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Your expectation of women is mistaken! Some gals get a thousand hits a day as i have a previous gal friend and saw this myself. If women were to do as you would like she would never leave a computer. You might consider lowering your expectations and assume when a gal does not respond she is kindly saying to you "No thank you" It is fair to simply not respond and be responsible and accept this as a fair protocol.... well said :) We can't possibly respond to everyone. |
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I do not claim to be nicey nicey in mine...I copied and pasted this from my profile.. "Im just a regular girl....feel free to ask anything, although you might not like the answer you get, if you get one at all o.O" "I was informed yesterday,I should let everyone know I am a B I T C H ." I have more things written, but this is all that pertains to this thread.  
Some woman maybe to busy or just not interested.
lol how nice of them :) |
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I'll say the same thing here I used to tell the toddlers in day care where I used to work, "Not everyone wants to be your friend, when you realize that, either go play by yourself or choose another group."
I think that totally fits this situation. |
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she is probably friendly to a man she is interested in. dynamics between men and a women are unique in that we are more careful about how friendly we are to a man we don;t know well. we don;t want to lead on someone we're not interested in is just one of them. also for safety. I agree with this! I love having male friends - I get on with them far better than women, in many cases. The problem is that male friends usually started out thinking it's moving into more than friendship until I'm forced to set them straight. In some cases, that's when those friendships fail - when they realise (even though I made it clear early on it's just friendship) it's definitely taken off the table, they lose interest. So it certainly can be hard striking that balance - wanting to develop friendships without leading someone on. Particularly, as sweetestgirl says, if she's hoping to build on new friendships with the hope they become a relationship. Would help if a person states that though. Someone once told me no guy ever wants to be *just friends* |
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Well I genuinely feel your pain. It's a numbers game. out of 100 emails you might get 5 replies. Out of those 5 they might not even lead to anything. Out of those sweet nothings eventually something might be the one. I'm still working up the courage to email someone so you are way ahead of the game on me.
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They're just not that into you. 
well exactly that's why you always want with just say hi or hi dear, you got the sex so this way you can cover more ground ok ..clear as mud/jk Idk I have something like that on my profile too, that I've been meaning to change. Cuz it says I want to talk to them put now I know why I was taught "not to talk to strangers" |
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I have deleted several post due to off Topic or directed towards others. Please let me remind all to stay on Topic or move one for those that wish to address the Topic.
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So, to sum up then, extremely friendly and easy going women just don't like me and it's only nasty girls that I can get dates with.
Leigh makes a good point about BS and I happen to know from a good friend that I spent a lot of time chatting with on here that I've been juggling more women than most of the men on Mingle. I accept that it's the internet though and that these women do get a lot of spam and that most of the time even if you do manage to get a conversation going with someone it doesn't go very far. It's not my messages that are crap and I put more effort into writing proper ones than most of the other people on here. I bet you that if I met these "friendly, easy going" women at a party, or somewhere like that they would talk to me because I'm a sociable person and I don't walk around with a sign on my head saying that I'm only a student and that I'm a sarcastic bugger that says that it's alright to talk to me because I'm not a pervert. Hi TeeBee. Good to see you back. Yeah, there are some genuinely friendly people on here but most of them live too far away for dating. I bet you that most of the women that live in my area are talking to guys on the other side of the world. The phrase "too close for comfort" springs to mind. |
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