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Edited by
Cheryline22
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Sat 09/21/13 08:45 PM
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This young handsome tall arabic guy approached me in front of starbucks in a rainy saturday's night..
He was soft spoken and sweet talked me throughout the night.. He complimented my look repeatedly, said he liked tall slim chinese girl, my long black hair, and didn't like chinese to dye her color light, he said my eyes were sexy and liked the fact I didn't use makeup cz I dnt need tht and blah blah blah..then he held my hands and said he loved me (scary I know) and repeatedly asked if I loved him too..then he'd say he swear to god about his love for me and blah blah blah..I just laughed because I recognized him as a womanizer base on previous painful experience.. After that night, he would text me regularly, then only I'd flirt back and make excuses to avoid meeting him.. And last night, his gf called me and questioned about me and him.@@ I told her am not interested in her bf, and she shud go google 'womanizer'and would be surprised the signs pointed to her bf.. She's really upset(they've been tgt for 5 months) and I really don't know how to help her, I felt her pain cz I've been there.. Sorry for the long story, jst to vent out a lil bit.. Hs anyone had experience with this kind of con artists, be it womanizer,sociapath,or maneater? Ohya, and the girl is chinese light golden brown hair,wear makeup,abit fat(well nt fat jst bigger) |
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Edited by
Simonedemidova
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Sat 09/21/13 08:41 PM
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That sux, I'm sorry. At least you didn't get emotionally involved, I hope and now she also knows. You did nothing wrong, it's him. My bf cheated on me after a year and his new gf called me asking if "we" were having an affair. I told her I dumped him and she can have him, she said they were dating for only a month and I knew it already which is why I dumped him (because his brother told me) and she was shocked when I told her were together for a year. She about died, then she dumped him while she called me on the phone right in front of him. You told his gf and it's up to her to make her own decision.
 Ps I've been dating his brother for about 5 months now.  
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Be glad you found out what kind of person he was sooner rather than later, at least you didn't get hurt. There are tons of creeps out there...
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That sux, I'm sorry. At least you didn't get emotionally involved, I hope and now she also knows. You did nothing wrong, it's him. My bf cheated on me after a year and his new gf called me asking if "we" were having an affair. I told her I dumped him and she can have him, she said they were dating for only a month and I knew it already which is why I dumped him (because his brother told me) and she was shocked when I told her were together for a year. She about died, then she dumped him while she called me on the phone right in front of him. You told his gf and it's up to her to make her own decision. Ps I've been dating his brother for about 5 months now.
Wow, you rock!! I like how you jst dumped him and not lookin back!! And I also told her, be prepared for his sweet talk beggin you back, and its ur choice! |
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Be glad you found out what kind of person he was sooner rather than later, at least you didn't get hurt. There are tons of creeps out there... Yep, glad that I read a lot of random stuffs online..I always say google is your friend..lol |
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THat happened to me once we went out on a couple of dates.... then his gf for over 5 yrs called me. I walked away... didn't care much. Then a year later I get the same call from the gf.... I told her it would be best to just move on instead of saving every girls number and making a fool of herself. She started crying
 can't stand when women let the men humiliate them ugh!!!
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That sux, I'm sorry. At least you didn't get emotionally involved, I hope and now she also knows. You did nothing wrong, it's him. My bf cheated on me after a year and his new gf called me asking if "we" were having an affair. I told her I dumped him and she can have him, she said they were dating for only a month and I knew it already which is why I dumped him (because his brother told me) and she was shocked when I told her were together for a year. She about died, then she dumped him while she called me on the phone right in front of him. You told his gf and it's up to her to make her own decision. Ps I've been dating his brother for about 5 months now.
Wow, you rock!! I like how you jst dumped him and not lookin back!! And I also told her, be prepared for his sweet talk beggin you back, and its ur choice! It was time, he loved me one day and picked fights at random times, for no reason at all, which is why I got suspicious in the first place. |
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I'm questioning this, I mean if you realized he was a womanizer right away, why in the world would you give him your real phone number?
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I'm questioning this, I mean if you realized he was a womanizer right away, why in the world would you give him your real phone number? Flattery gets you far, but not far enough. 
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THat happened to me once we went out on a couple of dates.... then his gf for over 5 yrs called me. I walked away... didn't care much. Then a year later I get the same call from the gf.... I told her it would be best to just move on instead of saving every girls number and making a fool of herself. She started crying can't stand when women let the men humiliate them ugh!!!
But babe its not easy to get over it after being deeply attached for 5years..she needs help, and you're so cool!! |
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THat happened to me once we went out on a couple of dates.... then his gf for over 5 yrs called me. I walked away... didn't care much. Then a year later I get the same call from the gf.... I told her it would be best to just move on instead of saving every girls number and making a fool of herself. She started crying can't stand when women let the men humiliate them ugh!!!
He probably verbally abuses her into thinking he is all she could ever get. Men do that. 
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I'm questioning this, I mean if you realized he was a womanizer right away, why in the world would you give him your real phone number? He was really nice and 'normal' in the beginning, and he mentioned abt his next month birthday party and asked for my number..and I figure I can always block him whenver I want to if he actin weird..then he started all the playboys tactics on me..and thts interestin, because for me he's psycho, so I jst played along without seeing him again ever~ |
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I'm questioning this, I mean if you realized he was a womanizer right away, why in the world would you give him your real phone number? He was really nice and 'normal' in the beginning, and he mentioned abt his next month birthday party and asked for my number..and I figure I can always block him whenver I want to if he actin weird..then he started all the playboys tactics on me..and thts interestin, because for me he's psycho, so I jst played along without seeing him again ever~ good job.
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Ohh!! Its sux
But dontworry dear i am here 4 you...you can try me.....i will never disapoint you |
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Sorry dear ...
I am just joking.....but i really feel sad 4 you...bcs you know pakistan & china friendship!!! |
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Sorry dear ... I am just joking.....but i really feel sad 4 you...bcs you know pakistan & china friendship!!! Cough!! Am not frm china |
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I mean You have a china look dear
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Sun 09/22/13 02:33 AM
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Don't really get it. You say you realized he was a womanizer and yet you spent the entire night with him??? Gave him your phone number, you even flirted with him, even though you knew he was a womanizer, and then tried to avoid him.
And now you're oh so concerned about his girlfriend? And in your last sentence you find it necessary to point out that you look so much better than his girlfriend? Sorry, find your story somewhat weird. Sounds to me you simply let him get to you, you fell for his stories, then later on you found out he had a girlfriend. And even then, why go to the extend of trying to find help for this girl, even here at Mingle? Maybe it's me, but this all feels somewhat funky |
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Edited by
Cheryline22
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Sun 09/22/13 04:04 AM
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Don't really get it. You say you realized he was a womanizer and yet you spent the entire night with him??? Gave him your phone number, you even flirted with him, even though you knew he was a womanizer, and then tried to avoid him. And now you're oh so concerned about his girlfriend? And in your last sentence you find it necessary to point out that you look so much better than his girlfriend? Sorry, find your story somewhat weird. Sounds to me you simply let him get to you, you fell for his stories, then later on you found out he had a girlfriend. And even then, why go to the extend of trying to find help for this girl, even here at Mingle? Maybe it's me, but this all feels somewhat funky Let me clear up ur doubts then 1. The last sentence nt tryin to put her down cz I dnt think girls with more meat unattractive, same goes to girls with lighter hair color or wear makeup, cz I do wear makeup sometimes..jst tryna say he told me the type of girl he wants completely opposite of his gf,because he tryna sweet talk me..perhaps when he's with the gf he'd say the opposite like I dislike girl as thin as stick..u get me? 2. When I say throughout the night doesn't mean the entire night, jst tryna emphasized throughout the 3hrs convo( I think frm 10pm-1am)he kept talkin wht girls want to hear.. 3. As to why I gave him my number, because although he seemed insane but he's not stupid,he acted normal in the beginnin,so I gav my number..and I dnt see anythin wrong givin off numbers to strangers cz I can always block them..my phone is always in silent mode and I dnt pick calls, jst my habit(weird?) 4. And about flirt and then avoid..am bored most of the time,thts the main reason I joined this site.. So when he texts me and am free I'll reply sth like 'yes baby of course I miss u but I cnt meet u today am workin or am with my friend or blah blah blah..and yes I always hv excuse, and I won't text him first,if he tired of textin me let it be.. And lastly about helpin the girl out, she askd wht happened between me and him, I said nothing, we aint an item, then he questioned why I called him baby, she wanna know how we met and wht we did,so I told her everythin,and asked her to google'how to spot a womanizer', then last night she kept callin me,sayin she's sad,she even hit the wall with her head..and am not tryin to get help frm mingle,cz u can only help urself which is move on.. Postin here to see if anyone here has come across sth similar..its more abt sharing stories and encourage whoever been hurt Excuse my english, never really had a proper english class..sorry |
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