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Topic: Does long distance relationship work out
Eritonk Joined Tue 08/27/13 Posts: 6	Tue 01/28/14 04:29 AM
Pls tell me on how to keep long distance relationship

wesleyfromspace Joined Fri 05/24/13 Posts: 10	Tue 01/28/14 09:24 AM
How long of a distance are we talking?

GoodCountryGirl Joined Tue 01/21/14 Posts: 41	Tue 01/28/14 09:28 AM
Long distance relationships are hard... but if you both love each other than y'all should be able to work it out:) Plus with all the technology today its not hard to see or talk to each other:)

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Tue 01/28/14 09:37 AM
They're mostly a waste of time. It's only very rarely that they work!

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Tue 01/28/14 09:39 AM
Both people have to put in the effort. I have had 1 LDR. Drove 2500 miles each month for 2 years. She did nothing. I finally quit. I hate giving up on anything, but stupidity was just wearing me down. Lesson learned.

wesleyfromspace Joined Fri 05/24/13 Posts: 10	Tue 01/28/14 09:41 AM
I've been in a long distance relationship for 7 years so it can work but it takes alot to make it work

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Tue 01/28/14 09:57 AM Edited by realcarebear on Tue 01/28/14 10:11 AM
Both people have to put in the effort. I have had 1 LDR. Drove 2500 miles each month for 2 years. She did nothing. I finally quit. I hate giving up on anything, but stupidity was just wearing me down. Lesson learned. Don't feel to bad. That happens when dating local too as well as with those who are living in even the same home. It wasn't the type of relationship you were in but who you were in the relationship with. Back on LDR topic...This seems to be a very common topic Here on mingle. I understand why. The coolest people I've talked to have been from this site and every single one was from somewhere across an ocean. Even gave the LDR a try and where I was willing it just didn't work out. I say they can work but be ready to work! Someone better have the resources to travel and a whole lot of trust! Oh and keep other people's noses out of your relationship. I say GO FOR IT if that's what your heart says! Best Wishes!

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Tue 01/28/14 10:03 AM
They're mostly a waste of time. It's only very rarely that they work! I agree with this.

wesleyfromspace Joined Fri 05/24/13 Posts: 10	Tue 01/28/14 10:13 AM
Realcarebear you are awesome! Haha I totally agree about needing people to stay out of the relationship , I have many problems because of that

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4962	Tue 01/28/14 03:43 PM
Pls tell me on how to keep long distance relationship get a ticket for the next flight .

wesleyfromspace Joined Fri 05/24/13 Posts: 10	Fri 01/31/14 08:27 PM
Pls tell me on how to keep long distance relationship get a ticket for the next flight . I agree if the distance isn't too great, I did that to see my girlfriend but she is in china so It cost $1400+ haha

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Sat 02/01/14 03:36 AM
Pls tell me on how to keep long distance relationship get a ticket for the next flight . I agree if the distance isn't too great, I did that to see my girlfriend but she is in china so It cost $1400+ haha Thats a lot of money to fly out for a ' chow mein, ' eh? ha ha

Kaleijoscope Joined Fri 10/15/10 Posts: 3319	Sat 02/01/14 05:01 AM
It can work..after all, distance is just a flight away...

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Sat 02/01/14 07:50 AM
I can't imagine any guy flying all the way across the world just to see me.

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Sat 02/01/14 07:56 AM
I can't imagine any guy flying all the way across the world just to see me. I'd drive

monalloydy5 Joined Tue 10/08/13 Posts: 92	Sat 02/01/14 06:02 PM
I think it depends on the people. It's alot of work I must admit, I've been in two myself and it was pretty hard. I realized I don't care for them because I need physical contact so yeah I think they work if both people are ok with not seeing eachother all the time. Communication, trust, and LOTS of patience are key.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45397	Sat 02/01/14 06:03 PM
Hun, it can be a long-distance relationship sitting together on a couch.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 02/02/14 09:39 AM
Hun, it can be a long-distance relationship sitting together on a couch. Amen to that....

steelersrgreat Joined Sat 12/21/13 Posts: 33	Sun 02/02/14 10:04 AM
I am in a LDR, and we plan to meet. There has to be a connection. Get to know each other deeply, share secrets, be honest, and take the steps to make your dream come true. I know her better than people I see every day, and am not going to stop until she's in my arms. I know its possible, I have friends who have made it work, and are married, and happy, happy, happy! But, you have to start with hello, or you'll never know.

SDSCFof2 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 21324	Sun 02/02/14 12:58 PM
no. i wanted to date a woman in Colorado it didn't work out. i wanted to date a woman in mexico city it didn't work out. i wanted to date a woman in north Carolina it didn't work out. it never does. stick to your homebase.