And Tawt sure a poem is always sweet if you know someone. We had never chatted you don't call someone baby and send a poem saying I'm yours etc. something's just not right and then get all offensive when the other person doesn't like it

Well, if it was someone from the forums perhaps he thought that he knew you. People on this forum are always going on about how we are all friends here after all.

At least he put a bit of thought into what he wrote to you, even if it was misguided and if he felt stupid when you told him that you didn't like it.

What purpose does it serve to post in the forum telling people that there are oddballs on this site? You do that and it's supposedly to warn other women, so they ignore and reject guys that contact them on here, who get even more frustrated and annoyed and possibly abusive.

Free speach? Don't make me laugh. This is an internet forum and your freedom of speach is limited by rules and moderators.

all I can tell you with out giving him up is he didn't know me he's in one forum I responded twice to something he said which gives him no right to call me the names he did

One thing certain P
There is never a lack of azholes here on the internet
I wouldn't let it bother you
You are a very sweet lady and all they do is show what they really are by doing those kind of things to nice people

thank you Warren your a sweet man also

I'm sorry if a guy's first contact with a woman is writing a poem he should just castrate himself, because imo he lost his manhood. Now if he posted a poem on the forum and people responded to it, and then he responded to them...completely different story.

Second, she wasn't saying oddballs she was talking about scammers, or swindlers, same thing. A good friend of mine's mom get's taken by these scammers all the time, she sends them money thinking they have a 'relationship' yes she is very naive.

Third, woman on here I don't think ignore guys that contact them, after all they are on here and probably hoping for someone to contact them, WHO THEY HAVE AN INTEREST IN, Let's be honest here, dating is a numbers game, and it's no secret that the numbers are stacked in favor of the women, so what is a woman's job when she gets 50-200 messages a day from RANDOM guys she is going to judge the guys QUALITY and probably very quickly too. If she decides she's not interested in a particular guy, she moves on and checks the next message she is hoping to find someone she may 'click' with. So because she chooses not to send you a message saying "sorry not interested" she's ignoring you? please. Second, she may not have even gotten to your message yet, so sending a follow-up message complaining on how she is ignoring you,(when she may not of even read your message yet), does nothing but lower your own perceived quality. This is not limited to dating sites, but in general, I have buddies I no longer take to the bar with me because they will hit on the one girl they have no chance with(and she tells them so), but instead of moving on he just gets desperate and tries harder, and normally he goes home thinking "girls just don't like me", wrong "THAT girl didn't like you" He should have tried with someone else. It's a numbers game after all.

But enough of my little rant, back to the topic, scammers use these sites to prey on women(and men) to see if they can get money, or something else of value out of them, scammers are nothing but con-artist, and sometimes their activity can land them in prison, but generally not for only one instance, however, multiple instances can show a pattern of criminal(or close that) behavior, so yes report them, but i think anyone with a head on their shoulders, already knows that's the right thing to do.

btw PKH I just received an inheritance(i'm and prince from hukanatatalamabash), but our current king is freezing all the banks here so I can't put my money in this countries bank, however, I will gladly share my vast wealth with you if you would do me the favor of hiding my money from our tyrant of a king, I could deposit it in your account, and then when I get to America we can share, please send me your account number, power of attorney, social security card, and any valid credit card numbers you may have(these are the documents that my country requires in order for me to transfer the money)

Sincerely in your debt
Prince Jajapynaeto

i will gladly do so email me privately

Is it? Naw, I won't ask permission!

Hey there, ya hot, little mamasita!

lol your to funny

You know...I have been receiving emails from women who live in places that I cannot even pronounce. My mind immediately goes to these ladies choosing me for a green card or something. I shouldn't think that way though right? I mean...I am certain these lovely ladies just love me from my pics right?

If you send me your personal info, I promise not to do a single thing with it; will that restore your faith in men?

I seem to have the same problem sweetheart, people playing me for a fool, sadly for him I wised up to the game.I made it obvious I am only looking for friends, but when people make no effort in return to build that friendship? It's on your bike mate.
You seem like a nice Lady and I am sure you will find someone nice in time x

i know what you mean about the countries it's crazy. I'm sure it is your pic

best of luck to you as well

Rule Number 1:

Never give out your personal information online such as email or phone number to people you don't know.

Also I'd advise in not taking the online dating thing too seriously.
You can find decent people online however you should not put a whole lot of trust into what anyone tells you until you can be certain that they are a decent person and even then you must never let your guard down.

Just as there are decent people online, there are bad people online.
Some of whom are in kahoots with the Mountain Dew stealing alien soabs.

I answer all my messages and I have met a few Odd balls and NONE are on forums. I only know Men when we chat back and forth and then on phone. I do not Read all posts, so these Forums are not the best place for Me to meet any MAN on here. Hundreds of Men do Not post.....lol

But maybe he is the right guy