As if it were possible for a man to completely understand a woman.




Wow, your condescending tone is ... well ... condescending.

Simple, we have different chromosomes then men, so the brain will always think different and react different then each other. But the differences are what attract us to each other.

lol!

Things I want from my girl. I want her to be happy, comfortable, gentle, soft, loving, a good listener, an advisor, mother, companion, smart, satisfied, and most of all tp want me for who I am. I can cook, clean, wash clothes, clean house, fix the car, do repairs to the house, keep a job and just about any thing else. A lady should be well cared for and treated right. We will never be able to read her mind but as long as you try your hardest to keep her comfortable she should be happy. You ladies should let your man take care of you a guy want to please a women. Most guys just want to be able to fix things.

As per me a guy wants
patience in a girl,
love-shud be there n it should not end wid juss forgetting a thing
respect- as in a relationship it is lost after a certain period of time. ....
Trust- I have seen dat girls starting doubting guys very soon n dats where problem starts
dere own life- guys n gal shud lead dere own life n not mix dere relationship n life n den mess up everything. ...
Well try out a lil simplified relation. .. n dis goes for both boys n girls

goes the other way round as well. And this can also be taken to be condescending, which is probably how it's meant. So the pot & the kettle ...


Considering that I'm referring to answers given in this thread, I'd say it's factual / realistic. The truth isn't always pleasant to hear, doesn't make it condescending though
Of course you being a man, you'll have to disagree.

I have no idea what that's supposed to mean.

I'm supposed to settle for a woman that can't make her mind up, will mess me about and play stupid games am I? Well yeah, tried that and you're right and it seems to be why I'm still single.

Here is one male who does NOT want a woman to cook great meals (food is not a focal point for me), or to have big boobs (firm appeals more than size), or to be subservient (equal partner works best for me).

I DO want her to be physically appealing (not heavyset) and physically active, intelligent and informed (good communication), pleasant personality (without emotional disorders, negative attitudes or excess baggage from unpleasant past experience).

It would be a plus if she enjoyed fitness activities (workouts, canoeing, bicycling), if she favored actually doing things rather than living vicariously by watching others perform, if she was inclined to volunteer to help the less fortunate.

You're gonna get a list a mile long depending on the man. Some want it all. Some want very little. Some say they want one thing but they really want another. Good luck figuring out what guys want. Better to just figure out what YOUR GUY wants.

Having said that, I find that ALL guys (and girls for that matter)seem to want the same basic things really, and coincidentally they all start with the letter A...

Attention
Affection
Acceptance
And a piece of ______ (hint, you have starting letter, add SS)

To get that requires just a few basic things, and coincidentally they all start with the letter C...

Communication
Compromise
Commitment
Compassion

Disclaimer: Lists not in any particular order. I do not speak for everyone. This is just my observation.

anyone have anymore BBQ chips?

Not a guy but know what men have told me they want.

They want a female that is ok with being female. Doesn't mean they have to be Barbie 24/7 but if you look ,act, smell, and treat a man like your one of he guys or your his Mom don't be surprised if he is attracted to another female.

They want a female that is loyal/faithful. Yea it is nice that you flirt with him but if he gets the feeling that he can't turn his back or you are going to stab him in the back no matter how good it is up front it isn't going to be worth it.

They want a female that gets that sex is eventually going to be part of the deal. Real men don't have to snatch your panties off on the first date but if sex is never on the agenda they might as well just live with their Mom/Sister/ their dog.

They want a female that has something between her ears. Don't have to be a rocket scientist but have a little common sense and opinions and yea know about enough stuff to have a conversation once in awhile and they will be attracted to more than your boobs.

They want a female that needs to be provided for/protected. Working just to pay for himself gets old and get real it is the social norm that has been put out there as long as they have existed. Doesn't mean he wants to be an unappreciated ATM with Hair but would be nice to have someone to bring home the bacon for.

They want a female they actually like as a person. Be yourself because sooner or later who you really are will come through. All the better if she s actually like them as found. Men don't put themselves out there to be reformulated, bent, folded, or mutilated anymore they they look for a woman to do that too. Women who at least attempt to find common ground are a lot easier to ask out/live with/mate.

They want a female that is going to fit in with their friends/family/coworkers. At 13/23 it may be about rebellion but when maturity sets in would be nice they don't have to buck the whole world just to be with you. If you hate their job, make their family crazy, can't stand their best friend they know you really don't want them and life with you is going to be miserable once the "new" wears off.

They want a female that has a minimum of baggage. Nobodies perfect but if you are walking around with a big chip on your shoulder don't be surprised if men back away. True men like to fix things and minor stuff is fine but if you are a walking disaster zone mentally, financially, socially, or spiritually they have choices and will choose someone else.

No, but I do have a couple of bags of microwave popcorn, extra butter flavor.