Yes they are mean but they were also funny. Please don't be offended.

Yes they are mean but they were also funny. Please don't be offended.

Well Hello everyone.

I would also like to give my input on the subject here. I would go with it using my own experience. So here it is...

When I was 16 years old, I just met a girl who was just perfect for me. I took my time and proposed her 3 months later.

She accepted my proposal. Yes she was first girl ever for me and she accepted it. I don't know if I was lucky or I was just right. Anyways...I brought her to my home and introduced her to my family. My Mom has always been so supportive that she didn't raise a question on anything. Then it continued and she kept coming at my home few times a week. A year passed and things went to its worst as there was another guy trying to get himself a girl. I fought with all my capabilities. but still I was nearly about to be jailed. That guy influenced my girlfriend so much that she stopped talking with me. But after all the fight and wounds, That guy and me faced the girl face to face and asked what she wants.

She decided to be on my side. I won. We then spent 4 to 5 more years together.

That incident changed me so much that I decided to make myself and my girlfriend/my potential life partner even stronger that she can fight with world alone without me.

Last year, She just unwillingly married some other guy due to her family pressure.

With what we have learnt together in all this time, we were stronger to survived this separation. It was 6 years old love for me and her.

Now where the intimacy comes...? Just a month before she got engaged. Just for once in 6 years. and That's all.

If I would have bagged my girlfriend to not to marry that guy, She would not have had any respect for me till now. I made her take the decision for her life. I was there I remember. It was all tears. Believe me guys, it was hard on me too but I loved her once. We spent 6 awesome years together, For that sake I let her go. I had to as I was still a college student then and i didn't want her to struggle with me through the life. She deserved a good life...

Long story short...

What I have learnt the hard way is, Love is not a will to live together or be together always. Neither it is a will to get intimate. If you can't live without each other or you can't sleep without each other, That's called dependency. Love is actually what you learn being together, having experiences together, Seeing world together, raising kids together. It is how stronger you get together. It is how you make other stronger and make him/her take the right decision at the right time even it is harder to take.

Though she still miss me, She is happy now. She doesn't cry anymore. She talks to my friend from time to time and asks about me. I don't prefer to talk directly to her anymore as she is married and any mistake or irresponsible action from me could get her in trouble with her life. She would still come running if I call her. But No. Let it be.

This is "Love" friends. I know it is too long of a post but please read it as I have took my time and purposely typed it.

Oh and it may be the case that some of you don't believe it. If that's the case with anybody, I would say "This is world where weird and unusual things keep happening every once in a while..."

Thank you friends for taking your time. I am feeling even better now.

Cheers.

I have not had any where NEAR enough coffee to be able to decipher this.

Then again, I am not certain I want to. :-)