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Topic: Would you let a handsome stranger get away?
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Wed 12/25/13 05:47 AM
I agree, Tawstrat. The direct approach isn't really working for me.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 12/25/13 06:19 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Wed 12/25/13 06:21 AM
Tell them that you aren't a hunk and act all modest. Tell them that you have two heads and man boobs. Also, a small penis. Look at how much it drives them wild when some other guy on here acts all modest and self deprecating about not being good looking and lacking any wit or charisma. The women are all over them and you think that it's unfair because, like myself, you know that we are better looking than those dweebs.

Women are a mystery my friend but if you can't beat them you have to join them.

Excellent advice! There's always women that want to pamper and nurture a "loser", because it's in our nature to care. So we'll give advice, pet you on the head and say "there, there!"
Then we expect you to be a good boy and behave, while we go out to have fun (and sex) with a masculine, self-confident man.

Look at the guys that are popular with the ladies and try to act like them.

More good advice! By all means try to imitate them! If you want to look like a total w@nker, that is.
An attractive man has sex-appeal exuding from him, he doesn't pretend, he IS sexy.

ridewytepony's photo
Wed 12/25/13 06:32 AM


Hi beautiful
What did you get for xmas? That bodybuilding Patrick Swayze film? Roid-house? laugh laugh

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

lionsbrew's photo
Wed 12/25/13 06:52 AM

Tell them that you aren't a hunk and act all modest. Tell them that you have two heads and man boobs. Also, a small penis. Look at how much it drives them wild when some other guy on here acts all modest and self deprecating about not being good looking and lacking any wit or charisma. The women are all over them and you think that it's unfair because, like myself, you know that we are better looking than those dweebs.

Women are a mystery my friend but if you can't beat them you have to join them.

Excellent advice! There's always women that want to pamper and nurture a "loser", because it's in our nature to care. So we'll give advice, pet you on the head and say "there, there!"
Then we expect you to be a good boy and behave, while we go out to have fun (and sex) with a masculine, self-confident man.

Look at the guys that are popular with the ladies and try to act like them.

More good advice! By all means try to imitate them! If you want to look like a total w@nker, that is.
An attractive man has sex-appeal exuding from him, he doesn't pretend, he IS sexy.



I have to disagree with the last statement. "Do as they do and you will be as they are." Is a proven way of learning and growing towards success. I am the way I am because I choose to be this way. Its totally learned behavior. Granted its ingrained from being raised a certain way but in way that too is repetition.

When we learn things as children its usually because we want to imitate those whom we want to be like. It works when we are adults just as much as when we were little. When I was younger I noticed I got wayyyyy more attention when I just stopped trying so hard and just let things happen. I'm not some super amazingly hot guy and get plenty of attention without even trying. Its not cause I'm a piece of eye candy.flowerforyou

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 12/25/13 07:01 AM


Tell them that you aren't a hunk and act all modest. Tell them that you have two heads and man boobs. Also, a small penis. Look at how much it drives them wild when some other guy on here acts all modest and self deprecating about not being good looking and lacking any wit or charisma. The women are all over them and you think that it's unfair because, like myself, you know that we are better looking than those dweebs.

Women are a mystery my friend but if you can't beat them you have to join them.

Excellent advice! There's always women that want to pamper and nurture a "loser", because it's in our nature to care. So we'll give advice, pet you on the head and say "there, there!"
Then we expect you to be a good boy and behave, while we go out to have fun (and sex) with a masculine, self-confident man.

Look at the guys that are popular with the ladies and try to act like them.

More good advice! By all means try to imitate them! If you want to look like a total w@nker, that is.
An attractive man has sex-appeal exuding from him, he doesn't pretend, he IS sexy.



I have to disagree with the last statement. "Do as they do and you will be as they are." Is a proven way of learning and growing towards success. I am the way I am because I choose to be this way. Its totally learned behavior. Granted its ingrained from being raised a certain way but in way that too is repetition.

When we learn things as children its usually because we want to imitate those whom we want to be like. It works when we are adults just as much as when we were little. When I was younger I noticed I got wayyyyy more attention when I just stopped trying so hard and just let things happen. I'm not some super amazingly hot guy and get plenty of attention without even trying. Its not cause I'm a piece of eye candy.flowerforyou

Yeah, you're right. But you got to feel comfy with it. I don't think it will work if you imitate something / someone that really isn't you or that you don't feel comfortable with.

lionsbrew's photo
Wed 12/25/13 07:11 AM



Tell them that you aren't a hunk and act all modest. Tell them that you have two heads and man boobs. Also, a small penis. Look at how much it drives them wild when some other guy on here acts all modest and self deprecating about not being good looking and lacking any wit or charisma. The women are all over them and you think that it's unfair because, like myself, you know that we are better looking than those dweebs.

Women are a mystery my friend but if you can't beat them you have to join them.

Excellent advice! There's always women that want to pamper and nurture a "loser", because it's in our nature to care. So we'll give advice, pet you on the head and say "there, there!"
Then we expect you to be a good boy and behave, while we go out to have fun (and sex) with a masculine, self-confident man.

Look at the guys that are popular with the ladies and try to act like them.

More good advice! By all means try to imitate them! If you want to look like a total w@nker, that is.
An attractive man has sex-appeal exuding from him, he doesn't pretend, he IS sexy.



I have to disagree with the last statement. "Do as they do and you will be as they are." Is a proven way of learning and growing towards success. I am the way I am because I choose to be this way. Its totally learned behavior. Granted its ingrained from being raised a certain way but in way that too is repetition.

When we learn things as children its usually because we want to imitate those whom we want to be like. It works when we are adults just as much as when we were little. When I was younger I noticed I got wayyyyy more attention when I just stopped trying so hard and just let things happen. I'm not some super amazingly hot guy and get plenty of attention without even trying. Its not cause I'm a piece of eye candy.flowerforyou

Yeah, you're right. But you got to feel comfy with it. I don't think it will work if you imitate something / someone that really isn't you or that you don't feel comfortable with.

Finding what we are comfortable with is pretty much finding out who we are.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 12/25/13 07:15 AM




Tell them that you aren't a hunk and act all modest. Tell them that you have two heads and man boobs. Also, a small penis. Look at how much it drives them wild when some other guy on here acts all modest and self deprecating about not being good looking and lacking any wit or charisma. The women are all over them and you think that it's unfair because, like myself, you know that we are better looking than those dweebs.

Women are a mystery my friend but if you can't beat them you have to join them.

Excellent advice! There's always women that want to pamper and nurture a "loser", because it's in our nature to care. So we'll give advice, pet you on the head and say "there, there!"
Then we expect you to be a good boy and behave, while we go out to have fun (and sex) with a masculine, self-confident man.

Look at the guys that are popular with the ladies and try to act like them.

More good advice! By all means try to imitate them! If you want to look like a total w@nker, that is.
An attractive man has sex-appeal exuding from him, he doesn't pretend, he IS sexy.



I have to disagree with the last statement. "Do as they do and you will be as they are." Is a proven way of learning and growing towards success. I am the way I am because I choose to be this way. Its totally learned behavior. Granted its ingrained from being raised a certain way but in way that too is repetition.

When we learn things as children its usually because we want to imitate those whom we want to be like. It works when we are adults just as much as when we were little. When I was younger I noticed I got wayyyyy more attention when I just stopped trying so hard and just let things happen. I'm not some super amazingly hot guy and get plenty of attention without even trying. Its not cause I'm a piece of eye candy.flowerforyou

Yeah, you're right. But you got to feel comfy with it. I don't think it will work if you imitate something / someone that really isn't you or that you don't feel comfortable with.

Finding what we are comfortable with is pretty much finding out who we are.

Yeah, and I find that often means you have to get uncomfortable first, because you'll have to get out of your comfort-zone to find out.

ridewytepony's photo
Wed 12/25/13 07:15 AM



Tell them that you aren't a hunk and act all modest. Tell them that you have two heads and man boobs. Also, a small penis. Look at how much it drives them wild when some other guy on here acts all modest and self deprecating about not being good looking and lacking any wit or charisma. The women are all over them and you think that it's unfair because, like myself, you know that we are better looking than those dweebs.

Women are a mystery my friend but if you can't beat them you have to join them.

Excellent advice! There's always women that want to pamper and nurture a "loser", because it's in our nature to care. So we'll give advice, pet you on the head and say "there, there!"
Then we expect you to be a good boy and behave, while we go out to have fun (and sex) with a masculine, self-confident man.

Look at the guys that are popular with the ladies and try to act like them.

More good advice! By all means try to imitate them! If you want to look like a total w@nker, that is.
An attractive man has sex-appeal exuding from him, he doesn't pretend, he IS sexy.



I have to disagree with the last statement. "Do as they do and you will be as they are." Is a proven way of learning and growing towards success. I am the way I am because I choose to be this way. Its totally learned behavior. Granted its ingrained from being raised a certain way but in way that too is repetition.

When we learn things as children its usually because we want to imitate those whom we want to be like. It works when we are adults just as much as when we were little. When I was younger I noticed I got wayyyyy more attention when I just stopped trying so hard and just let things happen. I'm not some super amazingly hot guy and get plenty of attention without even trying. Its not cause I'm a piece of eye candy.flowerforyou

Yeah, you're right. But you got to feel comfy with it. I don't think it will work if you imitate something / someone that really isn't you or that you don't feel comfortable with.

Its not about mirroring but adapting it into your own style.
if its can work for you at all.what works for one guy well,
may be foolish for another to attempt.

TawtStrat's photo
Thu 12/26/13 04:44 AM

Tell them that you aren't a hunk and act all modest. Tell them that you have two heads and man boobs. Also, a small penis. Look at how much it drives them wild when some other guy on here acts all modest and self deprecating about not being good looking and lacking any wit or charisma. The women are all over them and you think that it's unfair because, like myself, you know that we are better looking than those dweebs.

Women are a mystery my friend but if you can't beat them you have to join them.

Excellent advice! There's always women that want to pamper and nurture a "loser", because it's in our nature to care. So we'll give advice, pet you on the head and say "there, there!"
Then we expect you to be a good boy and behave, while we go out to have fun (and sex) with a masculine, self-confident man.

Look at the guys that are popular with the ladies and try to act like them.

More good advice! By all means try to imitate them! If you want to look like a total w@nker, that is.
An attractive man has sex-appeal exuding from him, he doesn't pretend, he IS sexy.



Well, I'm glad to hear at least that you have been having sex with masculine self confident men anyway, instead of just wishing that you were and saying that you are just waiting for one to fall in your lap while using your sex apeal detector to calculate the amount of it oozing out of blocks of text on an anonymous internet forum.

Come off it. You're fooling nobody. Only the other day you were posting about how you are frustrated about not getting any. Also, I don't think that you would recognise a masculine self confident man if you fell over one and if you did what makes you think that he wouldn't be patting you on your head while he was off having sex with a more feminine self confident woman?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 12/26/13 04:52 AM


Tell them that you aren't a hunk and act all modest. Tell them that you have two heads and man boobs. Also, a small penis. Look at how much it drives them wild when some other guy on here acts all modest and self deprecating about not being good looking and lacking any wit or charisma. The women are all over them and you think that it's unfair because, like myself, you know that we are better looking than those dweebs.

Women are a mystery my friend but if you can't beat them you have to join them.

Excellent advice! There's always women that want to pamper and nurture a "loser", because it's in our nature to care. So we'll give advice, pet you on the head and say "there, there!"
Then we expect you to be a good boy and behave, while we go out to have fun (and sex) with a masculine, self-confident man.

Look at the guys that are popular with the ladies and try to act like them.

More good advice! By all means try to imitate them! If you want to look like a total w@nker, that is.
An attractive man has sex-appeal exuding from him, he doesn't pretend, he IS sexy.



Well, I'm glad to hear at least that you have been having sex with masculine self confident men anyway, instead of just wishing that you were and saying that you are just waiting for one to fall in your lap while using your sex apeal detector to calculate the amount of it oozing out of blocks of text on an anonymous internet forum.

Come off it. You're fooling nobody. Only the other day you were posting about how you are frustrated about not getting any. Also, I don't think that you would recognise a masculine self confident man if you fell over one and if you did what makes you think that he wouldn't be patting you on your head while he was off having sex with a more feminine self confident woman?

That's why I downloaded an app for that on my Smartphone
Makes life so much easier :)

teebee79's photo
Fri 12/27/13 08:47 AM

Well, in those four months surely you could've saved up enough money to go see a prostitute by now? That way you at least wouldn't have to whinge about it for a while?

rofl rofl rofl

COME ON!!! THAT WAS FUNNY!!!tongue2

TawtStrat's photo
Sat 12/28/13 07:00 AM


Well, in those four months surely you could've saved up enough money to go see a prostitute by now? That way you at least wouldn't have to whinge about it for a while?

rofl rofl rofl

COME ON!!! THAT WAS FUNNY!!!tongue2


Yes indeed. It wouldn't be a RedMist thread if some comedic genius didn't post that obligatory running gag.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sat 12/28/13 06:52 PM
You want an honest answer, right? Here's mine :tongue:. No. I'd NEVER let him go. He'd be my slave, forever and ever. Hope he wouldn't mind being whipped and handled. Heh heh.

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Sat 12/28/13 07:41 PM


Take a trip to Bangkok and get it out of your system for Gods sake.
Knowing his luck, he'd pull a ladyboy and still end up getting none! laugh laugh
or more than he bargained for...lol

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Sat 12/28/13 07:44 PM


Tell them that you aren't a hunk and act all modest. Tell them that you have two heads and man boobs. Also, a small penis. Look at how much it drives them wild when some other guy on here acts all modest and self deprecating about not being good looking and lacking any wit or charisma. The women are all over them and you think that it's unfair because, like myself, you know that we are better looking than those dweebs.

Women are a mystery my friend but if you can't beat them you have to join them.

Excellent advice! There's always women that want to pamper and nurture a "loser", because it's in our nature to care. So we'll give advice, pet you on the head and say "there, there!"
Then we expect you to be a good boy and behave, while we go out to have fun (and sex) with a masculine, self-confident man.

Look at the guys that are popular with the ladies and try to act like them.

More good advice! By all means try to imitate them! If you want to look like a total w@nker, that is.
An attractive man has sex-appeal exuding from him, he doesn't pretend, he IS sexy.



I have to disagree with the last statement. "Do as they do and you will be as they are." Is a proven way of learning and growing towards success. I am the way I am because I choose to be this way. Its totally learned behavior. Granted its ingrained from being raised a certain way but in way that too is repetition.

When we learn things as children its usually because we want to imitate those whom we want to be like. It works when we are adults just as much as when we were little. When I was younger I noticed I got wayyyyy more attention when I just stopped trying so hard and just let things happen. I'm not some super amazingly hot guy and get plenty of attention without even trying. Its not cause I'm a piece of eye candy.flowerforyou

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Sat 12/28/13 07:44 PM


Tell them that you aren't a hunk and act all modest. Tell them that you have two heads and man boobs. Also, a small penis. Look at how much it drives them wild when some other guy on here acts all modest and self deprecating about not being good looking and lacking any wit or charisma. The women are all over them and you think that it's unfair because, like myself, you know that we are better looking than those dweebs.

Women are a mystery my friend but if you can't beat them you have to join them.

Excellent advice! There's always women that want to pamper and nurture a "loser", because it's in our nature to care. So we'll give advice, pet you on the head and say "there, there!"
Then we expect you to be a good boy and behave, while we go out to have fun (and sex) with a masculine, self-confident man.

Look at the guys that are popular with the ladies and try to act like them.

More good advice! By all means try to imitate them! If you want to look like a total w@nker, that is.
An attractive man has sex-appeal exuding from him, he doesn't pretend, he IS sexy.



I have to disagree with the last statement. "Do as they do and you will be as they are." Is a proven way of learning and growing towards success. I am the way I am because I choose to be this way. Its totally learned behavior. Granted its ingrained from being raised a certain way but in way that too is repetition.

When we learn things as children its usually because we want to imitate those whom we want to be like. It works when we are adults just as much as when we were little. When I was younger I noticed I got wayyyyy more attention when I just stopped trying so hard and just let things happen. I'm not some super amazingly hot guy and get plenty of attention without even trying. Its not cause I'm a piece of eye candy.flowerforyou

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Sat 12/28/13 07:56 PM
I will have to fix the duplicate posts later from my desktop...sorry

what I wanted to respond to on lionbrew's post is that it is chosen behavior....that is not always the same as learned behavior. we'd all be better off to chose our behaviors rather than acting on learned behavior...learned responses are not always the ideal ones

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Sun 12/29/13 01:50 AM
Ahh ha ha ha rofl love it

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