thank you

When my son is in my care, which seems to be about half the time, but in big blocks, months to a year at a time, I don't really have an opportunity to go out at all. When I'm at work I'm working, when I'm not my son is with me all the time. I'm not putting him on the shelf for dating. Its messed up, but we all have our priorities. For a woman to be part of my life she just has to accept my son is going to be there, except after bedtime of course. I stay up later than he does. I think I have to find a woman in the between times, when he is with his mom.

Note,,, this is a between time.

Cincy, good luck. You probably need a home-body kind of woman who can come over and share barbecues and movies, ping pong and such. I suggest you get a huge billboard in your front yard advertising for such a woman. Otherwise its back to the dating forums.

its not just the women who steer clear.. try being a single mom of 4.. its like having leperacy.. im nice enuf to talk to.. but anything more...
nope!! the guys run away...
not with the 4 kids attached...
oh well..
good luck to you..

see I dont have a problem with a woman with kids even 4. My ex had a son and I accepted him and would do it again.my girls are teen and preteen and I have them 24/7 mom is gone from the picture almost totally so I can get away sometimes.But I think the problem is the 24/7 part.Thats when they turn tail.