Why do I keep getting replies from women telling me to get off this "crazy site" and join them on another website? I do not see the point because we can communicate on this website. So what is the difference?

Most of the time people that want you to talk to them off this site are probably scammers and they don't want to get booted from this site. So they ask you to talk else where because it makes it harder form the site admins to investigate any allegations of misconduct.

Yeah I get requests for Facebook, and people strait just email me their phone number, or say go to yahoo chat. If I met you here, your my mingle friend. That's all. And why should we trust anyone whos in such a rush?

This is one of those obvious scammer tactics.
Get you off-site first.
Now you know :-)

if u value your time and money ignore anyone that asks u to move to another site they are out to scam and hurt if u feel pissed off with that shite tell them where to go

This is nonsense
i send invite when i am sure someone is right to see my content on facebook which is far more rich than this site can provide.

To be honest i sent invite to lawgiver to be able to see who he is and to genuinely show what i have about self.
Facebook system is simple yet effective, if you do not like someone, you just block him, there is not fuss with admins and reporting.

Before posting such things inform yourself and do not look so black at the security issue. There is internet beside Mingle and security is pretty much the same nowadays on major sites.
Not all people are scammers just because they invited you to see who you and who they are and really have exchange but without masks this time.

Wrong, they can steal your pictures off your facebook site and use them to create other profiles to scam still others. But if that's what you want then go ahead. I speak from experience. Never again.

Agreed.. stay on mingle & in the forums, scammers suck a$$ lol

Yes you are right in some ways but you wont give facebook link to just anyone. For me if someone refuses for long to show up on some other places ot really exchange how he is seems far worse sign than anything. I would risk rather than spend hours and hours speaking with someone who wont show at all. Having nothing to hide on my facebook but scammers actually do have something to hide. Common look of scammer`s profile one can easily catch. Such profiles are, new, empty and again not much info provided.
Quick analysis of profile says it all.

Stop whining and ranting lawgiver, i have seen some better posts than this Jason red6mist etc

I have guys messaging me asking me for my phone number, My Yahoo , my email and do I have a facebook because they want to talk to me more privately. .....

We are here to exchange at some point, you should just know with whom, follow common sense and logic. Being scared wont help to get friend or date. We are here to communicate, being careful is must but to be paranoid or unable to read person at all is a bit too much.
I would not give phone number just like that if at all. To whom i ever gave, i`ve seen them and spent vast of time together.

Cheers

so true but I'm not giving. my personal information out anytime soon if a guy wants to talk to me he can talk to me on here and it just amazes me how very forward guys are on here. it's a lot different then it was the first time I came on here in 2008

I am just dying in deep boredom awaiting messages, there are internets besides mingle too. You know i am impatient and ADHD, thing are slow pace here and i see not much about people. I was measuring time, made an experiment while being on mingle, staring at clock for half an hours took 1 hour and 45 min and not looking at the clock but estimating when half an hour passed took 17 min. I guess you got it now why.

Some are fast forward to arrange date or marriage before showing up their "good looks" and other qualities, i guess matter of temper, scam or living in a dream land just playing around. Some married me in third message and i was seeing pictures of waterfalls only.

Desperation is a sign that one is desperate to meet someone in whatever way possible and these scammers know that, why do you think they ask you for your personal information? Desperation is what they feed on--another easy target.

Not desperate, having way too much to do in life and never enough of time, just got that mingle is a bit slow as many people talk with many people at the same time and switch from one to another person having multiple chats, so i found it somehow loss of time and thought it can be spent more creative with more content but lawgiver simply wont provide us with his quirky persona, chronically having that problem with howto make a picture but i have faith in him. I really do.
This way is just scattered convo, till next message i forget someone`s name. No one asked me personal information but they asked me android phones, gadgets...
Scammers do not really want to meet heh. I am lousy target and times when scammers supposed to be smart passed, not that hard to spot them.

Well,I guess they are as crazy as this "crazy" site too??