she is married and any mistake or irresponsible action from me could get her in trouble with her life. She would still come running if I call her. But No. Let it be. This is "Love" friends. I know it is too long of a post but please read it as I have took my time and purposely typed it. Oh and it may be the case that some of you don't believe it. If that's the case with anybody, I would say "This is world where weird and unusual things keep happening every once in a while..." Thank you friends for taking your time. I am feeling even better now. Cheers. well frnd...v share almost same story...if you reduce 6 years to 3 years...ours was a distance relatnshp...rest of the story remains the same... |
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Actually it is the two wheels of same chariot which in case of true love join by care , trust faith n so on while in case of only lust this wheels are only join by physical relationship
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Yup... Thats correct ;)
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yes, I had
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Each of us has five significant parts in our lives. We have the physical, the emotional, the mental, the social, and the spiritual. All five of these parts are designed to work together. In our search for intimacy we want the solution today,One of our problems is that we want "instant" gratification. When the need for intimacy in a relationship is not met, we look for an "instant" solution. Where do we look? Physical, mental, social, emotional or spiritual? It's the physical. It is easier to be physically intimate with someone than to be intimate in any of the other four areas. You can become physically intimate with a person of the opposite sex in an hour, or half-hour -- it just depends upon the urge! But you soon discover that sex may only be a temporary relief for a superficial desire. There is a much deeper need that is still unmet.
I believe that what we really want is not sex. What we really want is intimacy. 
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we humans are the most superior beings of our world.....hence we are called 'top of the creation' becoz we are gifted with the sense of discrimination...yet we waste our lives in violence,sex,hatred,etc ....sex is a good thing and we should enjoy it from time to time but love is a far more superior thing(like us)....so we should enjoy this feeling (love) as much as we can.....one thing we must have noticed or known that even the animals every species does have sex ( even they despite not having that additional sense that we r gifted with ) but NOT random sex ...they have a particular duration only during that duration they reproduce....but we like a lustful person we do it anytime we want...so we should learn from them and enjoy that superior feeling of love more than just mere sex.....
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If the discussion is true love then allow me to present my views. Well, in sub-human species since they lack basic intellect, they display their feelings towards the opposite sex through sexual intercourse and they thing only about that. However, humans are capable of thinking beyond the basic needs, and can contemplate on his feelings and devise ways to express it. That's why intimacy is quite important, but not the only thing. Sex with a person u love wud be the most natural feeling towards him/her but not the only.
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Also, in response to longgydicky, I beg to differ that we are the supreme creation of this world. This is only our claim based on no rationale. Further, love is basically feeling strongly towards a person and sex is just a part of it. That's it.
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Being practical..NO.
P.S. Can be seen in bollywood..just a sec, it's on d verge of extinction even there.. |
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