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Topic: could it b discribed as wicked love
bobbylistic Joined Sun 09/29/13 Posts: 7	Mon 09/30/13 02:54 AM
my friend just broke up with his gf which lasted for abt 4-5years..she d exact quality of a gem,brilliant,reserved,beautiful and atmost respectful what most guy wishes for.on d otherhand my friend is dis brutal person when his angry he desend d anger on her most of the tym even in my room when they visit sumtimes...i knw dey auctually love each other with serious passion...nw she tells me she's single...would it b wise if i ask her out

shegoat Joined Mon 08/26/13 Posts: 358	Mon 09/30/13 03:02 AM
Ask her out..to where??

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Mon 09/30/13 03:08 AM
Depends whether you value your friendship or not. How would you feel if you broke up after 4, 5 yrs and your mate would start dating her almost straight away? You probs feel like punching his lights out! Apart from that, she won't even be ready for a new relationship. It takes time to find yourself again after a long term relationship. I say it's a no go.

bobbylistic Joined Sun 09/29/13 Posts: 7	Mon 09/30/13 03:45 AM
@crystal really...its nt a wise discission, on d otherhand i tink she mite nid dat affection... @shegoat....mayb 2 d beach 2 chill dat mood off

Somi99 Joined Mon 09/30/13 Posts: 2	Mon 09/30/13 03:55 AM
what matters is if you love her go have her,ask her for a date.

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Mon 09/30/13 04:56 AM
I would first ditch your friend, who doesn't sound like the type of real friend anyone should have and then ask your friend's ex-girlfriend out. Solves both problems.

loovedoove Joined Sun 09/15/13 Posts: 154	Mon 09/30/13 05:21 AM
Depends whether you value your friendship or not. How would you feel if you broke up after 4, 5 yrs and your mate would start dating her almost straight away? You probs feel like punching his lights out! Apart from that, she won't even be ready for a new relationship. It takes time to find yourself again after a long term relationship. I say it's a no go. CrystalFairy is exactly right. Bobbylistic, be realistic. Dude don't be that guy. That guy who dates the girl right after a breakup. That guy will always be the shoulder to cry on, the security blanket, and then dumped. I am not saying anything bad about her. I am just saying you do want to be the strong shoulder to cry on but if you start an intimate romance on your end, on her end you will just be the go between until her next serious relationship. She will never take you seriously if you allow yourself to be used in that manner. She will only keep coming back to you when she is in between boyfriends. Wait and let her see you in a different light when her head and heart is clear of pain.

bobbylistic Joined Sun 09/29/13 Posts: 7	Mon 09/30/13 05:38 AM
@loovedoove dats so cool.....am human nd have fillings wen it comes 2 pple i care about...i think i should lay low and jst b a supportive guy...mayb time will tell or nt....tanks

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