I've been married twice and I could not depend on either of my husbands for the support I required to raise a family. I found that so many men are looking for a mother to take care of them and bring home the bacon too. Yes, men should man up by TAKING RESPONSIBILITY.

That is how they "man up." Take on the responsibility for a family if you want a wife who stays home and raises your children and cooks your meals.

Instead, the man is responsible, careless, and the woman ends up having to get them out of the fine mess he has gotten them into.

Women are wearing the pants in the family these days because the men have quit doing it.

So, if you are a man and you want a woman to be a woman, then earn a living, get a house, take the responsibility. Then find a woman who wants to have your children. Give her what she needs to do that job. Its not an easy job.

Be the man. Bring home the bacon. Be responsible.

Are men still "protecting" the women from the harsh realities of this world? Look around, I don't think so. Did they do it "back in the good old days?" Not always. Very often women were treated like property and slaves. It is NO WONDER the slaves have revolted.



This phenomenon is actually a natural (and predicted) part of evolution. More people are being born with both male and female parts. Eventually, as humanity evolves there may be three sexes, or maybe just one.

Woman can run for the Prime Ministers seat
now! how can this
be possible the trouble this will
cause and if it ever comes to be,it will
surely happen at a weak moment for England
like the end of a decade like the '70
with 26% unemployment rate and she would send
the Queens ships half way around the world
to some small 'ice cap' rock were penguins walk
and the occupancy is only 1000 people to fight
for ownership or a useless cold little rock that
she never visited nor would she want to but
why would she want to, her lips are all ready
blue from cold british blood & hypoxia from been female How could someone like that sleep at nigbt and say don't cry citizens about jobs and definitely
"Don't cry for me Argentina"

little parody from ~ Maggie May~(Rod Stewart)

"Wake up Maaaaggie...think I got something to saaaay to you
Its late February and we didn't get baaack to you
We suspect we'll see the Queens war ships soooooon
and we'll drop our pants and giiive lizzy's banner the moon
come on Maggie!!! Maggellon discovered that back in fiiiifteen niiiinty twoooo

No Maggie? Your not going to "lets it ride?
HOW THE F* DO YOU SLEEP AT NIGHT.
"Very well thank you"

I brought my kid up, with no help from his mum. I work hard and I have my own house! Mortgage paid off.Never relied on anyone and I never will !

That's great. For every man who has done that, there are probably ten women raising their kids on their own with no support from the daddy. That's another reason women are becoming stronger and more like men.

They have to.

Theres another kinda hockey where people don't push and shove and get hit with sticks?

yeah, and as I think you know as well as I do, Jeannie, it's a global change in mankind which is direly needed as well.
End of patriarchal society and a (slow) transition into matriarchal society. This transition isn't easy, as we have noticed the last decades, but no transition is.

As said, every man also has a feminine aspect (anima) and every woman has a masculine aspect (animus). Both these aspects have gotten totally out of balance during the patriarchal 'reign', which lasted for thousands of years, and are now gradually being re-calibrated. Some people are more open and thus further along in the process than others.
Some still have (too many) hang-ups from the past that make them latch on to the old ways, resist, hold a grudge or whatever. But the old ways have already gotten obsolete, like it or not.

Yep and it's played on grass, or Astroturf.

Well I wouldn't know I was too busy playing tonsil hockey. I made varsity.

Back in the "good old days", a man would never whine in public about women not wanting to be with him.

Thats the funny part about this post in particular,
None of these changes happend in his life
time like it did with us boomers & gen.Xers
so I say lucky him.
And Margaret (Maggie) Thatcher came & went like the man
from Kent, before he was even born I'm sure.
"Burp him" too funny Leigh my friend hope your having a nice time
I guess

This is right on the money.

I think men are confused and don't know their place anymore. Meaning they don't know if they should be protectors, bread winner or care giver. growing up,I was given the I had to,be everything speech! Get educated...take Care of your family....take care your job.
@Larsson that's awesome that you took the reigns of household... But women have been doing it for years without any male help. It takes great strength and character to do this yet society doesn't place high regard to raising a child on your own and not by choice. Yet a man does it and it's the greatest thing in the world? I don't get that?

That's absolutely right.

I have a lot of respect for women who raise their children alone. A man still probably has a job that pays more, and may be able to hire a nanny.