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Topic: Stereotype
massiel Joined Wed 05/15/13 Posts: 480	Mon 09/09/13 05:23 PM Edited by massiel on Mon 09/09/13 05:25 PM
My aunt just told me the reason I'm single is because I'm spanish. According to her... all spanish women have nasty attitudes and now every man fears us... Wtf? Do you men actually believe that? I know I'm a caring person and like every other being... I too can have a slight attitude every now and then. I was shocked that my aunt believes this Ugh!! I HATE when people stereotype me!!!!

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Mon 09/09/13 05:26 PM
It's BS. Your looks come from your heritage but your attitude comes from your heart.

massiel Joined Wed 05/15/13 Posts: 480	Mon 09/09/13 05:30 PM
It's BS. Your looks come from your heritage but your attitude comes from your heart. Thank you! These women can be frustrating!

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Mon 09/09/13 05:33 PM Edited by Simonedemidova on Mon 09/09/13 05:34 PM
People need to stop labeling each other and just deal with their own problems. My mom says I'm disrespecting myself and god by not going to church every Sunday

SimplicityAtItsBest Joined Mon 09/10/12 Posts: 960	Mon 09/09/13 05:34 PM
I hear ya. People do it all the time to me. I don't give a fk though. Just be you. Let people stereotype all they want.

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Mon 09/09/13 05:39 PM
a lot of friends i have prefer spanish woman....they say the spanish woman treat them good and don't make problems for them....there spanish woman say anglo guys treat them better also.........there's good and bad everywhere its what we focus on............

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Mon 09/09/13 05:41 PM
Yah they aren't called LATIN LOVERS for nothing are they?

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Mon 09/09/13 05:46 PM
a moral compass looks good on a woman.....without values we would be animals..... going to church with your mom is a positive way to stay close to her....a woman who is close to her family is very attractive.......

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Mon 09/09/13 05:48 PM
Blah blah blah blah Something about b(@)(@)bs ...oh sorry wrong thread ?

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Mon 09/09/13 05:50 PM
My favorite wife is Mexican/Apache. I'm just happy she don't hit the fire water.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Mon 09/09/13 05:50 PM
My aunt just told me the reason I'm single is because I'm spanish. According to her... all spanish women have nasty attitudes and now every man fears us... Wtf? Do you men actually believe that? I know I'm a caring person and like every other being... I too can have a slight attitude every now and then. I was shocked that my aunt believes this Ugh!! I HATE when people stereotype me!!!! Uh, is your aunt Spanish? Anyway, your aunt is wrong. My late wife was a Latina from Peru, and she did not have a nasty attitude.

massiel Joined Wed 05/15/13 Posts: 480	Mon 09/09/13 05:51 PM
I definitely agree with all of you it just seems that people rather judge others instead of looking in the mirror.

massiel Joined Wed 05/15/13 Posts: 480	Mon 09/09/13 05:53 PM
My aunt just told me the reason I'm single is because I'm spanish. According to her... all spanish women have nasty attitudes and now every man fears us... Wtf? Do you men actually believe that? I know I'm a caring person and like every other being... I too can have a slight attitude every now and then. I was shocked that my aunt believes this Ugh!! I HATE when people stereotype me!!!! Uh, is your aunt Spanish? Anyway, your aunt is wrong. My late wife was a Latina from Peru, and she did not have a nasty attitude. She is... that's why I was so shocked that she would actually believe that...

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Mon 09/09/13 06:04 PM
Actually i like Spanish women but I find that the ladies who live around me seem to only want Spanish guys...

KinBarrie Joined Fri 08/16/13 Posts: 1752	Mon 09/09/13 06:09 PM Edited by KinBarrie on Mon 09/09/13 06:16 PM
Blah blah blah blah Something about b(@)(@)bs ...oh sorry wrong thread ? Yeah, we gotta watch ourselves here.

massiel Joined Wed 05/15/13 Posts: 480	Mon 09/09/13 06:10 PM
Actually i like Spanish women but I find that the ladies who live around me seem to only want Spanish guys... I have no preference. .... but when it comes to dancing bachata..... I love my spanish guys

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Mon 09/09/13 06:14 PM
Meh, pay it no mind. You can't change how people choose to stereotype others, but you can defeat them and prove them wrong. It is always nice to put that shoe in their mouth.

KinBarrie Joined Fri 08/16/13 Posts: 1752	Mon 09/09/13 06:19 PM
I think your Aunt should have worded it a different way. There are stereotypes for all peoples of the world. And I've met enough hot headed people from all backgrounds to know stereotyping another/or even the same ethnic group of people is wrong. I'm sure there are a lot of sweet Hispanic ladies out there, yourself included.

Edy_ca Joined Sat 10/10/09 Posts: 1999	Mon 09/09/13 06:21 PM
My aunt just told me the reason I'm single is because I'm spanish. According to her... all spanish women have nasty attitudes and now every man fears us... Wtf? Do you men actually believe that? I know I'm a caring person and like every other being... I too can have a slight attitude every now and then. I was shocked that my aunt believes this Ugh!! I HATE when people stereotype me!!!! BS!! My mother says I raise my kids like animals because I chose not to baptize them and I don't raise them as Catholics

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Mon 09/09/13 06:23 PM
Actually i like Spanish women but I find that the ladies who live around me seem to only want Spanish guys... I have noticed that most spanish women are with spanish men BUT the spanish men love their white women. I think the spanish men love all their women