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Topic: Why do white girls want black men?
juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sun 02/16/14 09:33 AM
Thats a good point!..that is a prime reason why black women are becoming more comfortable dating outside their own race. Are they really? I've never seen any black women dating anything other than black men. I guess you learn something new every day. Hahaha. Its rare that a black woman posts a topic, on a dating site, with her interest in objectifying a race. See it lots by men tho. Maybe they are more interested in the relationships and not so worried about what color he turns out to be? Men, I am told, are more visual, and often lead with sex, so maybe thats why its usually a guy going this route. Im sure we all have preferences, but the race fetish, ick. Not appealing to me, so maybe its because Im a gal. That might be it. Just seems so rude, to go around objectifying like that. I've only dated white guys, but I never set out to date one, it just happened, you know?

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 02/17/14 08:59 AM
I think the women above probably had some similar reasons for choosing the man they chose, and I doubt the mans skin color was one of those reasons.

manjot0154 Joined Tue 02/18/14 Posts: 3	Tue 02/18/14 04:22 PM
:) oh yea

LowRange Joined Sat 12/28/13 Posts: 664	Tue 02/18/14 04:57 PM
I think they like the sex. Or as the wonderful lady said its the connection. Do you actually think black men have sex in any different way than white men or men of any other race or combination there of? Your premise is so ridiculous it is laughable. My thoughts exactly, also some folks just prefer not to mix - n- mingle like that.

Vucinicklug Joined Tue 02/18/14 Posts: 2	Tue 02/18/14 05:20 PM
Indeed. Its not like its rocket science.

badguy1 Joined Wed 03/03/10 Posts: 73	Tue 02/18/14 05:22 PM
the same reason black girls date white guys

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Tue 02/18/14 06:49 PM
the same reason black girls date white guys people date who they want, none of our business...

badguy1 Joined Wed 03/03/10 Posts: 73	Tue 02/18/14 07:03 PM Edited by badguy1 on Tue 02/18/14 07:04 PM


badguy1 Joined Wed 03/03/10 Posts: 73	Tue 02/18/14 07:06 PM Edited by badguy1 on Tue 02/18/14 07:09 PM
Thats right

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Tue 02/18/14 07:11 PM
That might explain why black women wear fake hair. They wanna be looking mo white? I had me a black gal, no way she use wigs. They get in a catfight, that's the first thing to com off. Looks pretty retarded. JERRY, JERRY, JERRY, JERRY!

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 02/18/14 08:21 PM
Thats a good point!..that is a prime reason why black women are becoming more comfortable dating outside their own race. Are they really? I've never seen any black women dating anything other than black men. I guess you learn something new every day. Hahaha. Its rare that a black woman posts a topic, on a dating site, with her interest in objectifying a race. See it lots by men tho. Maybe they are more interested in the relationships and not so worried about what color he turns out to be? Men, I am told, are more visual, and often lead with sex, so maybe thats why its usually a guy going this route. Im sure we all have preferences, but the race fetish, ick. Not appealing to me, so maybe its because Im a gal. That might be it. Just seems so rude, to go around objectifying like that. I've only dated white guys, but I never set out to date one, it just happened, you know? that was true of me too until my early twenties, but Id never say no thank you to white guys or its not my thing, I just had not yet been in a situation to date any until I was and they were no more or less ANYTHING , due to their race,, just individuals and men,,, until I did

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Tue 02/18/14 08:26 PM
Well, I am smitten by msharmony not because she is black but because she is dreamy.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 02/18/14 08:31 PM


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willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Wed 02/19/14 01:28 PM
Well, I am smitten by msharmony not because she is black but because she is dreamy. Smitten with a picture????? These don't raise your INTEREST? My interest is at full mast. Now, these are HOT women, no? And real.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 02/19/14 01:38 PM
lol a whole lot of beautiful black women out there, I agree and a lot of diverse skin colors, hair styles, hair textures, heights , weights, and everything else,,,,

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Wed 02/19/14 02:02 PM
lol a whole lot of beautiful black women out there, I agree msharmony, you are one of them.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 02/19/14 02:19 PM
thanx dodo,, and you are a beautiful melmacian,,

reallove4eva Joined Wed 03/27/13 Posts: 1	Fri 02/21/14 12:02 AM
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teddybar67 Joined Wed 09/12/12 Posts: 9	Fri 02/21/14 12:25 AM Edited by teddybar67 on Fri 02/21/14 12:36 AM
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