i dont think the mailing function here is working properly..no i m not talking about the speed..all my sent msg to individuals are marked as unread even if they are online..how can that be possible..okay they may not reply me but atleast these mails should be marked as read na..neither i m getting any visitor or replies..i have heard mingle on its own deactivate profiles nd still that guy can log in nd mail as if everything is okay,but for others his profile appear deactivated nd those functions are actually non functional.
if that is the case with me then at least the admin should have notified me with proper reasons

The 'Sent' mail function is set up so you can see
if your mail has been read.
If it has not, well, that is a person's option.
It matters not if they are online or not.
If they have blocked you, the 'Sent' mail
file will show 'unread' indefinitely.

If someone has deactivated at their own behest,
they can log back in at will.