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Hi guys, few weeks ago I found out my boyfriend for 5 years been on every dating site you can think of and been dating other women. Broke. Up and trying to move on . Hope I will meet a good man here.
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larsson71
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Mon 12/16/13 04:49 PM
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Hi guys, few weeks ago I found out my boyfriend for 5 years been on every dating site you can think of and been dating other women. Broke. Up and trying to move on . Hope I will meet a good man here.
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I feel ready , I guess it was over long before it was over.
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LOL Denial in not just a river in Egypt.
A few weeks is not enough time to get over a 5 year relationship that ends in betrayal. Do anyone you will get involved with during the vunerable time of the holidays a favor and don't make the holidays suck for them in the future when you mess them over because you haven't done the work you need to do to recover. |
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How can anyone date you anyways your profile needs to be finished up before you try to find someone else to replace the betrayed bf of 5years....good luck n good hunting.....
   
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Edited by
cha7385
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Mon 12/16/13 11:15 PM
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Hi guys, few weeks ago I found out my boyfriend for 5 years been on every dating site you can think of and been dating other women. Broke. Up and trying to move on . Hope I will meet a good man here.
Moving on after a painful breakup is difficult but stop being resentful about.it instead try to see it in a different perspective. Be thankful that you found.out soon before its too late. Surround yourself with friends, keep yourself busy if not with work maybe a new hobby. Enjoy being single, explore, don't rush things & stay inlove always. |
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Hi guys, few weeks ago I found out my boyfriend for 5 years been on every dating site you can think of and been dating other women. Broke. Up and trying to move on . Hope I will meet a good man here.
awww heck honey...yanno what they say to do when ya fall off a bike dontcha? pick yourself up, dust off, and hop back up on the ride......nothing wrong with continuing to date but keep them all arm's length for awhile - the little scumps  
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I feel ready , I guess it was over long before it was over. I agree with Larsson .... My ex was being sneaky.... He was checking dating sites, this was 5 months ago. I thought I was ready...I'm not. The thought of him still hurts. I'm gradually moving on.... But I don't need a "boyfriend" right now...and I'm guessing neither do you. |
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Just wanted to say my relationship ended a year ago and its way to soon for you it sucks but take some months to find you and heal from what has happened and not all men here but half are only after sex and your mind needs to be ready to filter through the crap so take some time and welcome.
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Edited by
Ouizee
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Well said shot.
Time does not make you forget but does help you to heal and become a better person. Bless you both and welcome you to Mingle2. 
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I feel ready , I guess it was over long before it was over. I agree with Larsson .... My ex was being sneaky.... He was checking dating sites, this was 5 months ago. I thought I was ready...I'm not. The thought of him still hurts. I'm gradually moving on.... But I don't need a "boyfriend" right now...and I'm guessing neither do you. IDK, TeeBee I always found the best cure was a new "cure"
worked pretty well....and it takes one's mind off the old one ....as long as you have the presence of mind not to let it get too serious right off OR when you are wanting to start something serious...then I agree it is best to wait. just depends on what she's wanting....going out with a new guy I find helps....usually |
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I feel ready , I guess it was over long before it was over. I agree with Larsson .... My ex was being sneaky.... He was checking dating sites, this was 5 months ago. I thought I was ready...I'm not. The thought of him still hurts. I'm gradually moving on.... But I don't need a "boyfriend" right now...and I'm guessing neither do you. IDK, TeeBee I always found the best cure was a new "cure"
worked pretty well....and it takes one's mind off the old one ....as long as you have the presence of mind not to let it get too serious right off OR when you are wanting to start something serious...then I agree it is best to wait. just depends on what she's wanting....going out with a new guy I find helps....usually What's funny..  If he would have broken up with me.. Yup.. I'd be on a date THAT NIGHT! 
But, I was into the idiot and he broke my heart.. Strange  Right!!
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hi
I don't have any gf. till now. so I want girlfriend r u ready for dating with me |
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Im going through something similar. We broke up and we just had a child. Im trying do anything possible to keepnmy family but its like she just doesnt care at all right now. She left and said she wants to take time to think but I really dont like where shes at right now. Ive text her and sometimes I dont get a response. If I do it takes forever. Im going out of my mind right now
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Im going through something similar. We broke up and we just had a child. Im trying do anything possible to keepnmy family but its like she just doesnt care at all right now. She left and said she wants to take time to think but I really dont like where shes at right now. Ive text her and sometimes I dont get a response. If I do it takes forever. Im going out of my mind right now WEll, honey... you have to give her time. If she needs to think and you are not allowing that, you may push her into makinig a hasty choice like cutting you out completely. It hurts now.. and you don't know where her head is, but the best thing you can do is give her this time. and just work on you. You may have to prepare yourself to not have HER in your life , but you have a child that you both, have to be 100% for. Good Luck
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The seven stages of grief model seems a valid way to track where I am in terms of processing the end of a relationship due to infidelity. Some stages may merge with others, last longer than others, rarely register at all. Point being if I have experienced the first and the last then no matter how long or short the process in between I am emotionally ready to move forward. Good luck!
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@Prob. Hope things turn in your favor soon. Stay strong.
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