Topic: Please Rate My Profile and Thank You
HouseOfBlue's photo
Thu 09/26/13 05:24 AM
Please check out my profile. Why are people ignoring me?

Usnooze_Ulose's photo
Thu 09/26/13 10:28 AM
Hi Houseofblues. I dont usually look at mens profiles, but here goes:
First of all, change your name. I think houseof blues refers to your love of blues music. Is your love of blues music your best quality? Also, the blues can also be interpreted to mean sadness, as in He's feeling blue. Especially since most of your profile is about children and domestic interests. I just dont think houseofblues works well for you.
Next: Delete the last two photos. In the photo of you wearing a knit hat, you are frowning. In fact, you look quite grumpy here. Not Good! The next photo of you in green shirt, you are leaning forward, almost like you have a bad back. Who knows? Maybe you do have a bad back. Anyways, delete that photo as well.
I dont care for the B&W one of you avoiding eye contact either, but if you like it, it is probably OK. Finally, I know you want to show the American flags in your first photo to show your patriotism. Too much. Learn how to crop your photos before posting them.
Lastly, you have lots of great qualities and interests. But we only have so much space to describe ouselves and who we are looking for. Use this space wisely. Just list your top five interests using one word only.
Finally, your profile is too one dimensional. By this I mean most of your profile is about kids. How many, how old, how you adore them, yadi yada. You used up almost all your space talking about kids. Just mention that you have 3 boys, or whatever, and that you love children. Period. Use the rest of your space to be more specific about other facets of your personality, and especially much more specific about the kind of woman you are looking for.
When I read your profile, I felt that you only wanted to hear from single moms. Is this true? If so, state it specifically. Women are not going to respond to confusing, generalized profiles. Best wishes, and please forgive my rather direct personality.