yes..although no one is perfect and everyone has good and bad sides,it is still possible to have all these qualities..you can find them in the church trust me.any man who is a fully devoted Christian,understands God and walks in the spirit has these qualities..I can prove it if you doubt me..LOL

Yeah, it is rather subjective. I consider myself to be an intelligent person but I've done some stupid things in my life and not always used my brains as I could have. There's this expression that people like my mother used to come out with about, "You are so sharp that you will cut yourself" and although I'm not entirely sure what that means, it's true that a lot of people don't like a smartarse and sometimes it may be better to let things slide when you think that someone else is wrong about something or being stupid.

I wouldn't claim to be the most well behaved guy in the world and I have people like my mother and sister telling me off sometimes, or trying to tell me how to behave but I like to think that I'm a gentleman. On one of the last dates that I was on I spent most of the time just chatting with her and when she decided that she wanted to get frisky she said that she would stay for an hour longer instead of leaving when she was going to. I told her that I had wanted to have sex with her but that I'm a gentleman.

I don't usually deliberately set out to offend people but some people are going to find some of the things that I come out with offensive and some are not. Take the bra size thing for example. I've said once or twice here that I sometimes ask women that question and I had other posters saying that that's bad manners. Just their opinion though and it's simply a matter of knowing whether or not the person that you are talking to is going to think that saying something like that is rude. The fact of the matter is that I'm unlikely to even get a date with the sort of woman that would find that offensive anyway, so it's not really a problem and I've never had a woman slap me in the face or throw her drink at me in my life.

As far as handsome goes, I've had enough women telling me that I am to not be insecure about it but that doesn't mean that I'm going to float everyone's boat. Maybe they prefer dark hair, or bald or fat guys, or whatever. There's no acounting for taste, as they say.

Well all three of those things are based on people perceptions of what is and what isn't. Those will change from person to person so its not really a matter of them having two of those qualities but what qualities you choose to see.

I can name a bakers dozen guys on this site who fall under all three categories.

And this is how they try to get you. My mum is always trying to tell me that if I go to church I'll meet women but my argument is that they probably won't want to have sex with me before marriage and they will go on about Jesus all the bloody time and be no fun at all.

yes..although no one is perfect and everyone has good and bad sides,it is still possible to have all these qualities..you can find them in the church trust me.any man who is a fully devoted Christian,understands God and walks in the spirit has these qualities..I can prove it if you doubt me..LOL

I will probably find as many in a church as I could find in the library or at the grocery store!
I have seen too many church-going people do terrible and dishonest things during times outside of church!
Just telling the truth here. And good for you if this excludes your behavior.

Let's all remember that those 3 qualities are very subjective.
One person's idea of good behavior, etc. can be very different than the next person's idea.
Beauty is fully in the eyes of the beholder!

Well all three of those things are based on people perceptions of what is and what isn't. Those will change from person to person so its not really a matter of them having two of those qualities but what qualities you choose to see.

I can name a bakers dozen guys on this site who fall under all three categories.

I will probably find as many in a church as I could find in the library or at the grocery store!
I have seen too many church-going people do terrible and dishonest things during times outside of church!
Just telling the truth here. And good for you if this excludes your behavior.

Let's all remember that those 3 qualities are very subjective.
One person's idea of good behavior, etc. can be very different than the next person's idea.
Beauty is fully in the eyes of the beholder!

Ouizee, this is so true. I prefer someone who truly lives the proper life without going to church than one who goes to church regularly but cannot seem to understand what a proper life is.

It is good to serve God and obey His command and not being religious. I've met so many religious fanatics that preaches love your nabour as you love yourself but their lifestyle does not predicts what they preach. If perhaps any of his/her friend needs help and he/she can afford to help, he/she wont render the help rather he/she'd ask the friend to pray. Isnt that deceit? Would you see him/her as one that behave well?

Precisely Toks88, we should show who we are in our actions to each other. We should do for others as we would have them do for us. Truly words to live by.

Exactly!

When I saw the title of this thread, I expected the thread to be about me.

Hey, I have been behaving well since my arrival on planet Earth.
I have to, because Earth is the only planet without an extradition treaty with ...

... err ...

Never mind.

Yes, a man can have them all.

You cannot get 100% of what you want in a man. If I were a woman, I'd go for a well behave and intelligent man. Geting married to a man because of he's handsome is like buying a house because of the paint.
Soon it'll fade.

You cannot get 100% of what you want in a man. If I were a woman, I'd go for a well behave and intelligent man. Geting married to a man because of he's handsome is like buying a house because of the paint.
Soon it'll fade.