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Topic: why dont girls propose if a guy refuse to propose?
Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Tue 02/11/14 05:58 AM
I just checked u out red lace! To say I'm interested is an understatement. When u come to LA, do look me up. Proof that some people can't read. If you had done more than look at just pics you would see Red isn't available. People are amazing sometimes.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 02/11/14 06:04 AM
why cant girls propose if guys refuse to propose. For example i am a boy who is shy of proposal and i know that there are many girls that loves me but they refuse to propose Some do, some don't...Tell these girls who love you how you feel....Maybe one of them will pop the question...Sounds like you're willing to marry the first one to propose....Gee, what lucky ladies....

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Tue 02/11/14 06:34 AM
My cousin proposed to her husband. Well ... actually ... she just told him what to do. I bet that happens more often than the men will admit.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Tue 02/11/14 08:08 AM
She wore it. But I did wonder if he should have gotten some sort of ring, since technically he's the one who was proposed to.... I thought about this when I read what the OP said. Imagine: A girl, going down on one knee, proposing to a guy, showing herself the ring and putting it on her finger. :D Yeah...I couldn't do that. I'm liberal and everything, but that's where I draw the line.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Tue 02/11/14 08:12 AM
Reading the OP he hasn't got anything going with one specific person, but there are several women that according to him fancy him. How can you expect any of them to propose if you don't even have a relationship? I got lots of men fancying me, doesn't mean they want to marry me or want a relationship with me, nor that I want that with them. Rather presumptuous. I suggest you first find that special someone before worrying about getting married. As for women proposing in general, I'm with KLC and Painte: for me, its more about personality type. I want to be with an assertive man. If he refuses to ask me, then he is not my match. If I knew he were the refusing type, I would take it as a sign that hes just not into me and split. A guy too shy to propose, is not the right guy for me. I want a man with baws. Sometimes we all go the extra mile for the one we truly love, even if it makes us feel insecure or shy. Exactly. It's his role to propose, I don't care how many strides we've made in women's lib, if he doesn't ask me to marry him, it means he doesn't want to marry me.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Tue 02/11/14 09:42 AM
If a guy doesn't overcome his nervousness enough to ask me, then no biggie. It's not like I will ever expect a marriage proposal. It would just be a shame to miss out, and to never wear a wedding gown.

deepak436060 Joined Mon 02/10/14 Posts: 1	Tue 02/11/14 01:04 PM
hi sexy

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Tue 02/11/14 01:21 PM
I have to wait for them to proposition me. A lot of times I propose something to a woman in get slapped and called a pervert Sometimes not.

Fracus16 Joined Tue 12/31/13 Posts: 104	Fri 02/14/14 11:07 PM
Available??? Ok, I should proof read my posts. My bad. That does sound a bit aggressive and rude. Not my intentions. Just a comment on a picture. For all you know Red Lace could be the man here and I'm a woman! That's the beauty of this, isn't it? U r right, I missed something there?

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Sat 02/15/14 12:20 AM Edited by red_lace on Sat 02/15/14 12:46 AM
Available??? Ok, I should proof read my posts. My bad. That does sound a bit aggressive and rude. Not my intentions. Just a comment on a picture. For all you know Red Lace could be the man here and I'm a woman! That's the beauty of this, isn't it? U r right, I missed something there? If Torgo's observation made you feel like an inadequate mass of protoplasm, then kindly do not include nor aim the blame of your irritating internet faux pas at my direction. And though I cherish your opinion just as much as flesh-eating fungus on my face, I will tell you that who I am has already been verified.

mumyspet Joined Fri 02/14/14 Posts: 2	Sat 02/15/14 02:35 AM
Its not traditional for a lady to do so.

mumyspet Joined Fri 02/14/14 Posts: 2	Sat 02/15/14 02:36 AM
i agree with you

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Sat 02/15/14 06:16 AM
For all you know Red Lace could be the man here and I'm a woman! That's the beauty of this, isn't it? I have no idea what sex you are, but I do know Red is female.

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Sat 02/15/14 06:30 AM
In my Country it's traditional for a guy to go down on one knee. Just like Paul McCartney did with Heather Mills

NkemjikaX Joined Wed 02/12/14 Posts: 7	Sat 02/15/14 01:42 PM
In some school of thought its unethical for a lady to do that, but personally speaking, I think this is another way of impeding on the fundamental rights of women in making choices and going all out for it.