Bay, it took a year on this site to find her to. so that should say alot on how people are today...

Indeed!

I know I'll have my own story someday.

In the mean time, I shall live vicariously through you and the others with good testimonials!

try 24 hours of knowing someone and they say they love you....that was scarey

I agree with what KB said about it being a 'people thing" true that....

This is the perfect mediums to say anything - no direct contact= no consequence.

I've learned to use the DELETE feature and focus on positive discussions/comments. There are some really genuine people here.

All good things

24 hours Wait a min! don't you call that love at first sight well almost

Bay, you just keep being you and some man is going to find out how lucky he is

Talking about hurt feelings is not something men do.
And we did,nt want to hear about anybody else having hurt feeling either.

there meanies

Awwww...Shadow!

I'm verklempt!

Can I clone you???





Thanks.

Why do men hurt your feelings??? Becuase YOU let them!
I know it sounds cold...but it is true. I for one give 100% to a relationship, if it doesn't work out...well its just another lesson of life...and yes it does hurt sometimes(specially when you have a lot of time, sacrifice and emotional ties to this person)..or should I say it use to hurt...but as you mature and get to know oneself better, you realize that if you love thyself, then no one can hurt you and you become more secure in yourself, more confident in yourself and then realize she was just a ***** anyway!! ..

(or bastard!!!! for you women )

Your welcome Bay


Redmond, it's not that men can't or wont express there feelings. It's just alot don't know how and think it's week to do so. When actually it's something that can make you strong and understand some things in life. it take more of a man to express his feelings then it is to hide them.

Good to see ya writing again Shadow,,,good advice....

once again that question can be asked the other way around.

DOORWAYS ARE UNSED FOR BOTH ENTRY AND EXIT, UNLESS YOU NAIL THEM SHUT!!!

Iam, I don't know if it's that good advice but it's what helps me. Thanks for the compliment

thats not a one way street,,,
i have bben deeply wounded by women
thats one reason i have chosen to be alone for almost 10 yrs
and thatys why still to this day ""IF"" i was forced to choose id still take my cam over a woman

Well I go with what Shadow said it is not just men that does it it is a two way street.

And yeah have had my share of heart aches myself but still can't blame all men or all women.

Been single 16 years yeah most of those years was to raise my kids but still in those 16 before now never meet one that I would stay with broken hearts can mend you pick up the pieces and move on you learn to walk across the broken glass and hope for the best.

I don't know anyone that has not had there heart broken some worse than others but still a broken heart is a broken heart.


Being honest is always the best way to go.

It's called "Being gullable."

Well Hell sexy you know how I feel. I am sick of the bs. I was nothing but honest to my bf and look what I got out of it. Men are cruel and some of them don't care about your feelings at all.

Binky...what did you "get out of it??' would you rather have had him lead you on for the rest of your life? .....forget it and move on...wasn't meant to be...you'll find someone better

I agree! Plenty of guys on this site!!!